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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 6:56:17 AM   
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Good god, someone please just shoot me now
OP, why not do a search on BBW and read the 200 previous threads on it. Please


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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 7:13:56 AM   
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He does love a shapely woman who also loves herself first.



I think that this bears repeating as I never think that the size of a person is the problem when finding a relationship but the self-esteem they display.

Those people who I know that seem to have the worst time finding relationships are the ones who just reek of the "love me DESPITE my size" attitude.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 7:47:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

He does love a shapely woman who also loves herself first.



I think that this bears repeating as I never think that the size of a person is the problem when finding a relationship but the self-esteem they display.

Those people who I know that seem to have the worst time finding relationships are the ones who just reek of the "love me DESPITE my size" attitude.


Exactly.  OP, some men do not like big women.  It does NOT, contrary to belief, make the man shallow...it means he has preferences, just as some women like guys with hair (hair fetishists if you ask me who is a perfectly nice dominant with a vertically-challenged hairline...~g~), some guys like women with small breasts, some women like guys who are buff, some women like guys with a little "oomph" to them.  It is what it is and yes, some people are rude in the way they express their preferences but that does not equate to the whole population.  As an example, I don't particularly care for what I call a "boy butt" on a woman.  That is my preference but I don't make the assumption nor would I state that all guys who like small-breasted, boy-butt women are secretly gay anymore than I would assume or state that all women who like buff, tall, handsome men are secretly trophy collectors.

Now...I believe tee mentioned dipping herself and christine in chocolate for consumption?  Yes, please...

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 6:02:09 PM   
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Hi OP- Gonna tell you something I learned in high school. There are plenty of guys who love a bigger girl. I should know. I stole them from their skinny girlfriends all the time.

But do ya know why I could steal them? It's not that I am or was ever some super model. It's because I held my head high looked them straight in the eyes and told them what I wanted. Whether that was for them to do somthing for me, to go away, or to take me in the green room and **. Either way, they appreciated a girl who just was and wasn't trying to be something else.

as for chocolate: Tee and Christine.. please, please say you wont do it until CD posts another installment on the 'fodder' thread!

edited to add: Yes, I know I am not a master and that's who ya wanted to ask... but I just couldn't resist... and well, approve yourself first or even if you get all the approval in the world, it just wont matter.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 6:54:36 PM   
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i like being chubby...Sir likes me chubby...my "sister-in-submission" likes me chubby....
besides which...
it keeps me from getting all broken when having kinky freaky circus sex...~laughing~
there are some out there who don't like bbw's...they are welcome to their choices and opinions, but honestly, it doesn't affect me much overall...



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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 8:45:30 PM   
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i've only been on here a little over a month and i was worried that my size was going to stop me from finding someone but dayum, my mailbox has emails every day. Now it may be because im new but my weight is right up there on my profile and i have pictures up. i have found some really wonderful Doms to talk to and i may have found my One but we are both taking it slow. Just keep believing you are beautiful and deserve a great relationship and it will come. As everyone has already said, each has their own preference.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 9:15:04 PM   
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My Master doesn't like small gals for His eye candy preference.  I'm glad because I haven't fit that mold in years and years.  I have big tits, a plushy ass, a tummy (and a waist, thankyouverymuch), and a pair of eyes that can stare a sexy hole right through someone who catches my eye. 

Daddy and I were just talking tonight about the biggest accomplishment that has occured in our nearly 5 years together.  It isn't my learning the ropes of BDSM, getting a new car that is all mine, raising small people almost on my own.  No, He said, the best and biggest thing is that I have come to know that I am beautiful, and not only to Him.  

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 9:21:02 PM   
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No, He said, the best and biggest thing is that I have come to know that I am beautiful, and not only to Him.  


This made me smile - I'm so glad you shared it. 

And I think you're beautiful, too! 

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/15/2008 10:16:23 PM   
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Sambamanslilgirl wrote:
He has dated beauty queens however He does love a shapely woman who also loves herself first.

           That statement is so true.  It really does make a difference in a person if they *love* themselves.  It shows in the way they carry themselves, in their attitude, in the way they hold their head up a bit higher than others......in the air of confidence that surrounds them.   THAT is a powerful attractant in itself. 
           Renee'


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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/16/2008 7:13:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

My Master doesn't like small gals for His eye candy preference.  I'm glad because I haven't fit that mold in years and years.  I have big tits, a plushy ass, a tummy (and a waist, thankyouverymuch), and a pair of eyes that can stare a sexy hole right through someone who catches my eye. 

Daddy and I were just talking tonight about the biggest accomplishment that has occured in our nearly 5 years together.  It isn't my learning the ropes of BDSM, getting a new car that is all mine, raising small people almost on my own.  No, He said, the best and biggest thing is that I have come to know that I am beautiful, and not only to Him.  


I couldn't agree more, red...not just with ownedgirlie's statement about you but with your Daddy's assessment and your own learning of how right your Daddy is in his assessment.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/16/2008 11:40:28 AM   
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::Smirks:: Don't worry many doms seem to want us, bbw especially pigs like myself. The trick is choosing the right one to submit to auctually for me, I've been finding several doms whom appear interested and I want to gain weight, so therefore I have no worries of other bbw finding their right partner. I haven't met anyone just being that i tend to be quite picky in deciding whom may be right

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 5:46:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

No, He said, the best and biggest thing is that I have come to know that I am beautiful, and not only to Him.  


This made me smile - I'm so glad you shared it. 

And I think you're beautiful, too! 

Thank you, OG.  You must know by now that the feeling is mutual on my part.    I thought you were beautiful by your posting long before I ever saw the photo that confirmed what I already knew.  *hugs*

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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant
I couldn't agree more, red...not just with ownedgirlie's statement about you but with your Daddy's assessment and your own learning of how right your Daddy is in his assessment.

Thank you, CD.  You always make me blush in the sweetest of ways.  *hugs you, too*


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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:02:29 PM   
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i do not mean to rain on Your parade in the least, nevertheless, us skinny bitches (for the record, i prefer oranges to bananas, LOL!) can be as disposable as the bigger ladies. Adding personal insult to the injury of this topic, i too have been told i am fat, as well as too thin, and that i need to eat!
WTF?! i suppose i should have taken a photo of me and that succulent steak (that was as massive as my fat ass head!) i devoured last evening, along w/ some new potatoes, some awesome pasta, corn on the cob, a soda, and some cherry cheese cake! (***TY, Cr8tivSir, i am so not worthy!)
IMHO it boils down to how You see YOU, as someone else already said.
Consider the source is my final food for thought!
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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:13:20 PM   
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LBL, was your post directed at me or a fast reply?  I don't understand what you are getting at if it is directed at me. 

~ DRH

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:24:54 PM   
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An excerpt from Dianne Sylvan's The Body Sacred that sums up how I feel about this:

"Uma Thurman is skinny. I'm not.  Does that mean she loves herself more than I do? Does that give her greater value as a person, enable her to make a greater contribution to this world? Does being one of people magazine's most beautiful people mean that Jennifer Aniston will always be happy, or is spiritually fufilled- or is there a chance that she wakes up looking like complete crap and curses the mirror, just like us lowly mortals?"

We all have things about ourselves that we don't like, and all have preferences in others that we find appealing, but no one is better or worse than any other, just a matter of perspective.


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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:29:21 PM   
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh no darlin, not at You. Not in the least.
i had read through the whole thread, and as much empathy as i felt for the OP, i wished to impress that in the wrong mindset, we all can be victims to those who desire to destroy, simply to.
Truth be told, DRH, i am most found of Your overall views on the boards, and if i may be so forward i think You are a stunning lady!
Please do not be amiss, i meant no hram, and if i hurt You, please accept my most gracious apology.i assure You good lady, that was so NOT my intent.
b.~
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

LBL, was your post directed at me or a fast reply?  I don't understand what you are getting at if it is directed at me. 

~ DRH

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:40:03 PM   
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No hurt feelings or anything here, sweet LBL.  I just kept reading the page and thought I was missing something, LOL.  (which would not be unheard of tonight as I am so tired after a long week)  I completely agree with what you had to say about people who want to tear down instead of build up, it can happen on either side of the scale.

Thank you for your kind words, I value your postings as well, and you, too, are quite lovely! 

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:52:31 PM   
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Ummmmmmmm.......does this mean we are over the bananas.............just when a topic was attracting international attention.........oh nevermind...hehe......WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:55:02 PM   
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Sorry but no dancing orange smilie. Coincidence? lol

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 6:56:52 PM   
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Shly kisses DRH!! Very good then!
You know lady, such a mindset affects us all, on some level, at some time. i suppose that is what i wished and failed to say as well.
My Sir took 400 photos of me last week DRH. i had asked, as a means to push myself. i loath my photo being taken, ohhh Lord i so do. When You try so hard to be so right, it usually tips the scales a bit. Such is the case when i get my photo taken. i try so hard, i look like i am mentally challenged, BY CHOICE! i so wanted to see what my Sir said he sees, b/c i could not. After 6hrs, and 400 photos, i was so at ease, i was laughing/crying/blushing/ and blissful that i had been altered. i could see what my Sir had wanted me to see!  i saw me DRH, and i FINALLY liked what i saw!
B/c some balloon head here says i am fat (or to skinny, or need to eat) is NOT going to stop me from putting my feed bag on (& i just had to brag on the spectacular dinner my Sir made for U/us last evening! Shoot lady, i ain't proud, i got my eat on, let me tell ya!!)!
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