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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 7:18:02 PM

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And THAT, LBL... is a wonderful awakening! *hugs you big*

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 7:25:48 PM

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INDEED DRH!!
Is NOT about sunshine being blown up my skirt, is not JUST about hearing my Sir, but rather trusting in that i should be listening to all the positive he so graciously affords me. It is about shutting out, and quieting all the NAY sayers, namely the ones in my own head! Is about one tried and true question imho DRH: where is the love orginating from??
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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/18/2008 8:44:24 PM

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I like picture #3 . The glasses/book kneeling on the floor thing is IMO, very erotic. :)

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RE: bbw submissives? - 5/19/2008 5:08:27 AM

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Sorry but no dancing orange smilie. Coincidence? lol

How 'bout a pineapple then? It's got a big bottom! LOL...

(damn, this thing might actually have more wiggle in its bottom than me! the horror!!!)

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 9:21:42 AM

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RED>>>>i can post the photos i choose to post, dressed or undressed! i am proud of my body and my sexuality! what i am not proud of is the people in this lifestyle that take advantage, insult me and others for no real good reason except to flex their muscle or make people think they are smart! please do not attack me, you do not know me!

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Curvy and obese aren't the same thing, Tempting. One is healthy and hawt. The other is an officially recognized medical epidemic.

Edited to add: And just for the frikkin record, I am *not* saying anyone should be ridiculed for how they look, outside a consensual scene.

Ach! generally I do not usually get hot under the collar about this issue..but the person I replied to, I have noted, has in a couple of other threads made well known his derision of obese women, and while I have no issue with people who have preferences..please dont feed me a shit sandwich and tell me it is tuna on rye..But anyway, thank you Red for the clarification you supplied, and I would never presume to think you were saying someone should be ridiculed for such..best/Tempting

Thanks for the kind response. I really regretted posting on this thread at all, and I almost deleted the comment (first time I thought of doing that), but decided I should take my lumps if I had some coming.

A billion dollar sugar industry, a billion dollar high fructose corn syrup industry, a billion dollar diet industry that maximizes its profits if people start a weight loss program but then give up -- and, yeah, people not taking enough care of themselves. But the price of fruits and vegetables is going through the roof. People are going to buy food that is not as good for them, and they probably won't be losing weight.

With all these pressures and mixed signals, it's no wonder you get profiles like the OP's, whose words are attractive and reserved, but whose photo is flesh-in-your-face and whose interests read as though she's an expert in every sexual act invented since time began. As long as she thinks the only way to attract a committed man is through her sexuality... well, do I really have to finish that sentence?

OP, as already suggested above, put some clothes on. It doesn't mean you're ugly. It means you are "hard to get."

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 9:28:08 AM

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I am a bbw and although I did not read all the posts I have not had a problem finding men.
I think we have to realize that people respond to what they respond to. Men and people in general respond to someone who is confidant in who they are. AND...yes some people are going to be mean in regards to size but this site is no different from the other dating sites. Sometimes people can be mean. Just know then that person isn't for you.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 9:29:55 AM

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Good god, someone please just shoot me now
OP, why not do a search on BBW and read the 200 previous threads on it. Please

isnt it dead yet?

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this is a free service! i am a member just like all of you!! i post what i want, i wear or not wear what i want! just like everyone of you do!!!!
you do have OPTIONS!!!!! do not read or click this thread!!!!GAWD get over yourselves......i will never ever be an OP here again.........later!

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 10:18:14 AM

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I am a bbw and although I did not read all the posts I have not had a problem finding men.
I think we have to realize that people respond to what they respond to. Men and people in general respond to someone who is confidant in who they are. AND...yes some people are going to be mean in regards to size but this site is no different from the other dating sites. Sometimes people can be mean. Just know then that person isn't for you.

Thank you for the kind words califsue!

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 11:36:25 AM

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im sorry, ive tried to work it out, but what does BBW stand for - and i know i could go and search, but ive had a very busy weekend and im really really tired..

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 11:37:48 AM

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bbw = big, beautiful woman

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 12:12:02 PM

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or beautiful black woman

take your pick but i'm a bbbw = big beautiful black woman

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 12:40:59 PM

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I am also not a "small person" as I like to say,(and new here) but like so many others have been saying, really it's all a matter of accepting who you are, and learning to be the best you that you can be, regardless of the body you wear.. Also.. if you are having a hard time with this, there are so many great books out there that help with what they like to call "Size-esteem" We all have gifts we bring to this world.. find something to love about yourself, that is uniquely you, and when the right one does come along... he will love everything about you, both Big and small things. Beauty truly is.. in the eye of the beholder.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 12:57:07 PM

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So the OP resurrected their three-month old thread just to pick a fight with RedMagic and others??? Okayyyyyyyyyy.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 12:59:48 PM

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You beat me to it, Cali

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 1:16:05 PM

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So the OP resurrected their three-month old thread just to pick a fight with RedMagic and others??? Okayyyyyyyyyy.

Cali

i did not mean to pick a fight. but i do wonder why others are so abusive & hateful here. why do people find humor & comfort in insulting and demeaning others? i have found alot of friends here on CM, but the mean hateful people keep showing up more & more!

i thought the thread got lost or something. i never recieved emails alerting me to all the post that carried into june. when i was changing/deleting my subscriptions, i found the thread with all the hateful post!

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 2:13:44 PM

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good grief-i am perfectly shaped and drop dead georgous (work with me here) and i still don't attract every dom that crosses my path...what can i blame that on? Maybe its not your weight at all, but something else, your personality, the car you drive, your profession, the number of kids you have, your unrealistic expactations, your low self esteem..i am NOT saying you have any of those, jsut a jumping off point for further introspection. Sounds to me like the weight bothers YOU and you are projecting that onto others.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 2:16:02 PM

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OMG! So am I! ^5 girfriend

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 2:20:39 PM

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So the OP resurrected their three-month old thread just to pick a fight with RedMagic and others??? Okayyyyyyyyyy.

Cali

i'd look back and read the thread through...but i'm too busy being all friggin' hawt and sexy to care....

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 2:26:21 PM

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i will admit i have had problems with my self esteem after my divorce and it took time for me to regain my confidence. i am not perfect by any means, but all this was 4 years ago. i am happy with myself and i have found that there are so many attracted to women of size. as a matter of fact, there are many that prefer women with big tits & big asses! hehehehe!

i really wanted to know of others experiences. i think others will agree and you may as well that this lifestyle has a group of crazy sick individuals looking for people to abuse & use for their own twisted needs, like cheating on their wives etc. i was just wondering if this was more prominant with overweight women etc. it seems i had a really bad experience with a so called Dom here on CM. when i refused his advances once i found out what he was truly all about, he began calling me names referencing to the fact i am an overweight woman.

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RE: bbw submissives? - 8/16/2008 2:28:56 PM

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Was this in real time or via email? If email, ya need to get a little thicker skin. What do you care what some internet person says? If in real time, well better you found out early on. Hey...I'm hwp and you should hear what I've been called. You can't let something like that bother you. It's him covering up his own insecurities.

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