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Insatiable4Black -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 6:32:16 PM)
I'm a teacher.. "No thanks" to posting pictures (with my face) here on CM. What I do in my bedroom... (livingroom, kitchen, hallway, bathroom.. ahem ~sorry I digress) is NO ONE'S business. It's not about "Leather Pride" - it's about my privacy. It's not a badge of honor to be involved in D/s and BDSM. It's just a personal choice. I'm not embarrassed by the way I love a Man. In fact, anyone that knows me knows I prefer a traditional (1950s) household. My students and the school board don't need to know I'm into spankings, fistings and wartenburg wheels. End transmission.

PsyVamp -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 6:40:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMacey Now for someone who is sorta out--they participate in some fashion and are comfortable amongst that grouping--but who would still be devastated by having their name next to their photo with KINKY stamped across on the front page of the local paper, it can be a real problem. Oh crap, I think most people know that I'm kinky... I mean for heaven's sake, one of my coworkers even saw my pet's mattress at the foot of my bed. And there is the odd remark about some guy that would look hot tied to my wall .... Now, if you said that I was a sadist, that might cause a bit more of a stir (I live in a Podunk town where the word sadist might equate to iron maiden chambers). Tell people that I'm a Therian Vampire Domme and they will surely lock me up and give me the good drugs. But kinky? nope, don't have to worry about that word one bit. Lady Jag

RedMagic1 -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 6:46:25 PM)
Keeping private things private is sensible and in good taste. Who likes to hear the vanilla person brag or complain about how good/bad the spouse was in bed last night? It's not suitable for a workplace. My own posts were in response to someone who was so worried about being exposed that he claimed the blackmailer would have the upper hand. That is going completely overboard, and I hope everyone reading this thread understands that if someone tries to blackmail you, it is absolutely possible to fight back successfully.

mnottertail -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 6:47:18 PM)
Hi, Ja......I get blackmailed all the time, my name is Ron Melby and I live in Richville, Minnesota. You should probably be aware that if you decide that you can get close enough to me (in person, 'cause I throw my mail away, there is way too fuckin' many bills in there......) and I am computer illiterate, I don't know what IM me means.......and we finally meet in person, you are going to have to suck alotta cock, so there is that to consider...........but if you think there is some kinda money here, well...I grow rock and thistle, and the brickyards are overpowering me, and the nigerians can lay up a bag of thistle seed for your birds in bulk, when all I gots is a tweezers and a bee suit...........well you can just have at it..... Ron

RedMagic1 -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 6:50:43 PM)
Ron!!!! Good to "see" you. Your post reminds me: I should mention there are a lot of CM and Alt people, male and female, who have my photo, my full name, my web site, the whole nine yards. And I don't use a "scene" name. The best defense is a good offense.

mnottertail -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:10:07 PM)
And there's the question of the ages, innit? How do it know? Answer that, your grace, and I will let you hold a pewterfit quarter with no hawk on it for a blowjob. Ron

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:19:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick My ex-husband would use it against me to try to get custody of our daughter. Not that I think he would win, but I don't want to go thru the time, the drama, the hassle, and the expense of the whole mess. He is still angry that I got almost everything I asked for, so I'm sure he would use anything he could find to try to undo some of that. Cali That's why I had my ex join here.. Makes it much simpler on everyone..

Lynnxz -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:26:56 PM)
Keep in mind, I think location of where people live also has a say in how bad "being outed" could be. I'd think you would be much more likely to lose your job/friends/spouse if you were discovered in the southern "Bible Belt" than you would be in other areas. -Lynn, who lives in the fricking bible belt

mnottertail -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:29:36 PM)
My point still is without any sort of answer. HAH? What the fuck are you talking about, I am confused? Explain yourself. What is the issue? Ron

LadyLynx -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:30:42 PM)
Even if you don't believe that there are good reasons that cause some of us to maintain our privacy, you should still respect that. I can easily imagine myself in a situation where I would have to be more vigilant about my privacy then I am now. If it was a stranger, or someone I didn't know, then I would act like they were bluffing, but an ex-husband, or someone else that was close, I don't know........hard to say exactly how I would react.

LadyLynx -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:32:51 PM)
I agree Lynnxz, luckly it is fairly liberal here. though have been contemplating moving south. (not sure where yet, and will be a few years.)

shannie -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:35:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Hi, Ja......I get blackmailed all the time, my name is Ron Melby and I live in Richville, Minnesota. You should probably be aware that if you decide that you can get close enough to me (in person, 'cause I throw my mail away, there is way too fuckin' many bills in there......) and I am computer illiterate, I don't know what IM me means.......and we finally meet in person, you are going to have to suck alotta cock, so there is that to consider...........but if you think there is some kinda money here, well...I grow rock and thistle, and the brickyards are overpowering me, and the nigerians can lay up a bag of thistle seed for your birds in bulk, when all I gots is a tweezers and a bee suit...........well you can just have at it..... Ron LOLOL............ bee suit ... "tweezers" ... "Nigerians." Are you "begging" to be blackmailed, or what??

mnottertail -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:38:28 PM)
If that's you in the picture and you are willing to pop by the house, I will throw on a fuckin' bow-tie and a coil of hemp rope............ Ron

Lynnxz -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:44:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail My point still is without any sort of answer. HAH? What the fuck are you talking about, I am confused? Explain yourself. What is the issue? Ron Wait... what?

mnottertail -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:49:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail My point still is without any sort of answer. HAH? What the fuck are you talking about, I am confused? Explain yourself. What is the issue? Ron Wait... what? EXACTLY..........................pay close attention here, kids. So, you were saying something about the internet? Ron Melby Richville, Minnesota

ownedgirlie -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 7:55:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail If that's you in the picture and you are willing to pop by the house, I will throw on a fuckin' bow-tie and a coil of hemp rope............ Ron Hell, I just wanna see you in a bee suit....[:D]

mnottertail -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 8:10:48 PM)
In my yout, ownie, (and I am not ashamed to admit it now,) I used to hang out wit da 'bumbolean' gang, sure----we clashed colors, I admit it, Me, hermann munster, elmer fudd and a whole host of others......................... but I don do dat anymore!!!!!!! Yes, your honoer, I am kink stupid and guilty as hell!!! Trow away da key, I beg of you....... LOL.

ownedgirlie -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 8:13:57 PM)
Ron's buzzin' off......Ron's buzzin' off....

BondageBarbieX -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 8:14:51 PM)
i am am unblackmailable as well,i have never hid who i am or what my lifestyle choice is.

mnottertail -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/16/2008 8:19:07 PM)
I dunno............ Ken might lay a yard or two out of the public wad to know what the fuck you been up to.

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