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LadyBug1967 -> RE: How many on here have been blackmailed? (5/31/2008 12:33:25 PM)
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I have only been in the lifestyle a little less than three years. I was a collared slave the first two years, having been collared almost immediately after finding my way to BDSM. My former Master, a man who is poly and keeps three slaves at all times, warned me repeatedly to never tell anybody about it as it could cause both me and Him problems. He's retired so I couldn't figure out how it would cause Him a problem (maybe His landlord might find out what that hook in His bedroom ceiling was for?) and I didn't (and don't) care who knows I'm in it. Blackmail me? Mail away! Everybody I work with and all my family and friends know I'm kinky.
However, when I broke up with Him last December He showed me a side to Him that I did not know existed: He is a very, very poor loser. He later contacted me and told me that He was going to make copies of all the e-mails I had ever sent Him from work, have them notarized and then present them to my commanding officer and have me fired. I was livid. He reiterated over and over again how the two things He would never mess with as far as His slaves were concerned was their family and their job. At that point I was His ex-slave, but I still expected Him to have more integrity than that. He was getting even with me for leaving Him so I decided to fight back just as dirty and give as bad as I was getting.
I told Him to give it His best shot--that I had talked to my union representative and if He carried out His threat we would demand every computer in my Flight be audited and every employee who had ever sent a personal e-mail would be fired. He knew that wouldn't happen and His threat was only an idle one. But then I went one step further and told Him that if He carried it out I would see that His reputation throughout the BDSM community was in shreds from Jacksonville to Miami and back again. He knows how small the BDSM community is and He knew I meant every word that I said. He backed off, chickensh1t that He is.
He shut up and has left me alone ever since. Twelve slaves in six years should have been a red flag to me, but He is perfectly capable of charming the skin off a snake. I recently read His profile on alt.com and note that He is getting ready to collar slave #13 and I shudder to think that He is still a member in good standing in the community and has yet another slave to add to his stable. No, He does not physically harm those who are His, but He emotionally and verbally abuses them due to His very nasty temper. I was in therapy the day I met Him and I'm in it today. He is as bad, if not worse, than my ex-husband, who is vanilla.
I'm lucky to be out of that relationship and have now discovered the real lifestyle, the one I knew it was supposed to be! I will never be a slave again and I most certainly will never be in a poly relationship again. I have my Ph.D from the School of Hard Knocks--I always learn the hard way.
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