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RE: Help: Humiliating Activities For Submissives? - 5/19/2008 5:38:01 PM   
HisObedientslave


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ORIGINAL: AMaster

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ORIGINAL: HisObedientslave

NOT defending or siding with anyone, just my two cents.. Maybe asking in public/forums here is part of her punishment.


Good point, I never thought of that.






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RE: Help: Humiliating Activities For Submissives? - 5/19/2008 7:57:25 PM   
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See yourself doing it through his eyes.
 
Then feel it.

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RE: Help: Humiliating Activities For Submissives? - 5/20/2008 6:23:30 PM   
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when you were a kid, did your parents ever send you into the woods to pick a switch before they beat you with it.  If so, you know picking the switch is often  more punishment than the actual beating.  It gives you time to dwell on what is coming, you will often pick a stronger switch than the parent would have just to be sure it is sufficient.

Not knowing your level of humiliation and limits, but I do know something that truly humiliated a former sub when she had transgressed. 
She had recently learned that she was anally orgasmic and quite loud (and she lived with her female cousin as a housemate.
We started with enjoying some anal sex but I withheld permission for her orgasm each time she approached.  Each time I took her closer and closer to a forced orgasm before backing off.  Then I started using the paddle to stop her from cumming while upping the intensity of my thrusting which drove her to distraction.

Then when she was begging for relief, I reminded her of her transgression and asked why she felt that she deserved to orgasm.  It took a few seconds for her to digest what I had said due to her stimulated state.  And when she tried to reply, I upped the intensity of my actions, causing her words to come out all jumbled.  Being a very intelligent woman, this shamed her, so she tried again.  This time using will power to attempt to keep her focus while I pounded into her rectum.  She managed to get out that she didn't deserve to cum but that would really be appreciative.  I laughed at her and told her that I was sure she would be, but that would happen later...after I had cum in her ass.

Her eyes got really big, as I had not done that before.  Seeing her reaction, I asked "are you trying to say that I can't use your ass for my pleasure?"
" no."
"No, WHAT?"
"sorry Sir, ... its ... your...ass...OMG ...i'm gonna " smack with the paddle
"Are you going to need FURTHER discipline?"
"No, Sir."
I continued reaming her ass for another 10 minutes or so, keeping her on edge and using blunt force trauma to keep her from falling over the edge
then I said "do you ever want to cum tonight?"
"yes, Sir.  PLEASE..."
"What has to happen before you can cum?"
A bit of a lost look, then slowly piecing together of our earlier conversation while she was disoriented, but her response was too slow, so I stopped pounding into her and thumped her clit.
"Sir, I must make you cum first"
"Good, girl"
"now on your knees and please me." as she rolled herself over, it dawned on her that I wanted her to please me orally and my cock had been in her ass for the last half hour.  With a look of utter horror, she stuck out her tongue to lick the head of my cock.
I grabbed a big chunk of her hair and pulled her face back to look into mine.  "Is that going to make me cum?"
"No, Sir." as she forced her mouth open and forced herself down on my cock.  Gagging and gagging some more as she tasted herself.  I grabbed the back of her head and jammed my cock down her throat and thrusted quickly and deeply until I heard her groan then pulled my cock out and spanked her with it.
"you are such an oral slut.  You were gonna cum weren't you?"
"NO, Sir"
"but you were close, weren't you?"
"Yes, Sir" with a huge red glow appearing on her face
"and you hardly even remembered the shit on my cock after my cock started pounding down your throat."
a very sheepish reply,"yes, Sir"
"roll over and back on your knees" then I rammed my cock back in her ass and pounded away until I came a huge load deep in her ass.

After she was sure that I was done cumming, she stopped rocking her hips back into me as she vibrated on the edge of orgasm.  I pulled my cock completely out of her and in a very authoritative tone told her, " put your thumb in your ass." which she did "and clean my cock" which she greedily did with her mouth and a very crimson face.

When she was done I patted her on the head and told her, now your discipline starts.

She went ghost white.  She thought it was finished.

in a very quiet voice I gave her instructions.
without putting on any clothes
without removing your thumb from your ass
go into the kitchen
Open the silverware and get me a  sweet tea  spoon.
return to the bedroom leaving the door open
get back in the bed, on your back with your legs spread.

She got up out of bed and to her credit only looked back at me once when she got ready to open the door, then walked as quickly and as directly as she could with her thumb in her ass to the silverware drawer.  As she looked for the required spoon, the cousin's door opened and her cousin called out to her as she entered the kitchen.  Both women turned crimson with my slut leaving the drawer open and hastily retreating to the bedroom and at first swinging the door to close it, but stopping and re-opening it.  And her cousin beating a hasty retreat while hurling back a hasty sorry, I thought you were done.

My slut's entire body was crimson as she focused her mind as she assumed the required position, then handed me the tea spoon.

"good girl" as I took the spoon from her. " now take your thumb out of your ass.  Which she did with trepidation.

"Lick it clean." which she did as I slid the tea spoon along her ass to catch what dribbled out when her thumb popped out.
Presenting her with the spoon, "lick it clean." which she did.
Then I slid the spoon into her ass to find more of my load for her.  Bringing it to her mouth, "lick it clean".  Which she did. 
We repeated this cycle, slowly for the next few minutes, which I am sure seemed like forever.  With each cleansing of the spoon, she lost a bit of the defiance in her eyes and her body relaxed (which let more cum flow out)

"Has my slut learned a lesson?"
"Yes, Sir"
"Is that a lesson you will need to relearn?"
"NO, Sir"
"Good, now put on your robe, go run a wet washcloth over yourself and brush your teeth"
As she was brushing her teeth, I went into the bathroom and put my hand on her shoulder as she looked at me in the mirror.  Then I brought my mouth to her ear and said "now go and apologize to your cousin for me.  Tell her that it was not my intention to make her a party to that."  The look of complete shame and dejection as the image of her cousin walkin in on her flamed across her memory.

A quick pleading look, followed by resignation.  Then a task completed.
Back into the bedroom and then the orgasm I had promised.

As you may have guessed, I like my humilitation to be multilayered and my discipline to be a one time learning experience.

Hope that helped.




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RE: Help: Humiliating Activities For Submissives? - 5/21/2008 5:22:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: x0aliciax0

I think you have a good point but I don't think it would matter to my Dom or I wouldn't have done it. Eveyone's different.


That can be a dangerous thing to assume.  As LadyPact mentioned above, if my wife were to be given that assignment, and then came on here to ask the question without first seeking my permission, humiliation would be the last thing she would find herself worrying about.  I am of the mindset that it is a very bad idea to assume you know what your Dominant is thinking.  If you do find yourself going down that path of thinking, you may have another thing coming.



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RE: Help: Humiliating Activities For Submissives? - 5/31/2008 12:06:36 PM   
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the punishment should fit the crime...suggest something that directly relates to the 'crime' which you committed. what is it that you did that was so horrible, is this a repeated offence for which you did not learn the first time? Humiliation should have a lesson. that lesson should help you grow to be not only a better submissive, but a better person. He should want that for you.

If the crime is that you spoke out of turn, or with disrespect, then you should be made to attend a public speaking event, a charity or something where you would have to speak infront of other, and perhaps while doing so, he has a remote egg inside of you and adjust it as you speak. you have to maintain your composure. i suggest you learn your speech well.

if the crime is that you were out of line with another Dom, and offended Him/Her.. then write a 1000 word essay on why you should respect them, and what being a sub means to you. Then be required to address this essay verbally infront of Them .. and of course present yourself in some humiliating manner.. something that would be humiliation for you to wear.. or have done to you during the address.

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RE: Help: Humiliating Activities For Submissives? - 5/31/2008 4:32:07 PM   
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So what has happened with this???? enquiring Minds want to know....lol

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