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Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 6:14:55 AM

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A social networking site (Faceparty) has deleted most of its users over the age of 36 because it claims older users pose a danger of sex offending.

It claims to be forced into the action by the UK Government, but the part of a law it cites is not yet in force.
Faceparty has deleted what it describes as "a huge number of accounts" from its social networking site in recent weeks. It lists 'over 36 years old' as one of its reasons for deletion.
"We understand that only a minority of older users are sex offenders, but you must understand that we cannot tell which," it says in its explanation of the deletion of accounts. Source.. Out-Law.com

Ok , "Faceparty" was or is rather mainly a swingers site, but I have no axe to grind with anybodys personal flavour of kink. However to condem all because of the actions of a minority using such a blunt instrument as age beggers belief.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 6:33:44 AM

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As a would be sexual predator, this is excellent news for me. All those younger people on that site now think that theyre in a safe environment where other members can be trusted. I shall be registering forthwith and digging my plastic mac out of the wardrobe.

E (age 22)

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 6:42:37 AM

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I was under the impression that there was supposed to be a minimum age limit? If this is the case, then why are the webmasters not policing the site correctly? I was alerted to the presense of a 14 yo was using bondage.com many moons ago, I emailed the details and evidence, the little git had used a credit card as well and the young lady who was claiming to be 20 was banned toot suit! It was only by sheer chance that she was found out, a link to facebook where her true age was revealed!

Now if anyone had been caught meeting with her they'd of been charged with sexual grooming, prosecuted and more than likely found guilty and jailed! The lady who discovered her deception only came to me as she was aware of my then employment in the legal profession for advice. I'm only too glad she did as I believe she saved a lot of people a lot of grief.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 6:51:39 AM

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Speaking as a former sexual predator , yes...it would be fun.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 6:55:12 AM

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The same situation has occured here on "Collarme" , with persons even blogging about being under 18 on thier profile.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 7:46:13 AM

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so, when you turn 18 you can buy cigarettes, you're expected to vote... then 21 comes and you can drink, and now 36 is when everyone turns into sexual predators?

forget being an astronaut or a rockstar, I can't wait to grow up so I can be a sex offender.
offensive sex is the best.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 7:51:46 AM

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Of course! It all makes sense now!

I started transition at age 35 and according to the "common sense" operant in our culture, transsexual = pervert = homosexual = paedophile

Wouldnt it have just been better to restrict unmonitored contact between members with (say) five years or more age difference between them?

E

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 8:47:41 AM

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Huh? Someone please attempt to explain to me the 36+ age concern and sexual assault, abuse, etc?

We just had a rape case in this region where a 21 year old is charged with raping a 13 year old (I think the person in question is now 14). I can recall cases in the news where a 10 year old boy was charged with sexual assult against someone who was 6 or something like that.

Age is not a factor in who can be an abuser. Age is really only a factor in statuary rape after all.

If you can explain that, maybe you can explain to me why all these under aged folks need those social spaces online.

When I was that young I was so busy with school work, the drama productions, band, chorus, academic bowl, various clubs plus church stuff and family that I sure as heck didn't have the time to spend hours online with folks I'd never meet face to face.

Yeah, I have more time on my hands now so lucky or unlucky you all.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 12:12:36 PM

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offensive sex is the best.

Hahahaha, very true.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 12:21:24 PM

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Wouldnt it have just been better to restrict unmonitored contact between members with (say) five years or more age difference between them?

You aren't really suggesting that it is some how perverted (beyond our own, desirable level of perversion) for an 85 year old man to be flirting with a 70 year old woman?

or a 45 year old man to be interested in a 33 year old woman?

the entire time my children were growing up, i kept writing to AOL, (we had AOL for the kids to use, and they were restricted to the childrens area and were watched with over the shoulder supervision while online, and all their mail was read) that they let youngsters have a profile - a special kids only profile, with plenty of handy restrictions.
Most people are not offenders. it is safer to have people know that kids are kids, in general. of course, nothing makes up for just monitering your own kids.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 1:08:30 PM

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Sounds pretty common for a swinger group that is hung up on youth and beauty.

"Let's find an excuse to get rid of these ugly old people-they are so unnattractive."

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 1:32:42 PM

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Of course! It all makes sense now!

I started transition at age 35 and according to the "common sense" operant in our culture, transsexual = pervert = homosexual = paedophile

Wouldnt it have just been better to restrict unmonitored contact between members with (say) five years or more age difference between them?

E

I've come across a few nilla chat forums, IMVU is one where you can safeguard yourself by preventing anyone under 18 who hasn't positively proven their age from contacting you, or even viewing your profile! In this day and age where the child is automatically the victim, irrespective of whether they have lied about age, loocation etc etc I firmly believe that anything you can do to protect yourself should be used. The authorities these are all too quick to demonise and if you've got a kink as well it'll make their case doubly strong! Hence I totally agree with Lady Ellen sentiments.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 3:02:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: BrigandDoom

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Of course! It all makes sense now!

I started transition at age 35 and according to the "common sense" operant in our culture, transsexual = pervert = homosexual = paedophile

Wouldnt it have just been better to restrict unmonitored contact between members with (say) five years or more age difference between them?

E

I've come across a few nilla chat forums, IMVU is one where you can safeguard yourself by preventing anyone under 18 who hasn't positively proven their age from contacting you, or even viewing your profile! In this day and age where the child is automatically the victim, irrespective of whether they have lied about age, loocation etc etc I firmly believe that anything you can do to protect yourself should be used. The authorities these are all too quick to demonise and if you've got a kink as well it'll make their case doubly strong! Hence I totally agree with Lady Ellen sentiments.

And why it is an absolutley horrible idea to be an hng online-especially if someone says they are a kid. It's probably a cop.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 4:26:22 PM

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Don't you think they're being awfully generous? I mean in Logan's Run, you were "removed" when you were 21. On Faceparty you get 15 extra years. Some peeps are never satisfied, sheesh.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/23/2008 4:33:21 PM

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/24/2008 1:33:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

quote:

ORIGINAL: BrigandDoom

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Of course! It all makes sense now!

I started transition at age 35 and according to the "common sense" operant in our culture, transsexual = pervert = homosexual = paedophile

Wouldnt it have just been better to restrict unmonitored contact between members with (say) five years or more age difference between them?

E

I've come across a few nilla chat forums, IMVU is one where you can safeguard yourself by preventing anyone under 18 who hasn't positively proven their age from contacting you, or even viewing your profile! In this day and age where the child is automatically the victim, irrespective of whether they have lied about age, loocation etc etc I firmly believe that anything you can do to protect yourself should be used. The authorities these are all too quick to demonise and if you've got a kink as well it'll make their case doubly strong! Hence I totally agree with Lady Ellen sentiments.

And why it is an absolutley horrible idea to be an hng online-especially if someone says they are a kid. It's probably a cop.

Unfortunately I've come across 28 cases this year where people both male & female have meet up with people off of social networking sites where the person asking for the meet has turned out to be underage and have lied about theiir true age. As yet we do not know if the people caught out will be charged, but we have found the liars are being treated as victims! It smacks of giving matches and petrol to an arsonist, and the arsonist burns down a hotel they are the victim as they didn't mean to set the fire really!

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/25/2008 11:04:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: ShibariJon
"We understand that only a minority of older users are sex offenders, but you must understand that we cannot tell which," it says in its explanation of the deletion of accounts. Source.. Out-Law.com

I would point out that only a minority of their users who are 36 or under are sex offenders, but they can't tell which ones those are either. I think they need to delete those accounts also, think of the children!

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/25/2008 2:14:48 PM

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Sounds pretty common for a swinger group that is hung up on youth and beauty.

"Let's find an excuse to get rid of these ugly old people-they are so unnattractive."

I agree - sounds more age-ist than anti-sexual predator.
So, is it more common with the pathetic over 35s to be sexual predators than the under 35s? I would have thought that sexual predators would be practising their evil from puberty onward, rather than just starting at 35.

the good thing is is that sooner or later, they will be banned from their own site (snigger)

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/25/2008 3:54:44 PM

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Sounds pretty common for a swinger group that is hung up on youth and beauty.

"Let's find an excuse to get rid of these ugly old people-they are so unnattractive."

It's also just re-launched so the press coverage is quite handy.

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RE: Faceparty culls "elderely" members - 5/25/2008 4:28:09 PM

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Yeah, and blame it on the federal government.

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Sounds pretty common for a swinger group that is hung up on youth and beauty.

"Let's find an excuse to get rid of these ugly old people-they are so unnattractive."

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