Emperor1956
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FR: Well I guess I'm qualified for this one, being male, Dominant and having similar issues in my relationships with submissives. A few things that are possibly personal to me: I would not be offended, and would think, as did "floggings4u" that the offer was delightful. I can afford the gas, and I like paying for things, so the "bite" of the $$$ wouldn't really hurt, but on the other hand, a guy likes to be treated, even if its small dollars and he can afford the expense. I do like it when my partner makes a meal for us, or provides some sort of extra treat -- for instance, makes a lovely place for us to play, or gets herself waxed because she knows I prefer it. I don't think I'm less of a Dominant for it, either, and I think someone who equates financial support with Domination is fairly screwed up. E.
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