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OmegaG -> RE: Edge Players Only (6/5/2008 8:25:07 AM)
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OP, you remind me of a person I am disassociating myself with. She wants support, always support. She's dating a man now that she's had long term relationships with 3 times in the past. She doesn't want me to tell her that the fourth time won't be any different then the first 3, anytime I say any words of caution she whines that I don't want her to be happy, that I like seeing her alone and miserable, that I don't need to rehash the past expereinces with this man as she knows what happened. Basically, she wants me to support her, to pat her on the back and tell her that everything is wonderful and to validate her decision.
Of course like the last time when she also wouldn't listen to any words of caution, she'll want me to be there to pick up the pieces when it all blows up and she's left wondering what went wrong (again).
People are giving you information because they know that this kind of play is just crazy dangerous, they tell you this not to beat up on you, but because they are as concerned about you as a person on the internet can be. Because they don't want to have to console someone who read this thread and tried the activity anyway and come back for support when things go horribly wrong.
I don't want you or anybody to feel the headache that I felt when my spinal column was nicked (by an anesthesiologist) especially when there is a choice not to take that chance, no more then I want the person in my life to suffer yet another break up with the same man.
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