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solvr70 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 12:14:00 PM)

very true. when one starts out a thread with the "force-bi" part in it, the discussion around the whole forced word can go on for quite a bit. i started a thread a bit ago on a better way to describe it to try to avoid that.

an excellently put question/kink without using the forced word. curious that is was just limited to how many Women enjoy having a guy take a cock orally though, as there is the other end of course as well
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DominantJenny -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 12:54:49 PM)

I haven't gone through with it...yet, but it's definitely a hot fantasy for me.




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 1:08:23 PM)

If a man sucks another mans cock they are simply no longer heterosexual by any definition. If you ask me forced bi is most of the time just an excuse for a male to experiment and blame any social guilt he may feel on someone else.




solvr70 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 1:13:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

I haven't gone through with it...yet, but it's definitely a hot fantasy for me.


might i ask if Your interests are specifically having sub suck cock for You, or possibly take it in other ways as well?

*always looking to understand what excites Women better*




Wickad -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:11:47 PM)

(fast reply)

Greetings,

I love the idea of a man under my control sucking another man's cock.  This is even more erotic if the man I am controlling is straight and the man he is servicing is bi or gay.

As to the 'if you blow a man you are gay' schtick ... I couldn't disagree more.  If a straight man does something that he wouldn't normally do because I want him to ... it is an exhibition of my power, not his sexual proclivity.  I doubt anyone here would suggest that if a man is anally raped that he wanted it and thus is gay.  If the man in question didn't want it (anal sex in the case of rape or performing oral sex in the case of the OP) then he is not bi or gay, IMO of course - lol..

Wickad




azropedntied -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:26:10 PM)

I agree yet it more like calling your chevette a corvette ..

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ORIGINAL: rubberpet

To me, if a "straight" guy wants to suck another "straight" guy's dick, that's his thing...I don't care.  It doesn't hurt me, it doesn't affect me.  But I don't think he should classify himself as "straight" or "hetero" if he has that interest.  It's like calling a Corvette a truck...it doesn't make sense.  Wanting to suck another guy's cock makes you either bi- or gay.  Once again, nothing wrong with it.  Just classify it correctly is what I'm saying.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:26:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard

If a man sucks another mans cock they are simply no longer heterosexual by any definition.


Why?  You're going to have to substantiate that. 

Mss




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:28:04 PM)

You can't make people do that which they don't want to do on some level. You may be able to make a person find something within themselves they didn't realise existed but that is it. Some might do it if they are on a humiliation high but if that is the case they'd probably regret it when they came down from that high because it's something a lot of people struggle with and is something you can’t then just dismiss as a one off.




MzMia -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:31:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard

You can't make people do that which they don't want to do on some level. You may be able to make a person find something within themselves they didn't realise existed but that is it. Some might do it if they are on a humiliation high but if that is the case they'd probably regret it if when they came down from that high because it's something a lot of people struggle with and is something you can’t then just dismiss as a one off.


The old "forced bi" topic.
I actually agree to some degree with both sides.
I do happen to feel that with some men, it is a hard limit, and a line that they will not cross.
I also do not believe it is "forced" unless someone has a gun to your head.
There are many things that many people can not be forced to do, as strange as it seems.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:31:26 PM)

Are you afraid that if someone made you suck cock, that it would "turn you gay?"  Because that makes the most sense out of what you are saying.

Mss




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:32:57 PM)

If someone was able to make me suck someones cock it would mean I always was gay. Why pretend otherwise?




MzMia -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:34:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard

If someone was able to make me suck someones cock it would mean I always was gay. Why pretend otherwise?


I don't think it makes the person "gay".
But, I totally agree, there is a difference between those that can be "forced" to do it, and
those like you, that can not.
Viva la difference?




RealSub58 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:36:19 PM)

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MySweetSubmssive -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:37:32 PM)

I disagree.  When I was submissive I did quite a number of things that I did not care for.  I did things I hated.  (that isn't a complaint, though!  *smiling lustily*)  I happen to be straight, and as it happens no one asked me to go down on another woman, but if I had, I would still be the same thing -- straight.

Just to clarify my position, I do not think sexuality is a binary of gay and straight.  There is a lot of gray area.  I happen to love looking at women.  I'm a total breast woman.  But I'm not into "doing" women.

Mss




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:37:57 PM)

I honestly don't believe anyone can be forced. How then do you describe your sexuality as a straight man that occasionally sucks cock? It just doesn’t make any kind of sense, why do people have to pretend?




RealSub58 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:38:03 PM)

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DominantJenny -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:39:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: solvr70

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

I haven't gone through with it...yet, but it's definitely a hot fantasy for me.


might i ask if Your interests are specifically having sub suck cock for You, or possibly take it in other ways as well?

*always looking to understand what excites Women better*


I think it might also be hot to see him taken anally, but I'm a lot less sure about that one. (And also less sure whether he could cope with that.)

And, for the record, my man is hopelessly straight and I do not think his doing it at my order would magically make him not-straight. (I'm bi, myself.) Anymore than if he eats a food he hates because I tell him to that magically means he likes that food.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:40:22 PM)

FR to Raechard

Here's an analogy ... if you don't like brocolli, but I make you eat it, does that mean you like brocolli?

You are confusing acts and orientation.

Mss




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:40:33 PM)

I'm sure on some level everyone does we are explorers, it’s human nature.




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 2:42:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive
Here's an analogy ... if you don't like brocolli, but I make you eat it, does that mean you like brocolli?

You are confusing acts and orientation.

Mss


You can't make me eat broccoli[:D]




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