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Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:21:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny
In general, either you aren't very submissive (quite likely having looked at your profile) or you haven't met the right dominant yet.
I very much suspect that when/if there is a change, your opinion will change as well.


I'm a switch so see things differantly anyway

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ORIGINAL: RealSub58
Go Jenny Go !!
This might be VERY yummy to watch him suck a cock!!


Never say never unless it is very unlikely.




MstrVik -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:25:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard

If someone was able to make me suck someones cock it would mean I always was gay. Why pretend otherwise?


By that same way of thinking, a gay man who occasionaly happened to lick some pussy should be considered straight --- I don't think so.

Getting into the water isn't the same as taking a swim - or even knowing how to swim... And it certainly do not follow that they are going to stay there for any considerable lenght of time.




ThundersCry -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:26:30 PM)

Who said anything about doing it over and....over?




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:28:11 PM)

A gay man that occasionally licked pussy I'd class as Bisexual. I see things in black and white that is probably the problem here. I know people can experiment but this isn’t what we are talking about, we are talking about people being ‘forced’ to do things over and over again.




slvemike4u -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:29:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RealSub58

To Raechard

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1SN8EplqoOE&feature=related 

This woman makes me want to ravish every inch of her......  is this act or orientation?

Actually, I could get into her while I watched a man suck my Sir's cock and have him (my Sir) blow his load over her boobs as I ravished them.  Then watch the man who sucked my Sir shove his cock up her ass as I did a few other nasties with my tongue.

Act or orientation ?   Damn... I need a cold shower !!     [sm=flameout.gif]
Thanks for the link....i am going to need a hell of a lot more than a cold shower...any of You Dommes with a slave mind helping me out




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:29:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ThundersCry
Who said anything about doing it over and....over?


Someone described it to me as a kink, told me to Google it? How many kinks are one time affairs?




solvr70 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:33:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny

I think it might also be hot to see him taken anally, but I'm a lot less sure about that one. (And also less sure whether he could cope with that.)


true. but being taken anally, particularly if it is from behind and in the same way as having been taken by a strapon for instance,  couuld be easier then sucking cock to some, and the reverse is probably true as well. *trying to think outside the box here as there are sooo many different variations of interests about.

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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny
And, for the record, my man is hopelessly straight and I do not think his doing it at my order would magically make him not-straight. (I'm bi, myself.) Anymore than if he eats a food he hates because I tell him to that magically means he likes that food.



i'm writing that one down! very good analogy by You and MySweetSubmissive.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:36:06 PM)

It's kinda hot, watching you, a straight man, getting so bent out of shape about this. 

Mss




boyforyouruse -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:37:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard
A gay man that occasionally licked pussy I'd class as Bisexual. I see things in black and white that is probably the problem here. I know people can experiment but this isn’t what we are talking about, we are talking about people being ‘forced’ to do things over and over again.


So if a gay man occasionaly has oral sex with women he's bisexual, but a guy instantly becomes gay by sucking a dick? That just doesn't make sense.




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:39:06 PM)

That is your interpretation of my state of mind which is hard to determine through text alone.[8|]




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:40:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: boyforyouruse
So if a gay man occasionaly has oral sex with women he's bisexual, but a guy instantly becomes gay by sucking a dick? That just doesn't make sense.


Do you want me to call him bisexual instead of gay? I can if you want.




boyforyouruse -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:44:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard
Do you want me to call him bisexual instead of gay? I can if you want.

You can, but it'd still be inaccurate. It's possible for a straight male to suck another guys dick and still be straight afterwards.




slvemike4u -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:45:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard

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ORIGINAL: boyforyouruse
So if a gay man occasionaly has oral sex with women he's bisexual, but a guy instantly becomes gay by sucking a dick? That just doesn't make sense.


Do you want me to call him bisexual instead of gay? I can if you want.
Or better yet you can skip the labels altgether,that would certainly work for me




Raechard -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:47:05 PM)

Yes we all hate them labels that describe things. Why have words at all because all words are open to interpretation i.e. black is white, gold is silver. bla bla bla




Madame4a -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 3:48:30 PM)

FR

Its time to get over the idea that orientation is all about sex acts, its not.. its about culture, romance, who you will settle down with and so many other things.. despite the words.. heterosexual and bi... and homo.. etc.. the idea that its all about sex or sex acts is absurd.

Sex is about friction, it can be about so many other things, but its ultimately at least about friction... and there are some situations where you could blindfold someone and it wouldn't make a bit of difference what gender the other person was...

sorry.. this is silly... get over the idea that orientation is about sex.. and you'll actually understand that NOTHING is black and white

oh yeah.. and I am ETA -- its really good to allow others to selfidentify, as some things mean different things to different people... I ask, but if someone identifies as a chair, I'm going to honor that.  I might not have a lot of use for a chair (have a few) but I'll honor that label.




slvemike4u -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 4:14:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Raechard

Yes we all hate them labels that describe things. Why have words at all because all words are open to interpretation i.e. black is white, gold is silver. bla bla bla
Yes Raechard labels are very handy when describing THINGS,the problem arises when we use them to desribe PEOPLE.Most of the people I know can not so easibly be described with one of your labels ,they are deeper than that with complexities and personalities that make labeling difficult and in most case's unwelcome




Tantriqu -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 4:20:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RealSub58

I am sure this might be a strange fetish for some Dom women...so I'd like to get a feeling for how many will admit to having it.

How many of you Domme's are really turned on by a heterosexual male sucking another heterosexual males cock?

How many of you demand this?

This has NOTHING to do with homosexuality... it has to do with being a fetish.



Of course it's not homosexual and no longer heterosexual, it's bisexual men lying to themselves and/or others, which is a big turnoff to Me, so I would no longer be sexually interested in the blower or the blowee.

Now watching gay-on-gay man-porn, that's another thing: woo hoo! 




dcnovice -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 5:03:53 PM)

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I see things in black and white that is probably the problem here.


That makes a handy segue for mentioning the Kinsey Scale. Kinsey argued that men are neither exclusively straight nor gay, but fall somewhere on a scale from zero to six as follows:

0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual
1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6- Exclusively homosexual

A zero might find that no depth of submission would enable him to suck another guy's cock. A one or a two might do it as part of submission/humiliation, even if he wasn't turned on by the act itself.

Two important notes: (a) I think the scale measures activity rather than orientation. (b) I don't know whether the same scale applies to women.





solvr70 -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 5:08:10 PM)

it's the excitement She gets from having me do so, and Her "insistance" of it happening that would do it for me.

no excitement on Her part, means no excitement on my part. and Her level of excitement would be directly proportonal to my own.

there must be some aspect of the control and humiliation that cause it to be of interest to me as well as the more raw and vulgar Her words, the more i would be able to get into the role...




cluelessslave -> RE: heterosexual males sucking cock (6/8/2008 5:18:34 PM)

You can't rape the willing. You can however give them a great excuse to suck cock.




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