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RE: "Beng Released" - 6/8/2008 10:08:08 PM

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Relationship end and begin. I released my submissive over 4 years ago. She is now back in my life. But people can change. So no one knows that the future holds only time will tell. Best of luck . If you two are meant to be then it will happen. You don't need us to tell you what to do only you two can figure out what is best for the both of you.

Yea I totally agree, there has to be a greater motivation. Like if you two at both of your cores were meant to be, then all the disagreements, smaller things, etc... will work themselves out. But seems like a rough road in the relationship, and there doesn't seem to be any good reasons behind a lot of what's going on ... i dunnooo

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RE: "Beng Released" - 6/8/2008 11:36:44 PM

Skully7000

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I'm sure you got some amazing advice already, i don't normally add my 2 cents once we move on to 3+ pages of replies...

Iwill make this comment:

I have one RULE when it comes to dating. 1 rule that has always been there and has stood the test of time more then any other. Once I myself and a partner has broken up we stay broken up. now in all my life I have broke this rule 3 times. one of which reminded me why I have the rule. the other 2 times.... well they were the most significant relationships I have had in my life.

so while this happened in Anger... which means its got a very good chance of being reconciled... the question is still: if the situation was bad enough to break up/be let go is it really fixed enough to reverse that?

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RE: "Beng Released" - 6/8/2008 11:50:35 PM

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What KatyLied said.

Take your freedom and run with it, girl. Open your eyes.

There's a great big beautiful world out there, full of people who won't waste two years jerking you around. Don't allow it to go on any longer. Stop buying into it NOW, before you waste another two years, or more. You only live once.

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RE: "Beng Released" - 6/9/2008 12:03:01 AM

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Oh the drama!!! It doesn't matter if he married or likes having sex with one legged piriates. None of that resolves the core issue of 2 years of being a "private person". That is what needs todeal with. Either accept it or not.

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RE: "Beng Released" - 6/9/2008 6:50:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

Either accept it or not.

BadOne

Exactly. People do change, sometimes. But, you can't bet on it. You (the OP) have to decide whether you are willing to continue in this relationship, as it is, without expecting him to change (even though he might) or just letting go and looking for someone who wants the same sort of relationship that you want.

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RE: "Beng Released" - 6/9/2008 6:19:13 PM

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people can/do get back together all the time once a relationship has ended; however, when a relationship ends because of a fit of anger by a dominant, then i'd highly doubt it, and i certainly wouldn't want to get back together with someone who dumps my ass because they got all emotionally out of control on me.

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