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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:15:25 PM   
sasseeNshy


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Status: offline 		A reality of life is that we cannot protect someone from their own stupidity........one has to wonder just what this woman has to offer.  You are by no means off track here........it stinks and it stinks bad........common sense tells us if it seems too good to be true, it more than likely is.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:17:53 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		Ok, but still...

He doesn't have control over his finances.
His sixth sense is broken.
His scam-detector is broken.
And he didn't do his homework.

Everybody makes mistakes. (even doms) but this could have easily been avoided with a little check up into the situation.

Btw, does he let you talk about it with him now, or does he avoid the subject? Just curious.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:19:29 PM   
hissweetbella


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ORIGINAL: sasseeNshy

A reality of life is that we cannot protect someone from their own stupidity........one has to wonder just what this woman has to offer.  You are by no means off track here........it stinks and it stinks bad........common sense tells us if it seems too good to be true, it more than likely is.


Believe me, I would love to know what it is that she has!  Let's see... no money, no job, a ongoing criminal record... yet she gets anything and everything she wants.  And she isn't even putting out to all these people!  I've heard that sociopaths have magnetic personalities and are experts at getting people to believe them, but my g-d!!!

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:21:22 PM   
hissweetbella


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Ok, but still...

He doesn't have control over his finances.
His sixth sense is broken.
His scam-detector is broken.
And he didn't do his homework.

Everybody makes mistakes. (even doms) but this could have easily been avoided with a little check up into the situation.

Btw, does he let you talk about it with him now, or does he avoid the subject? Just curious.


He sometimes starts to complain that she hasn't paid him back, but I shut it down pretty darn quick.  I've told him if he is going to continue to believe everything she says, then perhaps it would be best if I didn't hear anymore of the ongoing saga.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:21:37 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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ORIGINAL: hissweetbella
Come to find out after a little checking, this woman is a convicted felon for fraud and identity theft ... . 

What do you think?  Is her story plausible and am I being too jaded and unbelieving? 


Her story is about as plausible and reasonable as a convicted child-molester working at a day care.

She makes her bread and butter by scamming.  She'll keep doing it until people stop giving.

Mss

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:28:03 PM   
KatyLied


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damn he is dumb as a bag of rocks.


Thanks for insulting the bag of rocks.


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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:28:08 PM   
Termyn8or


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Status: offline 		And I thought pink's thread was bad.

What is it, do half the people run around without a working brain or something ?

If your Dom is that stupid, keep looking.

T

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:28:27 PM   
lalbobbilynn


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i suppose the errrrrr, most concerning point for me is, the continued support by both Dom's in question, and their lack of follow-up to see if she is involved in all the up & up she claims to be. Seriously, with the utmost respect, i would not believe my siblings if this story were given to me by one of them.
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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:29:10 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

damn he is dumb as a bag of rocks.


Thanks for insulting the bag of rocks.



Hahahaha. 

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:32:29 PM   
sasseeNshy


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Status: offline 		Common sense........it just cannot be taught.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:36:51 PM   
MontrealPhoenix


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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Btw, does he let you talk about it with him now, or does he avoid the subject? Just curious.

Or more to the point, does he know you're talking about his private business online?
 
Concerning the OP i say contact the authorities and tell them where she is. I know that you don't want to get her bf in trouble but it seems to me that he's continuing to support her despite knowing what she's doing. There may be others involved that you don't know about.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:44:29 PM   
came4U


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Thanks for insulting the bag of rocks.


Yes, me bad

Even rocks don't pay out hard earned money to some strange dame.

Rocks are smart. Hard and smart...just like they otta be. 

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:47:54 PM   
mstrj69


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Status: offline 		Do you have caller ID?  That should tell you where she is calling from just by the area code and prefix.  Authorities can trace down cell phones if they have the number. 

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:48:38 PM   
hissweetbella


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ORIGINAL: MontrealPhoenix

quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

Btw, does he let you talk about it with him now, or does he avoid the subject? Just curious.

Or more to the point, does he know you're talking about his private business online?
 
Concerning the OP i say contact the authorities and tell them where she is. I know that you don't want to get her bf in trouble but it seems to me that he's continuing to support her despite knowing what she's doing. There may be others involved that you don't know about.


First, this is an annonymous, hidden profile.  I have named no names nor given any identifying information.  No one on these boards has any clue as to who we are, so it isn't like I am outing him.

As for contacting the authorities, I am changing my mind from being worried about her boyfriend to thinking about all the others she potentially has or will scam.  She isn't going to just stop on her own.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:49:56 PM   
tsatske


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I don't live with him and take care of me and mine myself, so his finances really aren't my business.  It was for that reason that I held my tongue so long the first time I realized she was lying.  I just know I won't let things with us progress to anything like living together or depending on him financially while he still feels compelled to "help" people like this.


NO, no, they really are not any of your buisness. If he was giving the money to a charity that you didn't approve of, or had researched and found out was just skimming money and using very little of it if any of it for their stated purpose, would you still feel this way?
How does this reflect on your relationship agreements? If my Master gives someone money - and we do live together, and he provides for me - it is none of my buisness.
If later, when i am working - if much later, even, if i manage to finish school and he retired and i were making the bulk of the money, instead of the other way around - HE controls the money, and i chose to trust His decisions to do so.
I don't trust His decisions because He is always right, but because i have chosen to do so. Why in the world is this important enough to turn you into a shrew, nagging him and harping on your 'rightness'? It is not even your money - he has the right to spend his money anyway he wants, rather you approve or not.
Let it go. No, Really - Just Let It Go.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:50:36 PM   
hissweetbella


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Do you have caller ID?  That should tell you where she is calling from just by the area code and prefix.  Authorities can trace down cell phones if they have the number. 


That's a great idea.  I don't know his actual address as he lives in a different state, but I do know the city and the phone number.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:50:39 PM   
lalbobbilynn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

quote:

Thanks for insulting the bag of rocks.


Yes, me bad

Even rocks don't pay out hard earned money to some strange dame.

Rocks are smart. Hard and smart...just like they otta be. 

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:55:57 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I'm going to take everything you say at face value, bella.  Then the two questions are:

1. Does your Dom have the right to disagree with you for not wanting any contact with this woman?  Of course he can.  Whether he as a Dom can order it to be different... That is within his authority but I suspect that he is aware that it could end the relationship.

2. (the question you didn;t ask but should have) Can you continue to submit to a man who obviously is losing your respect?

I can't answer that one.  you will have to.


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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 2:57:48 PM   
hissweetbella


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ORIGINAL: tsatske

quote:

I don't live with him and take care of me and mine myself, so his finances really aren't my business.  It was for that reason that I held my tongue so long the first time I realized she was lying.  I just know I won't let things with us progress to anything like living together or depending on him financially while he still feels compelled to "help" people like this.


NO, no, they really are not any of your buisness. If he was giving the money to a charity that you didn't approve of, or had researched and found out was just skimming money and using very little of it if any of it for their stated purpose, would you still feel this way?
How does this reflect on your relationship agreements? If my Master gives someone money - and we do live together, and he provides for me - it is none of my buisness.
If later, when i am working - if much later, even, if i manage to finish school and he retired and i were making the bulk of the money, instead of the other way around - HE controls the money, and i chose to trust His decisions to do so.
I don't trust His decisions because He is always right, but because i have chosen to do so. Why in the world is this important enough to turn you into a shrew, nagging him and harping on your 'rightness'? It is not even your money - he has the right to spend his money anyway he wants, rather you approve or not.
Let it go. No, Really - Just Let It Go.


First, it isn't any of my business what he chooses to do with his money.  When he comes to me complaining or even asking me if he is crazy for believing her, then I do feel I am well within my place to give my opinion or telling him I don't believe her.  I do not and have never told him he shouldn't/can't continue to talk with or give her money.  I do feel put off because he is upset with me for refusing to have any more contact with this woman, but then he has always SAID the decision was mine.

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RE: Please, tell me I'm not crazy for not believing her. - 6/22/2008 3:00:36 PM   
hissweetbella


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I'm going to take everything you say at face value, bella.  Then the two questions are:

1. Does your Dom have the right to disagree with you for not wanting any contact with this woman?  Of course he can.  Whether he as a Dom can order it to be different... That is within his authority but I suspect that he is aware that it could end the relationship.

2. (the question you didn;t ask but should have) Can you continue to submit to a man who obviously is losing your respect?

I can't answer that one.  you will have to.



Yes, your second question has been running through my mind... and more and more after this last incident.  What I have not done yet is to tell him outright that this is what is happening, that him continuing to believe everything she says is affecting my respect for him.  It isn't a conversation I am looking forward to.

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