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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 10:10:41 AM

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perspective.

this slave's and others' who would use that term to define "who she is", regardless of ownership status.

Mercnbeth,

To tell you the truth, I will have to ponder that for abit.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 10:43:31 AM

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Alandra and I are his slaves because he has complete authority over every aspect of our lives. He makes the rules and we abide by them and at any time he can change the rules and do something different and we will still abide by those. M/s just describes the authority structure within our relationship and he is the boss.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 4:57:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

There are alot of slaves here abouts over the last two yeas. I address not just the fems that refer to their "D's as Master; but rather the consist of your activities and beliefs toward Him/Her

In essence beyound saying "He/She owns me" What defines you as a slave?

CP

my life is in his hands. He decides where or howor if i live, what or if i eat, what i wear, what i do each day, where i go, who i communicate with or see. i cannot so much as open the front door or answer the telephone without his knowledge, that is how closely he watches over me. i have no money of my own or knowledge of how to live independently, no ability to drive or transportation, no friend outside of him, no ability to have contact with anyone he doesn't know of. i am utterly dependent on him, emotionally, spiritually, financially, legally. i wish and choose to obey him, but if i lost my mind and chose not to, it would be irrelevant as he has the ability to force his will. He has great freedom in what he may do with me, as my outside social interactions are extremely limited...hence i have no public persona to keep up. if he decides to keep me caged for a week or so, or blacken my eyes or break a rib or two, no one is going to notice. and though he would of course never do so, if he chose to end my life it would take very little effort on his part to hide such a thing. i do not have the right to leave him or terminate the relationship, and if i ever tried to do so the consequences of such would be very ugly.

but, this is the life i willingly chose, and i do not regret it. in fact being so powerless and controlled gives me a great sense of security and peace. i could not be happy as a "free" woman. but yes, it is all of these things that make me a slave...the fact that i am controlled by the will of another.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 5:00:17 PM

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Alandra and I are his slaves because he has complete authority over every aspect of our lives. He makes the rules and we abide by them and at any time he can change the rules and do something different and we will still abide by those. M/s just describes the authority structure within our relationship and he is the boss.

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kyrao,

Then I am safe by assuming it is a pure power consideration, correct?

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 5:47:13 PM

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Then I am safe by assuming it is a pure power consideration, correct?

Only the definition of power that is equivalent to authority and keep in mind that it only describes how decisions are made in our relationship. Our relationship is much more diverse than who/how decisions are made.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/24/2008 11:04:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince
In essence beyound saying "He/She owns me" What defines you as a slave?

The Webster's dictionary does! (And more importantly my owner does) I am abjectly subservient to a dominating influence or force, that influence or force being him. Well wishes, Cav's ally

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/25/2008 6:03:44 AM

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my life is in his hands. He decides where or howor if i live, what or if i eat, what i wear, what i do each day, where i go, who i communicate with or see. i cannot so much as open the front door or answer the telephone without his knowledge, that is how closely he watches over me. i have no money of my own or knowledge of how to live independently, no ability to drive or transportation, no friend outside of him, no ability to have contact with anyone he doesn't know of. i am utterly dependent on him, emotionally, spiritually, financially, legally. i wish and choose to obey him, but if i lost my mind and chose not to, it would be irrelevant as he has the ability to force his will. He has great freedom in what he may do with me, as my outside social interactions are extremely limited...hence i have no public persona to keep up. if he decides to keep me caged for a week or so, or blacken my eyes or break a rib or two, no one is going to notice. and though he would of course never do so, if he chose to end my life it would take very little effort on his part to hide such a thing. i do not have the right to leave him or terminate the relationship, and if i ever tried to do so the consequences of such would be very ugly.

but, this is the life i willingly chose, and i do not regret it. in fact being so powerless and controlled gives me a great sense of security and peace. i could not be happy as a "free" woman. but yes, it is all of these things that make me a slave...the fact that i am controlled by the will of another.

daddysprop,

Phew,

I do agree as must anyone, that you have defined yourself as a consumate slave. Thank you for your input.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/25/2008 6:07:58 AM

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I do agree as must anyone, that you have defined yourself as a consumate slave. Thank you for your input.

CP

thats all its about really as you have said "defined yourself" thats all that matters, you are a slave if you define yourself as such. Everything else is external judgement and really who cares.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/25/2008 9:13:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

There are alot of slaves here abouts over the last two yeas. I address not just the fems that refer to their "D's as Master; but rather the consist of your activities and beliefs toward Him/Her

In essence beyound saying "He/She owns me" What defines you as a slave?

CP

my life is in his hands. He decides where or howor if i live, what or if i eat, what i wear, what i do each day, where i go, who i communicate with or see. i cannot so much as open the front door or answer the telephone without his knowledge, that is how closely he watches over me. i have no money of my own or knowledge of how to live independently, no ability to drive or transportation, no friend outside of him, no ability to have contact with anyone he doesn't know of. i am utterly dependent on him, emotionally, spiritually, financially, legally. i wish and choose to obey him, but if i lost my mind and chose not to, it would be irrelevant as he has the ability to force his will. He has great freedom in what he may do with me, as my outside social interactions are extremely limited...hence i have no public persona to keep up. if he decides to keep me caged for a week or so, or blacken my eyes or break a rib or two, no one is going to notice. and though he would of course never do so, if he chose to end my life it would take very little effort on his part to hide such a thing. i do not have the right to leave him or terminate the relationship, and if i ever tried to do so the consequences of such would be very ugly.

but, this is the life i willingly chose, and i do not regret it. in fact being so powerless and controlled gives me a great sense of security and peace. i could not be happy as a "free" woman. but yes, it is all of these things that make me a slave...the fact that i am controlled by the will of another.

first time i read about another like me. i breathe because He wills it. my life ruled totally by Him. never released even if i wished it or did what would get any other released. the consequences as you said would be ugly. forever He promised i would serve Him . even if i dont enjoy or even detest the activity , i am to do my best. limits are those He sets. i feel very secure that i am loved and cherished. this is what i need . this is what makes me happy. to be His slave totally.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/25/2008 10:16:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

There are alot of slaves here abouts over the last two yeas. I address not just the fems that refer to their "D's as Master; but rather the consist of your activities and beliefs toward Him/Her

In essence beyound saying "He/She owns me" What defines you as a slave?

CP

"RS is my property, her body mind and soul. My ownership is total and complete. This was done not at my demand but at her request."

I am not sure what else my Sir need say?
I am not a slave by title, but Sir will use that term when in private. For me it is just a word. I call him Sir. In my own thoughts and mind frame, he is Daddy and Master.

When He said he wanted me, not demand me to be His, it was my choice to say yes or no.

What defines me as His is defined by who He is
The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his shoulders. It's seen in the width of his arms that encircle and protect you.

The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his voice. It is in the gentle words he whispers.

The strength of a man isn't in the words he speaks. It's in how he keeps his word.

The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is at work. It's in how he is respected at home.

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The strength of a man isn't in the hair on his chest. It's in his heart....that lies within his chest.

The strength of a man isn't in how many women he's loved. It's in whether he can be true to the ONE woman he's trying to love.

The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift. It's in the burdens he can carry.

The strength of a man isn't in how he makes love. It's in the understanding that there is more to making love......than making love.

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/25/2008 3:49:55 PM

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That I use my gift of freewill to obey and serve Him. That I can find some pleasure in doing menial tasks because He has set me to them. That I am happy and confident letting Him make choices for me, because I can trust that although I may not like them all, they are in fact in my best interest. That most of the time I believe He knows my limits better than I do. That when He looks at me and tells me I can do something, I believe Him.

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/26/2008 4:53:39 PM

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i'm owned, but we don't define me as a slave...i am their pet.....

lilsubl

Aha, A step away from the norm, but pet or slave by name, what makes you so?

CP

this is the way our relationship has evolved & it makes the 3 of us happy to call me their pet...i do nothing without checking with them, usually him, first...if they approve, i do it...if they don't, i don't do it...my job as pet is to entertain them & make sure they derive pleasure from their ownership of me, if it is within my power, & it usually is...probably just semantics, i suppose, but i see being their pet as a different thing than being a slave or a sub...nuances.....

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RE: You're a Slave // how so? - 6/27/2008 5:47:05 AM

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Sunshine.. you have said it so well. The fact i pleasure him in all things as i look upon his face, hear his voice or writings while serving Him in whatever he desires is the key to me of being a good slave. One that knows what He needs without asking. lass

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RE: Your a Slave // how so? - 6/27/2008 10:46:21 PM

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greetings celticprince,

you've seen my posts on this subject enough to know what i think - i have to agree with what kyra posted, though. i think that describes it the best. one of the things i've been coming to terms with in the last several months though is that we have been actually exploring more and talking more about what this means, and one of the main things that keeps coming up is discussing the reality of passing His ownership of me to someone else. so i think the fact that that is a very real possibility has been one of the things to cause me to come to terms with what it means to be owned by Him.

respectfully,
a'ishah.

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