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tinydick12 -> RE: She wants to make me a cuckold whore (7/5/2008 11:39:59 PM)
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I am sorry if I made this sound too one-dimensionally directed. I would welcome intelligent and insightful comments from anyone, irrespective of gender or orientation, be it dom/me or sub. This to me is honestly not a fantasy and I would have a very hard time to say the least to reconcile myself with this. I am 99% made-up in my mind where I stand on this and one things that really ticks me off is this bullshit belief that if you are a sub, this means that you *must* do whatever is *demanded* or *expected* of you, and if you do not, then, well, you must be part dom or not sincere or a "bottom" or whatever silly nominal made-up distinctions come along. I am not gay. I have nothing against anyone into this, and I can be a cuck. Just don't want to really be part of it. If she needs dick on the side, I am cool with this, but as for participating, that is just not my nature. I have had genuine feelings for her and we spoke about our mutual attraction beyond a D/s relationship. But now I see this as some sick twisted test of a potentially deep thing. There is more here to this, as she is coming from a relationship past that I feel is making her constantly testing guys faith in her and their devotion, and I feel this is just an extention of that. As for my nature, I am not submissive to anyone and would and have told a few dommes to go fuck off when they unquestionably prove to be the asswipe that they are. No magical title of "domme" or "mistress" endows you with automatic respect; you have to earn it too sweetheats. I don't need the stupid little multiple paddles next to my name to know who I am and what I want. So the genuinely short-sighted, stupid claims of me being a "slave" is just total bullshit. Being a sub (male or female for that matter) doesn't mean you have to submit to anything. Submission is an act of thought and devotion born of self-will. It is not slavery, a profound difference. The first, you have a choice; for the second, you have none and that is not submission.
As for why I want multiple perspectives, I would hope that was apparent. I want to know how people (from all sides) feel about this. I already more than alluded, I have my belief as to what is motivating this with her and honestly cannot see it as being anything else. If you have a kink in this kind of cuckoldry, then that is fine. But I find it hard to reconcile the claim that someone cares and respects you and would demand something that they know you are not into and evoke the "if you really love me" argument.
And least I sound angry to everyone, I am not. (I'm just so tired of this bullshit "oh Goddess/Mistress" shit and then these supposed dommes bitching about the feigned, depersonalized reponses they get. How can you possible take such nonsense seriously?) Both you and Harry and some others have said some things that serve as good food for thought and would welcome you views, especially as a sub.
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