earthycouple
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e01n seldom gets down time. When he does he uses it to it's fullest...he crashes in the rainbow room and sleeps or meditates. That's what recharges his battery to be ready for me again. I try very hard to give him down time as often as daily, though he rarely takes it daily. He seems to want to go till he nearly breaks before he recharges. We've had long conversations about it and it's getting easier. Just yesterday I got home from work early because I had a migraine. He took that time to lay with me in the rainbow room and we both slept in each other's arms....that's nirvana for us both....being wrapped up together, quiet and just being. Falling asleep next to him is the highlight of my night and waking next to him the hightlight of my morn. For him, though, he's even working then, as laying next to me while I fall asleep, means he must be atuned to how I need to move and readjust then he has to move accordingly. If my back aches then he rubs it. If my mind is racing he finds ways to calm me. (Sometimes that's a trip to the kitchen for a beverage that will help me relax, a trip to the med counter for a PM, or just talking to me about innane things til I fall asleep.) He can't fall asleep before I do, as I won't sleep then. In the mornings he's the alarm bitch. It goes off, he gets up, hits the snooze and we snuggle for ten minutes. This may happen 4 or 5 times before I really get up. Depending on what I require, he's prepped the night before and knows exactly what time I MUST rise in the a.m. It is his responsibility to ensure I don't fight getting up past the final moment I can lay there without being late for my day. So nirvana for us both, yes...but still work for e01n.
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