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MizSexyVixen -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 12:29:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1 This is one of the many reasons that I would not seek an involvement with a "youngster". No matter how good the sex might be, sooner or later they are going to attempt a conversation. Good post SteelofUtah.[sm=agree.gif] I concur.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 12:32:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveOwnerDave When I message someone, I send the message, then click "HIDE". The reason is: If the person has not got the guts or interest to message Me in return, then that person is valueless to Me. When I do a search, that person---and there are many of them by now!---is never seen by Me. I'm male, and fairly confident in my ability to deal with confrontations -- and there's no way in the world I'd respond to a disembodied female voice, either online or in real. Are you actually meeting women in real life with your strategy?

standardG -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 12:35:44 PM)
...Verbal abuse... I would try that one if I wanted to have a virtual fight or own an online slave whose importance equals my interest in becoming a nun. If you don't want either of the above, try the bulk mail option... or keep the thrill of an online round, until you get too tired of scaring the Doms away.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 1:14:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveOwnerDave When I message someone, I send the message, then click "HIDE". The reason is: If the person has not got the guts or interest to message Me in return, then that person is valueless to Me. When I do a search, that person---and there are many of them by now!---is never seen by Me. why should i show any interest to someone like you if sending me a message and then deciding to "hide" like a scared wimpy chicken? what's the point of responding back?

HeavansKeeper -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 1:44:08 PM)
<QR> What abuse do you put them through? Is it a fairly rigorous challenge of their knowledge or do you mock them for being fat, bald, and so pathetic they need to try and sleeze their way into women's pants on the internet. Personally, I'd wonder what was going on in that sick little mind, and balance out what's worth more to me: The immense amount of time and effort I'd need to turn you into a presentable show-quality girly or the dimples in your lower back.

SlaveOwnerDave -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/22/2008 2:02:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveOwnerDave When I message someone, I send the message, then click "HIDE". The reason is: If the person has not got the guts or interest to message Me in return, then that person is valueless to Me. When I do a search, that person---and there are many of them by now!---is never seen by Me. why should i show any interest to someone like you if [You are] sending me a message and then deciding to "hide" like a scared wimpy chicken? what's the point of responding back? your interpretation of what I said is... quite... different than logic would expect. [:D] OK, it's laughable. Perhaps you should read all of what you quoted. Note this part: "If the person has not got the guts or interest to message Me in return, then that person is valueless to Me." This is senseless unless I expect an answer. That is followed by: "When I do a search, that person---and there are many of them by now!---is never seen by Me." So, yes, I do look for other people. I "HIDE" the person, not Myself, of course. As I said, this gives the person one chance to receive a message from Me. This way, I never have to remember who was sent a second message. After all, distorting My statements and then flaming Me for the distorted point of view, is not going to get Me interested in you, either. I might, in fact (and do), going by this one experience, think you distort things then flame them. IF you have read any of My posts then you would know I work to get My facts straight BEFORE I click "OK". That is just My policy, of course, but it works for Me! Why would I message someone, "I am interested in you.", and then hide Myself? In the words of some Sesame Street character, "...and that would be stupid, now, wouldn't it?" It certainly would! (I wish I could remember who said that!) (Got it! A film on plant propagation. I love the quote, though![:D]) Master David Goodmen

DesFIP -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/22/2008 2:10:38 PM)
Dave, you said that the moment after you send a message you put them on HIDE, thus not giving them a chance to reply. Is that really what you do or did you word it wrong? Besides lots of subs don't answer their mail immediately. Too much to go through. And sometimes you want some time to think about what to write.

angaothsi -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 2:37:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee A "real" Dom/Master? Can we then presume that a "real" sub/slave wouldn't be so manipulative? ~~Cheers & Claps~~~~

OrionTheWolf -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 2:39:32 PM)
Good girl!!! You kept me from having to post this. quote: ORIGINAL: subtee A "real" Dom/Master? Can we then presume that a "real" sub/slave wouldn't be so manipulative?

CruelDesires -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/22/2008 3:47:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Dave, you said that the moment after you send a message you put them on HIDE, thus not giving them a chance to reply. Is that really what you do or did you word it wrong? Besides lots of subs don't answer their mail immediately. Too much to go through. And sometimes you want some time to think about what to write. That feature means he can't see "them" again. Not that they cannot see him. That way he won't mistakenly send them another message. I can understand the logic. A "I sent them one message and if they do not have the courtesy to send me one back, I have no use for them" thing. CD

blacksword404 -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 4:58:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SlaveOwnerDave When I message someone, I send the message, then click "HIDE". The reason is: If the person has not got the guts or interest to message Me in return, then that person is valueless to Me. When I do a search, that person---and there are many of them by now!---is never seen by Me. Very clever of you dave. Makes a lot of sense.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/22/2008 5:01:31 PM)
you said and i quote (word for word) "When I message someone, I send the message. Then click "Hide"" i took it as face value from the way you wrote it ...i didn't have to distort anything oh btw - not interested in you either.

StrongSpirit -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 5:24:11 PM)
When a 'sub' treats me like that, I email her back, saying she is rude. If she does it again, I block her. So far, I have had to block only one woman for this reason.

SlaveOwnerDave -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/22/2008 8:03:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl quote: why should i show any interest to someone like you if [You are] sending me a message and then deciding to "hide" like a scared wimpy chicken? what's the point of responding back? you said and i quote (word for word) "When I message someone, I send the message. Then click "Hide"" i took it as face value from the way you wrote it ...i didn't have to distort anything oh btw - not interested in you either. Oh Kaaaayyyyyy... Let's go over this step-by-step: 1) I go to www.CollarMe.com 2) A list of profiles matching My search criteria appears. 3) There is a mini-profile at the top of the page. 4) If the person is not interesting: Bad grammar; just selling sex; doesn't make sense, then I click "Hide". 5) The system asks Me am I sure? I click "yes". 6) Having passed (4) & (5), I click "View full profile". 7) Repeat of what happens in (4) and (5). 8) Having passed (7), I go to the "Send a message to this user:" box, and---Duh---enter a message. 9) Done typing, proofing, etc.: I click "Send Message". a) Letters appear: "Your message has been sent". b) There are three checkboxes: "On Favorites List", "Blocked", and "Hide". c) I check "Hide", and sometimes, favorite. I click "Save changes". d) The person will not show up in searches a second time. ONLY if the person responds, will I see her. e) I go back to the CM homepage, click Reload, and go on. I truly thought this was all pretty easy to understand! I figured it out without even having to read the documentation, wherever THAT is! The software is designed by normal people to be used by normal people---one does not need a ninety-nine-plus percentile intelligence to understand how to use it. [I admit I cannot PROVE this assertion---but I do believe it to be true.] [In any case, according to one of the anthropological papers in "S&M: Studies in Sado Masochism", the BDSM community has above-average intelligence. This is a good book if you are interested in cultural studies!] Sincerely, Master David Goodmen

GreedyTop -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/22/2008 8:11:00 PM)
~FR~ Dave... I understood your original comment about hiding the same way sambas did.. just sayin

laura2161 -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/22/2008 8:27:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CruelDesires quote: Can they really call themselves a Dom? They can call themselves whatever they want. Why do you care? CD My thought exactly.

Lynnxz -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/23/2008 12:50:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop ~FR~ Dave... I understood your original comment about hiding the same way sambas did.. just sayin Ditto.

DesFIP -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/23/2008 9:59:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CruelDesires That feature means he can't see "them" again. Not that they cannot see him. That way he won't mistakenly send them another message. I can understand the logic. A "I sent them one message and if they do not have the courtesy to send me one back, I have no use for them" thing. CD Thanks CD, not having used it I assumed it worked to block them. And Dave, I'm only in the top 97th percentile intelligencewise, not 99th but I assumed it worked the same way it works on other sites I've been on. Which is why so many of us were puzzled. However your snottiness about people who have never used a particular button being obviously stupid is enough to put you on my list of people I don't ever want to talk to.

DomDolf -> RE: Can they really call themselves a Dom? (7/23/2008 10:12:08 AM)
I only read the OP's post- If you contacted me with insults or rudeness I would assure you that you would lose my interest immediately. Since I am as real as it gets I can also assure you that your methods are flawed. Since I don't know you I would not give you a second chance. I enjoy using first impressions very much, I use them to determine quickly, in a sea of "submissives" whether I would be wasting my time. Your profile is half of the first impression, the words you choose to use with me directly is the other half. I believe in testing. I believe it can be done with wisdom and tact, often without the subject realizing the test took place. Disrespect is not acceptable at any time by any one. Even in humiliation scenes there is respect. Dolf

ownedgirlie -> RE: Can they really call themselves Doms? (7/23/2008 10:13:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIPHowever your snottiness about people who have never used a particular button being obviously stupid is enough to put you on my list of people I don't ever want to talk to. I will second that. Besides the fact that his post lacked articulation, because the button is called "Hide User" which, had he labeled it correctly in his post, people would have understood what he was talking about, wouldn't have questioned it, and he could have spared us all his charming attitude. If someone told me they clicked a "Hide" button, I would understandably think they were hiding. As for the OP, I honestly don't understand that kind of game playing so I really can't comment further.

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