ResidentSadist
Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline
|
-=Disclaimer=-
Don’t do it … It can result in brain damage, heart attack and death as well as your incarceration if you fuck up. It can also result in any one of those things if the person you’re playing with fucks up or has some medical condition they didn’t know about (i.e. Viagra warning).
Don’t do it… I am a little nervous making this post thinking that I could be responsible for contributing to someone else running head long and ill informed into breath play. Just pick up the newspaper or search the internet for auto asphyxia death and you will see death is the result of careless breath play.
Don’t do it… and certainly don’t do it with just the information you’re about to get in a thread on a forum. After reading books and studying the essays on the internet, you might want to find a mentor that hasn’t killed any of his subs with breath play lately and study with them a bit too.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Now that the disclaimer is outta’ the way, and you're going to do it anyway, you might want to see some of these warnings and follow some of these tips.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
-=How To Do It=-
*You can’t choke somebody safely by squeezing their neck to cause asphyxia… You have to crush vitally important things to collapse the esophagus and stop air flow. They may never talk right again with a shattered larynx and very well may die from the crushed esophagus.
* You can safely squeeze someone’s neck pinching off their carotid arteries to cause hypoxia … which is has similar effects like asphyxia. Hypoxia is is reduced oxygen, specifically in the blood; anoxia is when there is no oxygen available at all.
* Learn to automatically set off a silent timer in your mind in which you’re counting to yourself. Then you need to learn the safety time limits for hypoxia / asphyxia.
* Be careful when doing breath play with men that use Viagra… up of the have heart problems that is the true cause of their erectile problems. You are playing with heart attack risk!
* You can safely create asphyxia … pic 1 / pic 2 / pic 3 The You can safely choke someone and truly restrict their air flow by using gasmasks or putting your hand over their mouth and nose. You can also severely restrict their air flow, enough to make them pass out usually, by lifting up under their chin and pressing on the soft meat near where the bronchial tubes vent. It’s at the top of your throat under your chin. Take your own hand right now and put it on the front of your neck. But don’t squeeze your neck, just slide your hand up into the soft meat at the base of your jaw between the bones. You will feel your tongue fill your throat and cut off your air if you press up hard enough. On some people this is harder to do than others and you cannot achieve complete air flow restriction, they can still gurgle and gasp a little bit.
* You can safely create hypoxia … pic 1 / pic 2 Simply wrap your hands around their neck and squeeze mildly until you pinch off the carotid arteries. Everyone’s version of mild or firm is open to interpretation so I give you this exact measure. Put your hand gently on your own neck and touch your carotid arteries with your fingers on one side and your thumb on the other. You should be able to feel your pulse. If you don’t feel it, press a little bit harder. Now press harder and harder until you feel that you’ve cut that pulse off. Start counting and release before you get to 100. Two minutes is average amount of time someone can hold their breath but while their breath as held, they’re still getting oxygen. To find the right number be to do some research and experiment with your partner. I just picked the number 100 because that should be long enough for you to start getting the beginning feelings of it. I didn’t want to have a bunch of fellow forum members passed out face down and their keyboards because they listened to what Residents Sadist said to do it!
* You can safely make someone pass out by creating asphyxia and hypoxia at the same time… Now we’ve all just squeezed our necks to cut the blood flow off in our carotid arteries. We also learned to lift up into the meat under their chin and choke them. So wrap your hand firmly around your neck squeezing just enough to cut off the carotid arteries while simultaneously lifting up into the meat under the chin and now you are chocking while cutting off blood flow. That should cause a real life :::::::::thud:::::::::: in pretty short order.
* Read every single thing and all of these links:
Breath Control Article By Dirk
The Medical Realities of Breath Control Play Article by Jay Wiseman
An overview on breath Play See all chapters for excellent risk info and how and why it works.
* Now that you been schooled practice (LOL), you need to sort out your goals, make a plan and practice. If you practice on yourself a few times first, you will learn faster because you pick up all the nuances your partner would be feeling.
-Role playing pass out cold and raped - Is this ‘play’ for fulfilling fantasies to make them dizzy, pass out and rape them while they’re unconscious?
-Orgasm Enhancement - If it is for orgasm enhancement I suggest cutting off their air. Even auto asphyxiation is the latest thing on campus because it enhances organism. There’s nothing like a little choky choky after some good spanky spanky to enhance the squirty squirty!
-Fear play - If it is for fear play and you want to inflict that ill sinking feeling of death then I’d go for restricted blood flow. When someone is able to breath but their blood flow is cut off while you are telling them that you hold their life in your hands, that creepy ill feeling they get from it enhances the fantasy role play. They hear your words as tunnel vision sets in and their years start to ring. The reality is you really are holding their life in your hands and if you did manage to cut off all their blood flow for more than eight minutes, you would be doing some damage eventually cause death.
* … and last but not least you may want to enjoy some of the more pleasurable sides of asphyxiation in these links;
Breath Play Groups List
Breath Play Safety List
Asphyxia Movie List
Asphyxiation Fix Video - awesome BDSM music video - (Real Player)
One of my fav videos
Clicking this link should pop open your Real Player. Allow a minute for real player to open, its a big file.
Asphyxiation Fix Lyrics
You wanna’ use me up
I let you bring me down
I watch you own me
You can have me
The more I cry, the harder you get
I'm getting high and you make me wet
The more I fight, the more you cum
You tie me up and my mind goes numb
Asphyxiation fix, you pull the rope around my neck
Asphyxiation fix, I need it more than I’ll ever admit
Tired of getting used
I let you hold me whenever you want to
A little scared, a little excited
You fuck me harder when I try to fight it
The more I cry, the harder you get
I'm getting high and you’re making me wet
The more I fight, the more you cum
You tie me up and my mind goes numb
Asphyxiation fix, you pull the rope around my neck
Asphyxiation fix, I need it more than I’ll ever admit
The pain makes me numb
I wanna’ make you cum
You make me feel just like a whore
I keep coming back for more
Asphyxiation fix, you pull the rope around my neck
Asphyxiation fix, I need it more than I’ll ever admit
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Ok bro… you been schooled as good as it gets for any thread! Have fun, be safe.
I do not claim this is the end all of information or that my perspectives are right for you. I am just sharing what little I do know about the topic so you can at least enjoy it to the degree I do. I look forward to seeing replies with other tips, trix and perspectives.
And to all you flag waving SSC people that will spontaniously burst into flames upon reading my reply, I say don't do it. Don't use breath play. I am not selling anyting here, neither should you!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Side bar: This was a very touchy subject to post about for me. I have VERY strong feelings because my dad was a doctor and he taught me a slightly different perspective than what Jay Wiseman professes. Although my father was lifestyle, his hypoxia and asphyxia information was passed on to me because he and I were scuba divers. He wanted me to know the timelines and effects of asphyxiation in case of an accident. He literally wanted me to learn at which point after asphyxia from drowning I should not revive him because he would have been severally brain damaged.
Of note: My dad was a member of the Water Bugs in Florida back in the 50s, he taught the sheriffs department to scuba dive and he had the 10th aqua lung ever made. He got it from Jacques Cousteau.
< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 7/23/2008 9:32:19 PM >
_____________________________
-=BDSM Book List=- Reading is Fundamental !!!
I give good thread.
|
School Me on Choking - 
Profile
New Messages
No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages
Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages
Locked w/o New Messages
Post New Thread