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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/26/2008 12:10:29 AM

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I only share the people I love with other people I love. Although there was this one time in band camp when I turned a shy sub into a party favor to help desensitize her.

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/26/2008 12:16:19 AM

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I only share the people I love with other people I love. Although there was this one time in band camp when I turned a shy sub into a party favor to help desensitize her.

RS,

I've been told that in person, I look like the girl that does that skit...and I can nail that impression. This one time? At band camp?

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/26/2008 7:26:42 AM

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No. Yes. Is it silly question time again? Do dogs bark? Is the sky blue?

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/26/2008 4:08:25 PM

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I always enjoyed sharing her. She would often fetch other women at my instruction and came to really enjoy pleasing in many ways to many people. She made me proud in her pleasuring ability and submission. In times of difficulty between us she arose to suffer my will and the attention of those she despised in order to correct my displeasure. Come to find out she had also a true kink for erotic humiliation but that's another story... ;)

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/26/2008 7:01:42 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VivaciousSub

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I only share the people I love with other people I love. Although there was this one time in band camp when I turned a shy sub into a party favor to help desensitize her.

RS,

I've been told that in person, I look like the girl that does that skit...and I can nail that impression. This one time? At band camp?

I am glad someone else likes that gag. That band camp skit inspired me to use it to temper the absolutism of my comment. I hope we cross paths one day and I get to see you do your impression.

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/26/2008 7:04:04 PM

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this portends some sort of Kodak moment..............seriously.

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/27/2008 1:56:21 PM

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Fuji is best.

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/28/2008 5:57:54 AM

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I think you're going to get a unique answer for everyone who responds. I personally hold the philosophy that possessiveness only gets you possessions. This isn't about possessions....

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RE: Do Doms share their subs? - 9/28/2008 7:01:18 AM

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Yes, there are Doms that do share, and Skully pointed out well some different ways and possible reasons for them. Most Doms that share, or "loan out" a sub, are extremely careful about who the partner is. It may be in front of him or not. It may be same sex or not. The sub may be asked to switch to a dominant position for the session. There are many different scenarios that could come up and for many different reasons. It is more likely to happen, of course, if the Dom is poly.

It can be a way of a Master reinforcing in the slave that her body belongs to Him to do with as He pleases. However, this doesn't mean that He is simply offering her to the wolves. I was recently given a task of offering my "pleasuring services" through my profile. My Master watched over me with an eagle eye, quickly spotting liars and fakers. I have never felt so protected. Many misunderstood completely - assuming He was tiring of me and giving me away, that I must mean nothing to Him, that I was just a piece of meat or a doormat, etc. (I wrote a journal entry about the experience.) The real fact was that He was stretching me beyond my preconceived boundaries and taking me outside of my comfort zone. He was very proud that I stood behind His decision no matter what others would say to me. I learned to lean on Him like I never have before. The overall experience brought us closer.

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