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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/4/2005 9:22:23 PM

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My mistress has over 6 years made me into her sissy boy slave. I have always had to wear heels and girls clothes had body hair removed permanantly including facial hair. I have worn corsets to reduce my waist and had cosmetic tattooing done in the form of eye liner and lip liner. I'm 23yo. Then 18 months ago my mistress took me to the USA where she arranged for me to have breast implants, afterwards I found them hard to get used to as they seemed very big and also heavy but my mistress was very pleased that I now looked totally female although sexually I function normally as a male as she requires in every other way I look like a female. I have been told my mistress is extreme and wondered what others thought and has this been done to other male slaves.

Rowena,
i may be mistaken, but wasn't your mistress going to have you castrated as well?

On the Rowena profile, it states that the castration went as planned. Deed is done.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/4/2005 9:30:07 PM

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thank you, i'd not read it again, and didn't know. i appreciate your letting me know.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 12:30:50 AM

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As planned in a sense but the surgery was not an ordinary castration but full sexual reasignment surgery. I am still at the clinic where they have been wonderful to me and if all is well I can go home tomorrow or wens. I will still need much bed rest and further medical attension and will have to follow a strict aftercare routine. My mistress has seen me lots since the surgery and is very proud of me. I will try to update my journal with a few more details.
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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 1:01:45 AM

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As planned in a sense but the surgery was not an ordinary castration but full sexual reasignment surgery. I am still at the clinic where they have been wonderful to me and if all is well I can go home tomorrow or wens. I will still need much bed rest and further medical attension and will have to follow a strict aftercare routine. My mistress has seen me lots since the surgery and is very proud of me. I will try to update my journal with a few more details.
Rowena

it's good to hear that you are doing well, and that it wasn't just a castration, but instead the more usual reassignment surgery (i think we got the wrong idea and were worried about you). thank you for keeping us updated. sounds like your mistress has you in good hands, and i wish you a speedy recovery and much happiness.

i wish you both well.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 8:21:30 AM

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Rowena- we have spoken before and still wish you all the best. Mentally it sounds like your strength is in the convictions and wants of your Mistress. I gather, she does enjoy the fact that you are to willing to comply with her ideas concerning you. One thing that still escapes our disscusion is whether you will have surgery for you penis. Will it eventually disappear and somehow, through surgical means, become a vagina. Is ths a further plan in the future , or not. It would be wounderful if we could be enlightened from your Mistress postion on all of this .

In any case congradualtions on finding your happyness

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 8:54:49 AM

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Rowena ~ i just want to say i am worried about you a little, if all of what you say is true, and not a fantasy.... or "part fantasy".

Like.. i am almost positive that in the USA .. no "reputable" doctor will give a biological male breast implants without a psychological evaluation and without the biological man seeing a therapist (specializing in gender re-assignment) for at least a year, that includes them living and working as a female for at least that length of time too.

So it's hard for me to imagine you flew in from the UK and had the prodecure done in the US, then left..

but... if it is all true (including the sexual reassignment surgery) i'm concerned. i'm 26, and not all that older than you. And... well, i know how i've changed from age 23 to 26 (in greater self acceptance... and self discovery).. and ... well, i'm concerned you might change too.

It goes back to that whole "If you get a tattoo now... will you really like it in 10 years?"...? You're still young (i'm still young).. i'm not saying young is "stupid" but... a lot of times we don't really know ourselves completely...... and... i if you were going Male to Female because it was your desire to do so (if you believed your gender was female), i'd not be so concerned... but it's almost like.... you let someone else tell you to "get a tattoo", only... it's even more extreme than that. Sex-reassignment isn't reversible. If you aren't completely sure that you feel okay in a surgically created female body for all time.......... that might hurt you in the future.

In the USA, anyway, over half of all marriages end in divorce. Maybe the statistics in the UK are "better", but you and your Mistress aren't married and statistically speaking the chance of you and her being together "forever" is less than 50/50 (which doesn't mean it's doomed but...). Anyway.... i guess i'm just worried about your future... if you did all this irreversible stuff to your body for this Mistress... if you and her were to part ways... would you feel comfortable with the body you would be left with...? On your own.. without her... are you comfortable forever being this way.....?

......i dunno.
maybe this is all "very common" and "perfectly normal" in the "Lifestyle"... i have no idea.
i'm still a novice.... and have no real life "Lifestyle" experience... but.......... i know this sounds ... extreme and even emotionally.... edgy/dangerous to me... (again, assuming you really did do this "only for the Mistress" and not because it was your own will)...

maybe i just can't understand this...
possibly you are eons more enlightend and in touch with yourself than i was at 23.

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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

One thing that still escapes our disscusion is whether you will have surgery for you penis. Will it eventually disappear and somehow, through surgical means, become a vagina.

In Rowena's profile at the very bottom it says: Today (30/11/05) Rowena had sex reassignment surgery to complete her transformation into a sissy slave ... so it seems less than a week ago Rowena had this surgery.... ...?

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 9:37:23 AM

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well I'm not going out to say extreme, but having a pretty substantial medical background, imho, Dr's aren't going to transform a male to a female, on the whims of a Domme---there has to be psychological counselling, medications, meetings etc--so I am having a hard time grasping the reality here, maybe its just too extreme for Me to even do that, but where are the Dr's to say " uh hon--it has to go alot deeper than your whims"

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 11:13:30 AM

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The very young Rowena's journal indicates her Mistress had her castrated...but later refers to it as a sexual reassignment surgery.

I am going to go out on a limb here and say...yes, the described situation is extreme. (Come on people.)

I'm not sure "extreme" is a strong enough word.

I know several MTF TS's, at various points in their transition, and all of them have had extensive (and ongoing)pyschological, medical, and endocrinological testing and evaluation.

Not one of them has followed this path because someone announced on Monday that they were to have SRS surgery on Wednesday.

I'm amazed that "walk in" SRS clinics exist in so-called first world countries. That would seem more likely in places with little or no regulation and oversight of the medical profession.

IMO, Rowena's story (if true) is that of a deeply unhealthy relationship. What if she is sent packing now that all the changes have been made and the challenge is gone?

However, again IMO only, this all seems to track incredibly closely with any number of "forced TG" stories available on the Web. Unless this is a case of life imitates art, it seems like just another story to me.

If I'm wrong about this, sincere apologies to all those involved.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 11:50:15 AM

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People have had "horns" surgigally planted on their foreheads, tongues divided...
And recently I watched a program that featured (among other things) a guy, a betting freek that took a bet from his friend and got 50.000$ for having breast implants,, from a doctor who was his friend and gave it to him free at charge, well lost it at a card game :)
The guy now has a B cup I think (not sure on the cup size though) and wont have it removed becouse his friend will pay him 10000 each year he keeps the tits.

So, everything can be done, you just have to find the right doctor...

And of course there are private clinics all around the world,, maybe even a number of "underground" ones...

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 12:18:21 PM

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It's been discussed, and I still believe Rowena is a fantasy roleplay character for someone that likes to cause sensation and get his wank on.

A clinic allowing internet access for a post op patient is RARE.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 12:36:20 PM

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ok then pass the Martinis and light the fire and lets find some new topic to discuss--smiles now where is that pesky veronica, at the concession stand I bet---

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 12:39:07 PM

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Why do you think it's rare? It's not at all uncommon for patients to have internet access post operatively. At the very least, they can use a laptop/modem plugged into the room phone. Many facilities now even offer broadband access.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 2:25:02 PM

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Why do you think it's rare? It's not at all uncommon for patients to have internet access post operatively. At the very least, they can use a laptop/modem plugged into the room phone. Many facilities now even offer broadband access.

i just wanted to say.. someone having internet access from a hospital isn't hard to believe. i think most of us are having a problem believing that a medical doctor that was licensed and practicing in the USA would perform surgery on someone because their "Mistress" wished for them to change genders.

i have a FTM (the opposite of this Rowena) friend (i should say acquaintance) and he had a looooooooooong road to go down before he could have his breasts removed (well made into a male chest)... he had see a psychologist for a long time... and even after the procedure he continued to see his therapist... he had to live like a man for quite some time... and in the beginning no doctor even wanted to prescribe him T....... (and he had to be on T for some time before the breast removal surgery would be done, so i'm wondering why Rowena doesn't make mention of being on Estrogen for a year or more.. and the changes he went through on that.. - also nearly all breast implant surgeons tell you your "approximate" cup size.. in fact they ask you which cup size you'd like before surgery... so how Rowena "has no idea what his cup size is" strikes me as odd too)...

Anyway.... having seen what my friend went through.... it's hard for me to believe this story is 100% true (it's possible it's a small bit of truth mixed in with a heavy amount of fantasy - since this story sounds oodles like erotic fantasies i've read about men being forced to become women for their wife/girlfriend/overbearing mother in law..etc).

Don't you think it's pretty rare that someone has their gender surgically - irreversibly changed to please their Master/Mistress?... Sure, people have gender reassignment surgery for their own personal reasons..... but i think it's pretty rare someone gets surgery like that because their Master/Mistress has "ordered" them to do it. ....

Err? or at least... i guess.. i hope that's rare. Being someone who is a novice... i admit it's pretty "terrifying" for me to think that it's "Perfectly common and normal for a person in a BDSM relationship to have major surgical gender reassignment surgeries to be a good slave/sub and please their Master/Mistress". ~

Or maybe i misunderstood what you were questioning....?

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People have had "horns" surgigally planted on their foreheads, tongues divided...

Most of the time bodymods like that are not done by licensed medical doctors, just for the record....... not to be argumentatative with you.. but, i just wanted to point that out.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 2:38:37 PM

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Or maybe i misunderstood what you were questioning....?

I was only questioning the statement "A clinic allowing internet access for a post op patient is RARE", not the veracity of Rowena's posts.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 2:53:29 PM

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I was only questioning the statement "A clinic allowing internet access for a post op patient is RARE", not the veracity of Rowena's posts.

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Ah ha.. then i did misunderstand...... :)

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 3:02:19 PM

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if i recall, Rowena was to have the penis chopped off, gone. there was not mention of hormonal therapy or the like; it was just that in so many days, mistress was going to have it done. perhaps some parts got left off (of the post), or who knows. it just was "out there" enough that the thread was removed by the mods. if transgender surgery was indeed done, this is major surgery, not an outpatient procedure. one would hope that a patient would be spending time recuperating and dealing with fluctuating hormone levels (even with pre-op therapy, removal of certain parts will cause this to fluctuate well beyond what was going on before), not surfing the web. but then again, who knows?

i wish you well.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 4:13:47 PM

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A 17 year old, being still a child in My opinion ( and that of the law in the US ),so I would not call Her extreme, but I would say that she was "training" a child, which is just wrong.
As far as feminization is concerned, there as many levels of depth as there are fingerprints or any other identifying facet, that is unique to a human being. Whether or not your Mistress is "out there" should not be your concern. Your gift of submission should be given only when you can fully trust your Handler. If you can do that, then She can take you anywhere She chooses....and it is just where you ought to be, extreme or not.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 5:46:11 PM

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I guess it just depends on the person, as long as you do what you think is in your best interest, then you should be fine.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/5/2005 8:15:04 PM

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And I have a bridge...crafted of paladium...prime location in downtown NY...I'm selling for a quite reasonable price.

C'mon! This is a wankfodder post people.

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RE: Extreme feminisation - 12/6/2005 7:31:58 AM

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purely for education purposes: http://www.sexchangeasia.com

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