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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 2:43:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
I've got more offers to meet than I can schedule, because women know I'm SAFE.

off topic..........but if you wanna compare filofaxes we can by private email.
But you are absolutely right: trying to prove how many dates you got has kind of made this thread weird.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 2:47:13 PM

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Prinny?... with the same respect returned, if you post on a message board, you can't control the responses..:)

Jeff

Jeffff:
i know and i love it all except for downright personal and ignorant insults.
Why not just do that privately?
No balls for the job i suspect.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 2:51:08 PM

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I think RedMagic was being ironic. At least I hope he was. lol

We need an irony emote for people who don't get it.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 2:52:19 PM

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trying to prove how many dates you got has kind of made this thread weird.

We can all easily get dates. If we want to hang out with desperate people.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 2:57:01 PM

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trying to prove how many dates you got has kind of made this thread weird.

We can all easily get dates. If we want to hang out with desperate people.

exactly.....i'm going to go over to random polls and other stupidity for a while...it's far more serious there.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 3:08:09 PM

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Unless, of course, what you posted was in jest and I misinterpreted it.

I was being sarcastic, but not exactly in jest. MasterforRT has posted lesbian-bashing before. You are right that perhaps not enough people reading this thread have read as much of the Leather Archives as you or I, and I should have included an emoticon to make myself clear.

Overall, any het man who says that he can't get a date because of the damn lesbians is bigtime suspect in my book. Add a total ignorance of history, and I am not impressed. Hence my less than conciliatory tone.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 3:16:49 PM

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Unless, of course, what you posted was in jest and I misinterpreted it.

I was being sarcastic, but not exactly in jest. MasterforRT has posted lesbian-bashing before. You are right that perhaps not enough people reading this thread have read as much of the Leather Archives as you or I, and I should have included an emoticon to make myself clear.

Overall, any het man who says that he can't get a date because of the damn lesbians is bigtime suspect in my book. Add a total ignorance of history, and I am not impressed. Hence my less than conciliatory tone.

What I said was not lesbian bashing. It was but ONE of the problems that hetero BDSM faces today.
Don't believe me? Pick 50 profiles at random-I'll bet that 30 of them are lesbian. Not to mention that many of those have a distinct man hating tone.

The numbers don't lie....

Ironically, another problem I posted seems completely lost on you, but I'll let you figure that one out for yourself.

PS: I don't need to find submissives here-nor am I sure that I would even want to. I do quite well in RL, thank you....

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 3:41:39 PM

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PS: I don't need to find submissives here-nor am I sure that I would even want to. I do quite well in RL, thank you....

Congratulations. This means (1) your dick is bigger than mine, and (2) you have no further reason to complain, so I will not see you post about your frustrations again.

Also, about 9 out of 10 female submissive profiles are straight or bi. Not 30 out of 50 the other direction.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 3:53:13 PM

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Boys settle down....if you bicker amongst yourselves no wonder some of the straight, bi and lesbian females not to mention the trans here are getting a raw deal......

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 3:57:42 PM

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Sorry for the hijack, Prinsexx. On topic (maybe

) you've asked me several times in various threads to email you, and I haven't. The #1 reason is that I don't know if you are able to keep private things about me private. If you're able to do that for people in your real life, I will have greater confidence that you can do it for someone like me, who you only know online.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 4:06:30 PM

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Lesbians are taking over the world! And to keep it on topic.. They are handing out velcro collars.

C-D

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 4:44:37 PM

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A collar is a symbol, it's meaning as serious or as frivolous as the person offering or wearing it.

The gist of what i understood prinny to mean was that once a collar goes around a neck the D then begins to take for granted the s. Perhaps the flip side as well.... once accepted the same happens with the s - they take the D for granted. Instead of it being a symbol of something already established it is a symbol of something else entirely - perhaps of insecurity, passion?

i like what leatherist had to say - what happened to earning a collar? This is how one would mean something to me. It would be the difference between me joining a sports team and simply because i was a member getting a trophy as opposed to working my ass off in training so i could perform well to actually earn one. i like to work for the important and valuable things in my life - there's a lot of pride in that.

i do believe that one can wear an "internal" collar, as it will, around one's heart. If i am committed to someone, whether or not i wear an actual tangible symbol around my neck or not, if i am devoted to them wholeheartedly, i don't need the external validation to direct my actions.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 4:45:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavidS8ist
Unless, of course, what you posted was in jest and I misinterpreted it.

I was being sarcastic, but not exactly in jest. MasterforRT has posted lesbian-bashing before. You are right that perhaps not enough people reading this thread have read as much of the Leather Archives as you or I, and I should have included an emoticon to make myself clear.

Overall, any het man who says that he can't get a date because of the damn lesbians is bigtime suspect in my book. Add a total ignorance of history, and I am not impressed. Hence my less than conciliatory tone.

And I have to apologize for misinterpreting your post. Not knowing you, and being away from these boards for a few years, I have only the words on the screen to go on. So forgive me if I came off snarky. I easily could have phrased my post in a better way.

By the by, I agree entirely with your post here. If one can't find a match, it's not the fault of those of a different orientation. It was Shakespeare's Cassius who said it best: "The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars,/But in ourselves, that we are underlings."

D.
"Pluralitas non est ponenda sine necessitate."

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 5:20:22 PM

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It would be the difference between me joining a sports team and simply because i was a member getting a trophy as opposed to working my ass off in training so i could perform well to actually earn one. i like to work for the important and valuable things in my life - there's a lot of pride in that.

I love the way you put this!

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 7:16:39 PM

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heterosexual BDSMers are becoming the minority,

I agree. I would rather have lived in the days of the Old Guard, when the only practitioners of BDSM were straight. Now half the hot chicks on this site have the words "NO MEN" prominently in their profile. Uppity cunts.

Kiss my uppity lesbian ass!!

damned hetro jealous dickheads..........sheesh

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 7:21:06 PM

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OMG, LaT. I wasn't being serious. I sent you an apology by cmail.

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 7:22:04 PM

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Dude, you look just like Richard Kuklinski!!!!

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 7:24:12 PM

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OMG, LaT. I wasn't being serious. I sent you an apology by cmail.

Oh honey, neither was I!!!! No apology required, none at all.

I should have added a smiley face!

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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 7:27:14 PM

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heterosexual BDSMers are becoming the minority,

I agree. I would rather have lived in the days of the Old Guard, when the only practitioners of BDSM were straight. Now half the hot chicks on this site have the words "NO MEN" prominently in their profile. Uppity cunts.

Kiss my uppity lesbian ass!!

damned hetro jealous dickheads..........sheesh

LOL, LT...

What you just said right there? That's just so fuckin' gay.

I wish I had a bottle of Tawny Port right now.

Ron

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RE: in it for what they can get out of it and out of it... - 8/9/2008 7:33:26 PM

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Mmmmmmmm, it's going to be my favourite time of year for Tawny Port in a few months. Nothing like a cold rainy night, and a glass or three of the nectar of the gods.

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