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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

I really enjoy cuckolding. It's a fetish that I savor and when I have a cuckolding scene planned I look forward to it for days in advance. Everyone does it differently, of course, here's my particular brand...

I have a date planned on Saturday, a romantic evening with a new lover. I call the cuckold and inform him that on Saturday night I would like a very romantic evening, I tell him what restaurant I want to have dinner in and what time. I also give him the name and phone number of the man (for purposes of simplicity he will be called "the man" from here on out) I will be seeing that evening. The cuck will call the restaurant and make the reservation, I have had cucks that have gotten intricate with this step and had requested a special table, flowers or extra candles. The cuck will then call the man and inform him of my specific taste in flowers, and ask if there's anything he can do to help him prepare for the date (clean his car, purchase the flowers, etc...)

On Saturday, the cuck will come to my home and prepare me for a special evening. Whether he does these things himself or pays for and accompanies me to a salon to have them done depends on my assessment of his skill level, but I have a mani/pedi and massage as well as having my hair done. He will help me bathe, shave/wax as the case may be, dress and apply makeup as well. He will greet the man at the door, take his coat, offer him a refreshment and then announce to me that my date has arrived. Once we have left for the evening, the cuck will then prepare my bedroom for our return. He lights candles, turns on music, dims the lights, changes the sheets on the bed, puts out flowers and flower petals, massage oils, and condoms. He prepares a plate of fresh fruit and an ice bucket with bottled water. He will then prepare a mat by the side of the bed and lying on the mat will be a blindfold, gates of hell, and hand cuffs. Lastly, he kneels by the door and awaits my return.

When we enter he stands and takes our coats. He follows us to the living room and offers drinks. Kneels by the entrance to the room, and waits for any orders. When we retire to the bedroom he follows us and takes his place kneeling on the mat by the bed he puts himself into the gates of hell and waits for orders. Depending on the comfort level of the man, I will use the cuck as a fluffer for the man. This may be before or after he's blindfolded. Or I might not use the blindfold. I cuff the cuck and have him kneel on the mat while we fuck. He listens and maybe is allowed to watch. He is exposed to my sexuality, witnessing the intensity and seeing/hearing my gratification without being allowed to experience or feel it. He is a part of it without being able to touch, cause or effect it. Verbal humiliation is especially effective when used at this very heated point. When finished he cleans the both of us up, and offers us the refreshments he's set out. When I give him the word he then assists the man in dressing and escorts him to the door. He will then return to the bedroom and if I'm still awake then he will kneel on his mat and we will discuss the evening. If I'm sleeping he'll curl up on his mat and sleep.

In my experience it's about my ability and desire to flaunt my sexuality, tease, deny and humiliate the cuck. It's also about his inferiority and inability to please me sexually. The many layers of humiliation are evident. It has the ability to be a very powerful scene, and can have an exreme effect on a cuck that you have a strong emotional bond with.

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ORIGINAL: onthenosetone

SDFemDom4cuck   While I'm sure that there are unsuccessful cuckold marriages just as there are unsuccessful vanilla marriages. Personally I was in a successful cuckold relationship for 6 years and were it not for the death of My cuck I would still be with him today.

Of course you're probably saying that I can't possibly know that. However I can. Because a cuckold relationship, as with any relationship, grows, changes and evolves just as the two people within it do. It will (and does) work as long as there is communication and trust. O/our relationship evolved and changed on a continual basis as well as having a bi-annual "negotiation" for want of a better word on what was working and what wasn't for both parties.Without communication that brings in frustration and anger. When those two things break down so does the relationship in most cases. A cuckold relationship is perfectly sustainable as long as BOTH parties are intent upon its doing so and work at it to survive. Of course this is simply My personal opinion.


Here here....quite right....13 years here and getting stronger as each year passes, communication is without doubt the key but then again lack of communication usually means trouble in ANY relationship, doesn't it?

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ORIGINAL: solvr70

SDFemDom4cuck - So You have a good deal of experience in rt then m'Lady?

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck
I have experience r/t yes. Whether one finds my having a successful relationship that lasted 6 years...(almost 7) as a good deal of experience is entirely an individual perception lol.

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ORIGINAL: solvr70

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck
I have experience r/t yes. Whether one finds my having a successful relationship that lasted 6 years...(almost 7) as a good deal of experience is entirely an individual perception lol.

i would call that a good deal of experience and One that must be skilled at cucking one. ah, but m'Lady is on the other coast, many, many miles away. i find this and having a guy take cock for a Woman, very overlaping. sound accurate to You m'Lady?

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ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

Many people, especially men feel that cuckolding involves the submissive watching his
Dominant have sex with other men, and then cleaning up afterwards.

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ORIGINAL: VeryMercurial

Great explanation, the best I have heard so far.