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Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 7:07:04 AM

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My question is this: are there any Fem Dommes out there living this lifestyle??? Do You have a man/boyfriend/husband that enjoys being cuckolded??? i am a white male. i know i have a small penis compared to most Black Men. my fantasy is to introduce My girlfriend into the cuckold lifestyle. i have left subtile 'hints' about it to my Girl, even watched a couple of interracial videos with Her, but She doesn't seem interested. Just the thought of seeing Her with a Big Black Cock driving into Her, drives me crazy. i imagine me sitting on the floor watching Her making love to a black dude. Licking Her feet, rubbing Her legs, while She gets it on with Him. Then when they are done, She orders me to clean both of them up. When i try to talk to Her about it, She makes a face, and says, 'that's kind of sick'. i really think that once She has a BBC, She will become addicted. They say 'once You go Black, You don't go back'

RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 7:37:29 AM

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They say 'once You go Black, You don't go back'

Maybe for some, but not for me.

I can't imagine being with another man other then my partner, even though he has suggested it multiple times. It would tear me apart and I am afraid it would end up wrecking our relationship.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 7:47:14 AM

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They say 'once You go Black, You don't go back'

Maybe for some, but not for me.

Not for me either!

I hate such stereotypical bullshit, and do I turn men down with a quickness who come to me with this very popular kink... M

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 8:27:15 AM

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I did a voyeur/cuckolding scene with a person I was in a relationship with (partner #3 was my fuckbuddy). Oddly, it went very well, maybe because it was as much voyeurism as anything else. My FB's penis was smaller than my slave's, but my FB was just "better", if you get my drift.

Cuckolding involves an essential contempt for the person being cuckolded. Why would I be in a relationship with someone I had no respect for?

There are many facets to humiliation play, and plenty of players to engage in the different aspects. Finding them, and creating satisfactory relationships with them, is the difficulty. I can't imagine what the "rest" of the relationship with someone into cuckolding would be like.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 8:37:23 AM

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Have you eve thought that IF You force her into doing this, through constant asking, that IF she does this...she might find out she likes the other guy better than you and leaves?

Don't force someone into being something they are not. You might find that what you have now is the best. Be glad for what you have instead of constantly worrying about what you don't have.

Guys tend to forget this when they go on rages wanting threesome or seeing their woman with another women. They forget that the woman might find out the grass IS greener on the other side, and leave. Leaving their former guy high and dry, so to speak.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 8:55:07 AM

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The essence of this sort of scene is that she wishes to cuckold you. Obviously, your partner doesn't. In response to this you are trying to convince her to.

Sorta goes against the essence of the scene.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 10:56:46 AM

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Give that man a choccy fish! It never ceases to amaze me the scores of people who refuse to understand that the essence (great word that) of cuckolding is exactly that...

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 12:11:19 PM

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I see this all the time. You want to be cuckolded on your terms. That is not the traditional sense of cuckolding. You would fall into the "hotwife" camp.
What you need is a nice girl who is willing to go along with *your* program. You run the scenes, and find the bulls. This is not D/s or M/s. This is "do me...everything is already all planned out and it makes me hot. Just do me"!

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 12:20:38 PM

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Yeah, that's what I was doing for whatshisname! No wonder it worked well. <G>

:)Francine, ever the service top <snort>

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 1:27:24 PM

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define cuckold?

it differs from place to place.

mine is;
i am not into sex...........so i am not allowed...........masturbation or anything else.
and my p.a. and guiche is about healed...so i will SOON be locked up.
but then-------it ain't for ME---------it's HER control fetish!

take care

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 1:54:07 PM

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Some fantasies are best left as just that. I dated someone (it was a D/s dynamic,) for two years and finally got tired of hearing his constant talking about his desire for a cuckhold relationship. So, I said, ok, lets do it, only, I'm going to have to move in with you and as usual we won't ever copulate, but I will have men over to fulfill me sexual needs while you watch. I never saw anyone stutter so much in all my life.

Him "You mean you are gonna live with me and I still won't be able to have sex with you and other men will?"

Me Duh, what the hell do you think being cuckhold is about buddy boy? You get to be in a commited relationship with me, as you've wanted, and to watch me being sexually ravished by a well hung stud, though you never get access to the coochie.

Him "uminauminaumina" No that that's not what I meant." I'd hoped that someday you would let me make love to you as well, but I also wanted to watch you with another man and get cream pies and such.

Me Not with that little thing, you can't satisfy me. chuckle.

Him "True", but still, I don't think I want that kind of relationship.

Me, Just as I thought, Enough said. I hope we're done with this fantasy conversation.

Sad to say, we weren't. It was like talking with the character "Rain Main"

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 2:29:07 PM

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It was like talking with the character "Rain Main"
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i'm sorry. maybe some other will be the one for You.
too bad some don't grasp ALL of it...........but then..........it is a different word to a lot of folks.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 3:54:46 PM

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it is a different word to a lot of folks.

Well it SHOULDN'T be. I get extracranky when it comes to less than precise language. I never heard of this "hotwife" thing until recently---to me, that seems like some sort of swinging behavior, but it is not cuckolding. Cuckolding is a very old idea, and a very old word. Folks, ask for what you REALLY want, and be sure that you really want it!

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 10:59:10 PM

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Have you eve thought that IF You force her into doing this, through constant asking, that IF she does this...she might find out she likes the other guy better than you and leaves?

Precisely what happened to a good friend of mine. He pushed his wife into living his fantasy with someone she worked with. He was overjoyed, jumping out of his skin in anticipation. The day after the act she told she was leaving him for ...guess who? Ten years of marriage dissolved. He blamed himself (duh!), was totally remorseful, but, oh well.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 11:04:56 PM

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please forgive my ignorance, but...what IS cuckholding?

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 11:18:14 PM

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yes Lady H..........

maybe it SHOULDN'T be.......

but often times it IS.

take care Ma'am.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 11:19:55 PM

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please forgive my ignorance, but...what IS cuckholding?

Hi michael,

Re-read RosaB's post. Anything I would add pales in comparison.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 11:20:17 PM

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please forgive my ignorance, but...what IS cuckholding?

Cuckolding is to make a cuckold of a husband, which is to say that the husbands wife is cheating on him. Didn't you read Othello?

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 11:22:57 PM

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thanks

i did as advised and cuckholding doesn't sound like much fun to the person on the sidelines at all.

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RE: Cuckolding - 11/21/2005 11:32:30 PM

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Cuckolding is to make a cuckold of a husband, which is to say that the husbands wife is cheating on him. Didn't you read Othello?
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othello????? uh,,,,,,,,,,no. why? should i? i don't even know the NAME let alone the story.

hmm.
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"It is still basically a thriller which contains sexual jealousy, betrayal, revenge, and murder."

JUST looked it up on the net. sounds pretty stupid. sounds like one of those "murder she wrote" tv things........
here i had hope there was something cool.
thanks anyway.

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