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Quivver -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 6:34:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Woulda liked to have seen that.
(respect the rope!)


Awe Shucks Katy, I did a great job, ask him! it's pretty!
(rope whipping, making the ends of the rope so they do not fray!)

Q



Mercnbeth -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 6:51:10 PM)

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yeah to a point i AM.............yes. unattached and uninvolved.


veronica,
What happened to your situation as posted in your profile; "i am Owned, by Mistress Laura, r/t." What's real for you currently, unattached as posted here or Owned as posted on the profile as of your joining date 11/19/05? Sorry to hear of your lost ownership. Maybe it's the reason you feel the need to challenge CM people on this thread. Apologies if your owner relationship is solely domestic service and your intent was directed to others in that same situation. From my readings, those that are - don't post, but those that seek it would find your situation, work - sans sex, utopia. My question to you in this regard, are you complaining or bragging?

The discussions regarding general housekeeping and timely bill paying are not as exciting as those debates regarding the proper use of capital letters, but they still occur. As far as the ultimate "real" factor - meeting the faces behind the forum posts, we are extremely pleased in that regard. We just spent an entire WIIWD weekend with people, many of whom we met from contact initiated from CM. From our experience, we've only met one fraud in r/t from CM. Considering how many people we've met, it speaks very well about the people who are here.

Good luck finding what you desire!



KnightofMists -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 6:59:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: FemDomHouTx

Why would anyone stay in a relationship that is as unfulfilling as the one you claim. If you persist in that circumstance you must enjoy it. "Tis better to light a candle than to curse the darkness".
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How many times I have heard foolish comments that a Woman Stay in an Abuse Relationship because she must like it!... Well the fact is... sometimes people don't stay in a situation because they enjoy it... they sometimes just don't know how to change it... or they believe that can change the aspect that is causing the darkness in there given situation... or hell of alot of other reasons... Enjoyment is not necessarily one of them.

Yes it's Better to light a candle than curse the darkness, but first one needs to have a candle... and the ability to light it.

your comment is FOOLISH! and worthy of Red-Neck Male!



caitlyn -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 7:13:49 PM)

This morning, I got up at 5:30. It was a little on the cold side, and I love cold weather. I had a hangover ... sucks to be me. I made some coffee and while it was brewing, I put cream and sugar in my mug. I went out and got the paper. I froze my ass off because that little subbie bitch-boi that delivers the paper didn't get it close enough to the house. I went back into the kitchen and poured my coffee ... forgetting that I already put in sugar, I put in more, then went upstairs with coffee and paper to take a bath. Coffee was like syrup ... tasted like shit. I had a hangover, so I drank it anyway. Dropped the paper into the bath while it was filling up. The foster dad didn't think much of that. Took a hot bath, which was nice, but had to pick little bits of newspaper off me while I was drying off. Put on makeup and got dressed. Got more coffee, got in the car, and drove to class, bitching all the way that we had a makeup on a day that would have normally been a day off. Coffee still tasted like shit, because after drinking one with too much sugar, this one tasted like coffee flavored sweet tarts. Still had a hangover ... but managed to avoid puking in my car. Finally got to class ... the parking lot was 90% empty so I grabbed up a better spot that my assigned one. Went to hang in the library for a while and study. It was closed. So was the caf. Did I mention that it was cold out? I went back to my car, thinking I would hang out at Jim's (restaurant) until class. Got a parking ticket from the campus police ... guess they were working today. Went to Jim's ... greasy food smell when you are hung over is enough to make you puke. Finally managed it. Hung for a while, drinking coffee with too much sugar times five, then went to class. Parked in my normal spot and took the long walk past all those empty spots. Class was boring ... why was I even there. Daydreamed through class, then went home. Got a speeding ticket on the way home. How can you get a fucking speeding ticket on the Katy Freeway ... everyone drives like 85 MPH. Finally got home, and in a fine mood too. Hit the foster dad's bottle of Crown. It tasted like coffee with too much sugar.

Real enough for you? [;)][;)]



IronBear -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 7:18:52 PM)

Y’know, what I’m seeing here is someone so unhappy with his/her life that they post to demand attention and to try to drag other people down into their level of misery. I may be wrong, but were it feasible, I’d love the OP to spend a week with me, to understand other peoples difficulties from exceptionally high levels of pain to lack of mobility and still coping without winging or whining.. To sit in with me on the one on ones with suicide attempts and help me talk them down and get them through their situation cold turkey.. To come out on Pastoral calls helping people who are destitute or who are inform and frail and who their own blood have deserted…. Come and sit with me helping some one who has just been shot or stabbed or been the Officer who has shot some one.. help me get them through their denial and their nightmares….. Perhaps that would give the OP a swift kick in the arse and stop him/her from winging and whining about how bad their life is…..

Life is like a Pork Chop…… You will either enjoy it or it will make you vomit….. The choice is yours!!!



caitlyn -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 7:23:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: IronBear
Life is like a Pork Chop…… You will either enjoy it or it will make you vomit….. The choice is yours!!!


You just had to use a vomit analogy ... didn't you? [;)][;)]



IronBear -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 7:27:29 PM)

Awwwwwww darlin I do so appologise.......Actually the original from my Father was ...."You will either enjoy it or it will make you sick..." the vomit analogy was a subconcious reference to the state of my tummy after cooking and eating a heap of braised steak and onions and not having coffee to help keep everytbhing in place (like in the stomach)



FelinePersuasion -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 7:52:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AbstractSavant


Then I used the bathroom and made a frozen pizza from Trader Joe's.




I hope you washed hands after that and did not do the pizza and the potty buissness in one fell swoop to save time Giggling



FelinePersuasion -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 7:56:17 PM)

No you didn't post something with substance you posted a very acusative toned message about people who only talk about fantasy sex BDSM and Sm not real life.


If you wanted to post something with substance drop the acusitory "fantsy poster" tone and actually post something with a friendlier tone.


And in the ask the submissives cleaning topics have been discussed how to get into a schedual to clean for master excet exet



perverseangelic -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 8:03:44 PM)

Seems to me there are LOTS of posts that deal with day to day life and how to balance havign to be a person living in a vanilla world with non-vanilla relationship dynamics.

Heck, I leave out a lot of the BDSM parts of my life, even, not to mention the vanilla bits. I know I leave out a lot of my life, because sometimes it gets too darn confusing. For example, right now we're going through a re-negotation of our power dynamic. This is very much in addition to the fact that he's a student and I work full time. It sometimes seems like our relationship is a constant series of problems we have to address, because we're always growing and changing the things we need/want. We're still relativly new to all this as a couple, and still learning how to balance life with power play, and, indeed how our power dynamic -itself- is gonna work.

It's a confusing series of changes. But, hell, what relationship works without growth?

I mostly don't address it on this board because it would probably require -constant- updates, with lots of rambling, crazy-girl type conversations, and ya'll don't need ot deal with that.

As for the rest of it?
Well, the dishes get done, the cats get fed, the house gets cleaned. It's part of life. It happens. It's not at odds with whatever power dynamic we're trying that day. I feed the fishies when I get up, and make dinner when we get home. He takes out the trash. It's boring. It's the mechanics of life. I'd rather not bother with them, that's the stuff I do so I can have the fun parts I enjoy, y'know?



LadiesBladewing -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 8:05:00 PM)

I could spend my posts talking about working for 9 hours, commuting for 1, running to the store after work for the sausage and stew veal I forgot yesterday, paying this payday's bills, making ravioli with sausage and asiago for dinner, and the hours spent in pastoral counseling -- or the hours spent burning music to custom playlist CDs for the teen unmentionable....

...or I could talk about things that we don't get much chance to talk about in my daily life, but which bring joy when I -do- have a few minutes to spend on them.

Frankly, I enjoy spending my time here getting to talk about the people and parts of my life that don't get a lot of attention in the day-to-day, even when I live with them! My beloved, SilverRose, who shares my roof, and our girl, Sunshine (Awendela), who gets to share our roof a couple of days a week as we work on merging households...

Lady Zephyr


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ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

i have not seen one posting........of anyone ever talking about real life.

why is that?

is real life too difficult of a concept?

i really really worry that people live in a bubble world......

OR
is it JUST my view?
thanks.........for those interested........and if ya aren't........don't be climbing down my throat.....
i don't need it....




FelinePersuasion -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 8:05:11 PM)

LadyJulieAnn

I remember when I lived in a group home we had one of those giant utility wash buckets you know, lug the dam thing into the kitchen fill it pour stuff into it dip mop in ring it out with the ringer slap said mop in floor, mop ring it then haul it out the back door down the steps and pour it out lol.

Now THAT was pain in the ass moping lol.



IronBear -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 8:32:14 PM)

Perhaps we could have a series of posts on shaving (from the men), tampon changing (from the girls), how each one of us use the dunny and who leaves the seat up and why??????? Is this what the OP wants to hear?????



starshineowned -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 8:36:17 PM)

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i just never see anyone post about what they figure slaves and subs SHOULD be doing.......vs the fantasy i see posted on here........all the so called sex stuff and s/m goings on........how about some of the REAL life things?



Greetings..~smiles~

I think most of us slaves are doing what needs to be done. If thats housework, outside work, unmentionables, cooking, being a luscious sexy wench to the Owner however and whenever, running errands, school, etc..

I go to sleep a happy slave and I wake up a happy slave because I am free to be me=a happy slave. :)

starshine
Happy slave of Master Delvin



girl4you2 -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 8:40:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: veronicaofML

but i see SO much fantasy on here it often times leaves me feeling sad about the world.

life's a bitch and ya die.
no ticker tape parades.......no memorials on tv........no front page story.
no film at 9 o'clock news.

mosey on over to the posts about war and death and dying. you'll find lots of stuff that doesn't make the news, and it's one hell of a bite of real life. if you feel so sad about the world, do something to make it better. or is that too much fantasy?

i wish you well.



anopheles -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 9:04:23 PM)

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Perhaps we could have a series of posts on shaving (from the men)



Speaking of shaving, if I don't do it pretty soon, no telling how many ugly looks i'm gonna get from the Dragon :)




LadyHibiscus -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 9:36:33 PM)

Well since we are all sharing: got up. Chatted with parrot, told him we were NOT going outside in the cold. Went downstairs, petted guinea pig. Logged on, read a bunch of email, checked my auctions. WHY do I have watchers on a dutch auction? Are these people clueless? Typed a letter for BCBS so we can change our violently expensive plan to a somewhat less costly one. Went to the office to drop off said letter, went to Wendy's with a colleague. LOVE that you can get mandarin oranges as a side now! Went to the orthopedic doctor, found out that they moved my appt to a different time than I was told on my answering machine. Sat in my car and cleaned out the back seat of all the textbooks from the classes I am done teaching, and started studying the tax law changes. (OY!) Went into the dr's office, got xrays, found that while the arthritis in my neck is vvv advanced, there is no nerve involvement so far, so don't worry until the hand spasms make me drop things. Met the family for dinner (shish kebab), and was relieved to note that the grandmother unit FOUND her missing wedding ring! Went home, and was relieved to see that those yarnauctionwatchers actually BOUGHT. The rest of the evening was spent: watching Antiques Roadshow with grandmother and parrot, knitting a coat, cuddling with guinea pig, thinking deep thoughts, and reading on the computer.

I did not: have sex, engage in any bdsm play, work on Club FEM related issues, or have any mindless fantasies. I did have an Anger Management Moment, but it passed.

The excitement never ends!



veronicaofML -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 10:46:46 PM)

Merc n beth<<<<<<<<
hi YOU 2 have always had good things to say here SO


veronica,
What happened to your situation as posted in your profile; "i am Owned, by Mistress Laura, r/t." What's real for you currently, unattached as posted here or Owned as posted on the profile as of your joining date 11/19/05? Sorry to hear of your lost ownership. Maybe it's the reason you feel the need to challenge CM people on this thread.
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i am still HERS and i THOUGHT having of ML would say something? guess not? ok i'll change it.
and i am NOT trying to challenge anyone for hell's sake.
just coz i said too many are fantasy people.....what? truth hurt?
i see too much of the do-me's on this site........all sex and s/m stuff...whip me beat me.....HEY!
everyday life is NOT that way.............
NO ONE can do this 24/7--------normally everyone has work of SOME kind.......MINE is this entire house and yards and the boat dock.....and garages...there are 2.......
i have my hands full......and i do it alone.
and i am proud of the work i do.
unattached means i am not attached to anyone elgally OR morally.
uninvolved means NO romance and NO sex........and certainly very very little s/m...an occasional ass beating but She knows my CORE doesn't change. so the beatings are of no value to Her........so they are far few between.
and thanks Merc n beth........i have always liked YOUR posts.
take care



veronicaofML -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 10:49:31 PM)

wow...........am i ever jealous. wish i had a life like that....

take care.



veronicaofML -> RE: real life posts? (11/21/2005 10:57:41 PM)

well ole iron bear had to be the one to be mean.......and i did ask people not jump down my throat.
hey........just coz everyone else has-to have fantasy doesn't mean i have to.
i thought..............iron bear..........you were a cool dude til now.

i see your true light coming out.
and if ya are atlking about blood guts and misery

i had to dig out bodies overseas..........remember munich games? i was there dudes.

my ole pa used a 12 gauage........i cleaned it up......
yeah dudes...........TOO real.
but i was talking about daily chores,,,,,,,,,,,,,,not snores...........

i am so fed up with the do-me's........all sex fantasy..........this s/m stuff.....let me do this or that to ya..........you should SEE what "I" see around these posts........

ah well..........looks like you are gonna just ignore me anyway.......
take care ole iron bear.........
SHE may call me veronica but i am STILL a Wolf inside........always will be.......

most folks i'd just as soon as hit upside the head as look at em.
i have NO conscience.........i worked the wrong side of the tracks dudes....for too long.

take care anyway




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