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ProtagonistLily -> RE: Another quesiton about names or how you address your Dom... (8/19/2008 6:51:55 PM)
quote: Not trying to hijack this thread, but a thought just popped up -- why is it that it's fairly well-accepted in the BDSM community to call a male dominant "Daddy" but you never hear of a submissive calling a female dominant "Mommy?" This is a FR so I don't know if it's been answered. Historically, it goes back to Daddy/boy relationships in the gay leather community. That's where it became acceptable, and was then acceptable pansexually. PL

thishereboi -> RE: Another quesiton about names or how you address your Dom... (8/20/2008 8:25:50 AM)
I called mine Daddi, because calling her Mommy creeped me out.

thishereboi -> RE: Another quesiton about names or how you address your Dom... (8/20/2008 8:28:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie And why is Mommy so much creepier to me than Daddy? Not sure why, but it is for me. Maybe because I called my real mom mommy at one point and I never called my dad Daddy.

Mavis -> RE: Another quesiton about names or how you address your Dom... (8/20/2008 10:55:41 PM)
Mom always called my dad "Daddy-Baby" and i adopted it in our home. He doesn't go for Sir (20 yrs Army, enlisted rank) and Master is usually used for my other Master.. and DaddyBaby works out in public. It's usually taken as a casual endearment, like "aayyy Big Daddy" and doesn't imply any power or role distinctions.

Zechriel -> RE: Another quesiton about names or how you address your Dom... (8/21/2008 5:04:21 AM)
Good morning! Daddy actually started using the term, not me. He kept signing things as Daddy and calling himself Daddy. Kinda freaked me out a bit and was not very easy to roll off my tongue. Even though he is 54 and I am 35. But the more I saw what he meant by it I understood. He is caring, protective, reassuring, honest, and fun. So now he is Daddy all the time except...when the play turns. When I get into the head space then Master will slip from my lips. Then he knows it is time to change roles or when he says Master wants..I know what is coming. The only times he has ever been called Master during nilla things is when I am being very stubborn-like taking my pain pills or resting after my surgery. Then it was HE who said "Master is telling you..." Kinda like a "I am putting my foot down" Hope that helps. Good luck! Love, Zechriel [sm=dance.gif]

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