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peppermint379 -> RE: Possitive Relationships; (11/24/2005 2:34:35 AM)
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It would be nice to have a thread that expressed good chit happening
for some in their relationships and the difference your partaking in WIITWD has made and enhanced your life.
I love this thread!!!
First, a "Thank You" to the Dom who spent 2 years with me while i was taking care of a dying family member. He often took my mind off my troubles. He offered good advice as to how to handle the often daunting job of caring for an ill person. He gave me a reason to wake up in the morning and he calmed me so i could sleep at night.
Another "Thank You" for Mentor who i met here on collarme. He has been bossy at times, but only for my own good. He encourages me to go out and meet people. He provides a link to the community that i lacked. He checks out anyone i might meet before the meeting happens. Because of him i have met so many wonderful people. I know that i sometimes disappoint him, but even then he still cares.
Many "Thank Yous" for the Doms i have met and played with. Each and every one has honored my limits and my safeword. They have made me feel safe. A few have become friends...someone to share a problem, someone to share a happy thought, someone to join me in some laughter. Each has shown me a new aspect of myself.
Let me not forget the submissives i've met through the years. There is woody who helped me begin to understand what this life was all about. There is mikey who touched my heart, who gave me love, who talked honestly and with sense and shared his own definition of what a D/s relationship could and should be. Then there is jj (smiles brightly) and all the many evenings doing the girl talk thing. I could go on and on, but will just say "Thank You" to all of you for your advice and encouragement.
And last, but also very important, a "Thank You" to Sir Gary who has offered to share his life with me. It didn't matter to him that Mentor told him that i'm a SAM and not a sub. Sir says i have at least a touch of sub in me. Sir not only allows, but also likes me to do things for him. In return he has discovered those little things that make my own life easier. He's kind of bossy like Mentor, but only for things that really count...and for things i might put off if i'm not pushed to get done. I call him my kind sadist.
If i hadn't met all these wonderful people, i'd still be wondering why i felt so odd, why i seemed different, wanted different things than my other women friends seemed to want. I would have never known the kiss of the flogger and how wonderfully relaxing that kiss can be. I would have never experienced the sheer joy of having a limit pushed and the feeling of strength the pushing can give to oneself. I still have a ways to go before i am all that i can be, but each little step is a victory.
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