HeavansKeeper
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I've not met a dominant man who would be off pit by a nice submissive starting a conversation. You can be coy if you please, but don't hesitate in bringing the issue to light. 90% of success is showing up. Without knowing anything more than you have an ongoing friendship, my advice is the simple but difficult "Just tell him." Leave him an out, thought, so he doesn't have to choose you as a submissive or nothing at all. Perhaps offer yourself to play with. If he jumps on it, he likes ya. If he doesn't, he either doesn't want to risk the friendship or doesn't want you as a submissive. At least this way he can be cool about saying no and no drama occurs. I should ask, is this person known through the workplace? Many people hold work spouses, where flirtation comes dangerously close to being something real, but its all just to make 9-5 feel like 12-3. If talking to him or offering yourself are out of the question, let it develop (or not develop) with time. Something I tell My Pet: If you ask, you might hear "no."
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