ShiftedJewel
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha Many service subs reach out aggressively to serve women and do not seem to care who/how ("age, race unimportant, and I want little/nothing in return) - so why not bring those skills to the general public? Firstly, "age/race unimportant" hardly means that sub doesn't care who their dominant is. It sounds rather ignorant of you to suggest that. I love submitting to younger and older women, but if they don't click with me, I certainly don't. And I don't care about race, but that doesn't mean I don't care if my domme is happy with my service. I would say you were a troll if you didn't have over 2000 posts. I'm just going to guess you're someone who REALLY doesn't understand submissives. I like to give my Domme foot massages because she enjoys those foot massages. And no, I don't care what her feet look like. But would I do foot massages for a living, with a Bachelor's in Computer Science? Fuck no. I like computer science too much, for one. I enjoy playing devil's advocate. It leads to more interesting threads. I think I know a thing or two (maybe) about submissive men and their desires. Maybe :) Akasha Akasha... you think??? lmao. See, to me, that's just class... great response!! youngstownsubm.. you most likely don't get a lot of mail from male sub types but I have had my share and a LOT of them really aren't concerned very much about age, looks, race or body type... they really are in it for what they can get out of it. And to those types I would ask the same questions... why not get a job in the field that fasinates them sooooo much? Why not hire yourself out as a pro sub or something like that? I personally experienced a male sub that gave up the possibility of a long term relationship because he would have to give up the constant playing with so many others. His "pro-sub" days would have been over. So just because that doesn't fit you doesn't mean Akasha is a troll or has no idea what she is talking about. Jewel And by the same token, just because someone has played with a lot of submissives doesn't make them all that knowledgeable about service submissives. I'm still seeing a lot of (I want to use the word "clueless" but I really don't mean it to be as insultive as that sounds)...misunderstandings...concerning service submissives that seem to be as guilty as male subs seem to be accused of when they're told to "read the profile before responding!"; I can't even begin to count how many service-like submissives who have actually responded in this thread in hopes of providing information, but they've mainly been ignored so the same "why don't you get a service job if you are a service submissive?" can keep being asked over and over again. It's NOT the field of service that fascinates them, at least for the majority (I can't speak for the ocassional one that is adamant that must be it), but it's about SERVICE TO someone they desire to assist. Sure, there are a lot of wannabes that are willing to serve anyone, but I will say this again, because I've been saying this most of my submissive adult life, THEY ARE NOT SERVICE SUBMISSIVES. They claim to be service submissives because they HOPE it will cause some woman to allow them access to their inner circle. Anyway, I give up. I don't think people really care anymore but they're more interested in hearing themselves talk. Yeah, I know. Flame me for saying it. Apparently you aren't the only one seeing "misunderstandings" here. I haven't played with lots and lots of submissives and can absolutely understand that there is a large number of service submissives that are there because serving that special person is hugely important to them and without that connection it just doesn't work for them and those are the ones posting, those are the ones sharing their thoughts with us, they are not the ones I am talking about. Again... there are also LOTS of them out there that really couldn't give a crap who they serve in their particular fetish so long as they get to do it. That's the be all and end all for them. I've even had some contact me and insist on "serving" me in a capacity that I have absolutely NO interest in whatsoever... to those types I say get that job, get paid for doing what you so much enjoy doing and stop pushing it on to people that don't like it! Hopefully I was more clear this time. Jewel
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