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RE: "Are You..... - 8/26/2008 7:58:36 PM

MaamJay

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OK I'll bite ... I'm naturally either! Both Dominance and submission flow quite naturally from me depending on the person I am with. And I thrive best on being both at the same time.

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/26/2008 9:55:20 PM

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Eh... I feel like the "natural" thing is for female supremacists. Or race players (according to many of them, it's not in my constitution to bottom: I guess the first few years of my playing are all in my head!) Personally, neither of those arenas turn my crank.

I'm a woman who gets her sexual kicks from hurting men. I just think it makes me a perv.

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/26/2008 10:06:46 PM

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Hello MoGa,

Good to see you posting again. I think that we are shaped both by our inner temperments and our outer environment and experiences.

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/27/2008 5:23:17 AM

seababy

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

...A natural Dominant?"

I was asked this today in an email.

Why yes I am.

Are you?

Nah. I got this great Domina kit on e-Bay. All I had to do was add water.

I bought that kit..but all I got was sea-monkeys. :(

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/27/2008 5:41:35 AM

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Lucky you! I got crabs.

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/27/2008 10:07:30 AM

darchChylde

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Lucky you! I got crabs.

Excuse me, if you're going to make me spit coffee on my laptop; could you please take it to the humor section? LoL

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/27/2008 2:40:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats

Eh... I feel like the "natural" thing is for female supremacists. Or race players (according to many of them, it's not in my constitution to bottom: I guess the first few years of my playing are all in my head!) Personally, neither of those arenas turn my crank.

I'm a woman who gets her sexual kicks from hurting men. I just think it makes me a perv.

CoupleOfWhats,
I agree. I am not a female supremacist, nor would I want a boy treating me like one. I don't have anything against them, I just don't fit into that mold. Race player? Not me either.

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I'm a woman who gets her sexual kicks from hurting men. I just think it makes me a perv.

I don't think it makes you a perv. I think it makes you a woman who knows what she wants and is smart enough to find a boy who wants the same thing. Or at least that is how I view myself.
It is no fun being a perv, if we don't have willing victi..I mean...willing partners <s>

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/27/2008 4:56:32 PM

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I am a naturally dominant woman. I couldn't be anything but exactly who I am if I tried. I have tried, once, it ended in absolute disaster, for him.

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/28/2008 4:50:28 AM

TNstepsout

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Yes, even though it took me a long time to figure out.

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/28/2008 5:31:52 AM

MsStarlett

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It took me 1/2 my lifetime to get over the thought that a Domme was a woman in a black vinyl cat suit... and that BDSM was all about putting acupuncture needles through a man's genitals in interesting patterns.

BTW - Ladies... Never, EVER ask a boy who's nick is 'peon' (not here - old mIRC days) to send you 'interesting photos'.... unless you really like the extreme stuff. *shudder* Took me 10 years to get that image out of my head!

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/29/2008 1:09:03 AM

MsCfromMelbourne

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Lately I have been saying "hey guess what - I am a fake!"

And then laughing

Funny thing is, other Dominants all chorus in "yeah, I am a fake too!!!"

Fake is the new fashion

Be out and proud to be fake, I say

I still have endless interested subs despite my self-confessed fakeness

Perhaps us newly-aware fakes are more fun than the Real Deal??? My 10 years of fake domination has been a laugh a minute

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RE: "Are You..... - 8/29/2008 6:51:46 PM

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