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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 12:00:09 AM

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Well, that was entertaining to read for sure.

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The answer how I see it is not applicable. A man who doesn't kiss is an issue which can be rectified by teaching him to kiss you more often and to show more affection. Which is different from a man being born with a small cock.

I dated a guy after being friends for about a year. He is originally from Honduras. When we crossed the line I was shocked, one, his cock was small but that wasnt the shocking bit, the shock was it was folded in half. He had had a bike accident when he was young in Honduras and was not given proper medical attention. His cock never went straight out, the skin was all shrivelled up and it was ever-bent in half.

The other even more shocking thing in some ways was that he would not kiss me, he thought kissing was dirty. So you know he hella was not kissing me anywhere else either. I really couldnt deal with the not being kissed part and broke it off because of that. It was a difficult decision because he was a cool guy otherwise. As a friend advised me, "Yeah he is a great guy but not for you." I was glad to let him go when I finally did.

I have had extra-large dick around and I agree it can be a real drag and painful if the guy has not the consciousness to go with it. Then again there was this hot Puerto Rican guy who had a larger than average dick and omg did he ever know how to use it, he freaked me out.

There was one guy who went on about his cock during the courtship phase, and then when it was finally unveiled it was like, "Uh, dude that is no eight inches, it is a wee dick actually." I didnt say that of course but I sure thought it. He was a crap lover to boot.

Preference nice cock attached to good man with sexual talents.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 12:13:43 PM

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Teeth can be nice, if you're certain your partner actually likes what she's got her mouth around. But, on the other hand I have sworn off 69 after spending an evening with a woman whose jaws clenched when she climaxed.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 12:31:21 PM

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You know, I was thinking about this in my copious free time between classes. (*snort*) and I finally determined my opinion. Size isn't as important as other things, like kissing. I'm absolutely intoxicated by kisses, and I don't know why. But if I can't get kisses, then I'd have to say bye-bye.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 12:44:47 PM

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Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 12:47:09 PM

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Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.

Foolish pride...damn shame lemme tell ya.

All they have to do is go into a drug store, hold up a box of condoms and bellow.."Hey...you have these in an extra-small?"

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 12:51:33 PM

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Actually...i have not read this entire thread but for what it is worth i have never known the size of a man i have slept with prior to the event. I have never had a one night stand, meaning we have had a relationship going on before we slept together, so there was time to inquire. It simply was not an issue for me. I wanted to be intimate with the man...not a body part.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 1:00:13 PM

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Size matters. I remember getting my hair cut and staring in horror as long strands of hair fell to the floor. When I expressed my distress over how much hair the stylist cut off -- I went from hair that fell below my bra strap to hair that barely fell below my chin. Her answer was, "I only cut a little less than an inch." I just stared in amazement at her, then said quite seriously, "I bet you believed all your boyfriends when they told you this," (I held my finger and thumb about an inch apart) "was 6 inches, didn't you?"

And yes, the very first time I'd ever encountered anyone who was below average was my very first BDSM experience with a guy I met from online. I was baffled what exactly I was supposed to do with something that I couldn't grasp with two fingers and a thumb. In his defense, I can attest to the fact that he compensated quite expertly. Strange, he actually looked a lot LIKE George Castanza, weird.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 1:11:49 PM

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This thread reminds me of the time I went out to dinner with a good (male) friend of mine. I was really looking forward to the main course, but was crestfallen when it arrived. I said, "Oh, it's a lot smaller than I expected." Without missing a beat, my friend said, "Women say that to me all the time."

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 1:21:18 PM

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for me the best way to go is average length and slightly above average width

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 4:08:12 PM

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Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.

*snort*
Is this according to the World Health Organization or your own bias?

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 5:50:56 PM

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I have sworn off 69 after spending an evening with a woman whose jaws clenched when she climaxed.

ACK!

I already don't like someone acting down there that much! That would make me say no forever more!

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 6:36:14 PM

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But, on the other hand I have sworn off 69 after spending an evening with a woman whose jaws clenched when she climaxed.

And here is where the mission impossible theme starts. If there ever was a reason to come before her this would be it. Damn if you go back for some of that your a brave man.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 7:53:32 PM

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I know a guy that's 10 inches & as thick as my wrist. He's one of the worst lovers I have ever had. Not only does he not know how to use it, but he's lousy at oral too.

Does size matter to me? To an extent, yes. I prefer shorter/thicker to long/skinny.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 9:11:02 PM

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Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.

*snort*
Is this according to the World Health Organization or your own bias?

Neither. Try simple logic. A condom is the only method of birth control that protects against most std's. If a penis is extremely small, a condom may not stay on. Therefore, no protection against std's.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/3/2008 9:15:48 PM

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I know a guy that's 10 inches & as thick as my wrist. He's one of the worst lovers I have ever had. Not only does he not know how to use it, but he's lousy at oral too.

I was young then............. I am MUCH better now.......

Jeff

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/4/2008 12:39:47 AM

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Size definately matters....no really....I just don't find women with big feet attractive at all....

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/4/2008 5:09:17 AM

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Ok Jeffff so you were younger then. So the only thing you grew with age was older??

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/4/2008 5:53:30 AM

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Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.

*snort*
Is this according to the World Health Organization or your own bias?

Neither. Try simple logic. A condom is the only method of birth control that protects against most std's. If a penis is extremely small, a condom may not stay on. Therefore, no protection against std's.

Simple? Yes. Logical? Not really. You jumped to a conclusion in a very illogical way, and there are a lot of holes in your argument.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/4/2008 6:06:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: beargonewild

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.

*snort*
Is this according to the World Health Organization or your own bias?

Neither. Try simple logic. A condom is the only method of birth control that protects against most std's. If a penis is extremely small, a condom may not stay on. Therefore, no protection against std's.

I agree it's simple, just don't know about the logic part.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/4/2008 6:49:14 AM

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Has anyone ever noticed, the men that think they are larger are the only ones who seem to measure? The thing that is better than size is skill. A bit above or below average is nice, but without talents, it's all for naught.

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