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RE: Size Matters? - 9/4/2008 7:20:50 AM   
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Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect  against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.


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Is this according to the World Health Organization or your own bias?



Neither. Try simple logic. A condom is the only method of birth control that protects against most std's. If a penis is extremely small, a condom may not stay on. Therefore, no protection against std's.


On that logic of men with small dicks are more than likely to have STD's, I call bullshit. The last time I was in a drug store, different sized condoms are readily available for sale. It's also a well verified fact that wearing a condom does not 100% guarantee the user is fully protected against STDs.
Secondly, the only method to protect from STDs is celebacy, every other method of protection offers different levels of protection and it is up to the individual to determine what risk thet are personally willing to take.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/4/2008 12:13:07 PM   
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now all i can think about is that stupid bowflex commercial.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/5/2008 2:00:09 AM   
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A few quotes from a number of dominant women I've known. I paraphrase slightly and memory is imperfect, so apologies to anyone who feels misrepresented.

"Vaginal penetration never made me come, whether they were uncomfortably big or pathetically small"
"I'd rather have a gifted tongue than any cock"
"Small cocked men are so easy to humiliate and control - but there's much more fun to be had in reducing a hugely hung stud to the point where he can't get it up any more and then training him how to please ME not himself."
"and anyway, the size of his cock isn't important once it belongs to me, he's not going to fuck me with it. If I want penetrating with a big thick cock I make him wear a strap-on. It really is a delightful mind-fuck - he's screwing me, but he's not getting his jollies from it, so he can concentrate on my pleasure."
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RE: Size Matters? - 9/5/2008 4:05:45 AM   
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I think we do it because it feels so fucking good, not in order to prove how manly we are.

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Come on guys, if you got the size, so be it, but do you have to prove how manly man you are by ripping a woman apart?

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/5/2008 5:45:26 AM   
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I may not be qualified to answer as I've only been with two men sexually.   My first time was with someone on the small side, but was very enjoyable.  My ex husband was nicely endowed, and it hurt a lot in the beginning.  His patience and my willingness to learn equaled a happy time.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/5/2008 6:17:32 AM   
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there's always going to be the guy who is too wide to fit in you; too long to take all the way, or too short or too small to feel at all.  

then there's the guy who thinks is cock is what makes him the end-all of manliness and sexual gratification, yet, he's really just another cock attached to an asshole, so they're no fun to be with if your brain engages while they're fucking you.

no matter what size they are, if they don't know how to use it, then it's moot to try to enjoy yourself while fucking them at all. 

so, when it all comes down to the nitty-gritty aspect of things, my vote is for the guy who doesn't need to use his dick at all to get me off.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/5/2008 10:47:22 AM   
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daddysliloned take away his Viagra.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/5/2008 1:20:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Men with extremely small penises are more likely to have std's. Condoms protect  against many std's, but in order to do so, they have to stay on.


*snort*
Is this according to the World Health Organization or your own bias?



Neither. Try simple logic. A condom is the only method of birth control that protects against most std's. If a penis is extremely small, a condom may not stay on. Therefore, no protection against std's.


excuse me -  a condom is the ONLY method of birth control?  i thought not engaging in physical intercourse was a method of birth control ...taking the pill was another.

i guess my mother gave me the wrong talk when i turned 13.

oh btw - i have had sex with a guy whose dick was about the size of my pinky ...and guess what, he was able to keep a condom on.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/5/2008 1:26:49 PM   
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I think she was talking about birth control that also prevented STDS, although you're right, not flapping your legs around works even better. 

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/6/2008 1:21:12 PM   
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I prefer a tongue..

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/6/2008 7:16:35 PM   
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Hi.

I like it when a guy knows how to use it, other wise I get on top and I control everything at that point!! ha ha!! So it doesn't matter what size it is. If it's too small I'll just rub against it or sit on his face and use his tongue until I cum.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 7:18:10 AM   
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Yes. If you're gonna get fucked, it might as well be a BIG one.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 7:20:56 AM   
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yes size matters, but not in the penis department.  it's the heart and the brain that matter to me most.  a nice pair of shoulders is nice for hanging onto as well.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 7:25:25 AM   
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yes size matters, but not in the penis department.  it's the heart and the brain that matter to me most.  a nice pair of shoulders is nice for hanging onto as well.



but...i prefer to hold on to a nice set of buns....


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 7:31:31 AM   
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ok, holly...the buns are all yours.  i just got thinking about having a man over me, inside, my hands on his body...nibbling on his shoulders as he moves over me and then the nibbles turn into soft bites as.....  holy cow i think i just slaked myself!

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 7:33:16 AM   
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ok, holly...the buns are all yours.  i just got thinking about having a man over me, inside, my hands on his body...nibbling on his shoulders as he moves over me and then the nibbles turn into soft bites as.....


<---scampers off for a cold shower.....


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 7:56:09 AM   
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I confess, I didn't read all ELEVEN pages, so I may be repeating things.

Girth helps stimulate the G-spot, and length can allow deep enough penetration to contact the cervix.  Something larger moving in and out is also more likely to cause incidental clitoral stimulation.  These are all very real, objective reasons that size makes a difference.

I realize it's not consoling to confirm to men that size matters.  But I also find it offensive when sex educators continue to put forth the misinformation that size doesn't matter to women in their experience of sex, physically, if not visually/mentally, and gynecologists insist that the cervix is insensate - which it is not

While the insides of insects are dissected and examined and classified, you'd think from all the lack of information the medical field has on a woman's parts, that it was an unexplored cave.

A woman doesn't have to be a size queen thrilled by the look and idea of size, in order to physically experience the difference size makes.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 7:58:58 AM   
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yes size matters, but not in the penis department.  it's the heart and the brain that matter to me most.  a nice pair of shoulders is nice for hanging onto as well.


Okay... "Cali's Matchmaking Service User Notes"...   Christine likes shoulders she can hang from... swing from... uhh... hang ON TO.  Yeah, that's it.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 9:33:22 AM   
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[Fast Reply]Girth helps stimulate the G-spot, and length can allow deep enough penetration to contact the cervix.  Something larger moving in and out is also more likely to cause incidental clitoral stimulation.  These are all very real, objective reasons that size makes a difference.


Wait... is feelin up on the cervix a good thing? I thought it was uncomfortable/painful. One of my exes hated to do doggie because she said she felt me hitting her cervix.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/7/2008 9:40:08 AM   
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I have not found any cock too small; though I have found some a bit 'wobbly'.  I have found at least two, too big, and after a painful moment or two, said, 'f**k this; go home'.
 
I cannot help the way Gawd made me; I am not 'built' for a Mack truck.  Few men are carrying one, so it works out nicely.
 
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