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RE: Size Matters? - 9/9/2008 9:03:46 AM   
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I only read the first few pages on this thread, and skimmed the rest, but you know, I always have to giggle at topics of this nature, and the sizes that are thrown around.

When people throw around numbers such as 7, 8, 9, 10+ inches, I wonder if they are talking about scientifically accurate measuring, or the ‘flattering’ method of measuring, lol. Because if it is the scientific method, y’all are meeting some serious freaks of nature!

Although it varies from study to study, the size of the average scientifically measured penis lays between about 5.2 to 5.9 inches, and the large majority of men will fall somewhere in the middle, or slightly below. 7 inches is infrequent, 8 inches in uncommon, and 9+ inches is rare.

By contrast, the average vagina length is 3.5 to 4 inches, with an average diameter of less than 1 inches. When aroused it can increase to an average length of about 5 to 6 inches, with an average diameter of 1.5 to 2.5 inches. So it would *seem*, that even for the greediest of women, anything above 6.5 inches is purely decorative, I suppose *shrugs*.

My slave is well endowed, and it does catch my cervix at times. For me personally, I’m not a fan of getting my cervix cock-punched, and I employ certain positions that give me the maximum 'full' feeling, but avoid my poor cervix getting bruised and battered. Anything like some of the sizes mentioned here, assuming they are scientifically measured, is going to send me running scared with my eyes watering at the mere thought.

So, my thoughts are, yes, size does matter, I don’t want one that is too big! And ya know, I can’t cum from penetration alone, so as much as I like penetration, for me it is merely foreplay, so smallness (assuming it wasn’t miniscule) would be of no real concern if I were looking for another sexual partner. For me, I am much more interested in a mans tongue, not to mention his attentiveness and observation skills… he needs to read my body language, listen to my moans, the tone of how I am groaning, as well as listen to my silence, and learn (or be taught) how best to proceed. THAT, is what matters to me.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/9/2008 3:26:06 PM   
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Well, honestly, I'd have to say I like them big and hard and thick. But I've never had one that wasn't big, as I've only ever had sex with one person. Personally, I really enjoy the "cervix getting slammed into my throat" feeling. All around I like 'em big, I think. I'd still love my Dom if he was a 5'er but I'd rather him be big!

Also note that my Dom has my size feet and a tiny nose, AND A HUGE PENIS. So, no feet =/= penis.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/9/2008 9:05:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bipolarber

I'm a medium to small male when it comes to penis size (5 1/2, approx) so I took the time to find other skills to bring to the table... mouth/hand work, breathing hot and cold, g-spot stimulation, cervical rubs, clit massage, etc., etc..


First off, congratulations on your skills. But I think you may be wrong in your self-assessment... according to About.com, you fall firmly in the middle of average:

Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)

I did notice that a quick Google search also brought up several sites giving larger numbers... but they were all selling penile enlargement products... hmm.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/9/2008 9:14:24 PM   
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RE: Size Matters? - 9/10/2008 12:11:56 PM   
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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 6:23:23 AM   
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this is a very interesting conversation. i am thick in size and that seems to please most. when ever i have seen adult personals i notice they say something like " I want 8 inches or more" hmmmmmmmm 

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 9:05:39 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sauterelle

quote:

ORIGINAL: bipolarber

I'm a medium to small male when it comes to penis size (5 1/2, approx) so I took the time to find other skills to bring to the table... mouth/hand work, breathing hot and cold, g-spot stimulation, cervical rubs, clit massage, etc., etc..


First off, congratulations on your skills. But I think you may be wrong in your self-assessment... according to About.com, you fall firmly in the middle of average:

Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)

I did notice that a quick Google search also brought up several sites giving larger numbers... but they were all selling penile enlargement products... hmm.



The length figures don't surprise me, but are you sure you transcribed the circumference measurements correctly? Even 4.0 inches seems extremely thin for an erect penis. A 3 3/4" circumference translates to a diameter of less than 1 1/4", which is really quite skinny. (The math is c = pi x d, or d = c / pi. Alternatively, use a flexible tape measure; make a loop out of a 3 3/4" length, and see how small it is.)

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 10:11:56 AM   
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*eyes glaze over*

I HATED math class.....


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 11:27:42 AM   
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I've tried men of all sizes and just realize that I prefer a very well endowed fellow. Big and thick is best for me. I won't refuse a lover because he is small but it does seem to limit the positions that work. 




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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 11:43:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


quote:

ORIGINAL: sauterelle

quote:

ORIGINAL: bipolarber

I'm a medium to small male when it comes to penis size (5 1/2, approx) so I took the time to find other skills to bring to the table... mouth/hand work, breathing hot and cold, g-spot stimulation, cervical rubs, clit massage, etc., etc..


First off, congratulations on your skills. But I think you may be wrong in your self-assessment... according to About.com, you fall firmly in the middle of average:

Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm)
Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm)
Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)

I did notice that a quick Google search also brought up several sites giving larger numbers... but they were all selling penile enlargement products... hmm.



The length figures don't surprise me, but are you sure you transcribed the circumference measurements correctly? Even 4.0 inches seems extremely thin for an erect penis. A 3 3/4" circumference translates to a diameter of less than 1 1/4", which is really quite skinny. (The math is c = pi x d, or d = c / pi. Alternatively, use a flexible tape measure; make a loop out of a 3 3/4" length, and see how small it is.)



So the average penis length is 6.16 inches.
The average girth is 4.84 inches.
More recent studies have produced the following results:
A sample of 60 men studied by researchers at the University of California at San Francisco determined that the average size of their erect penises was 5.1 inches long and 4.9 inches in girth. A Brazilian urologist who measured 150 men reported that the average size of their erections was 5.7 inches long and 4.7 inches in girth
 
That is from the article seen above in my other post.
I am not sure where sauterelle got their information. 

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 12:52:30 PM   
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Well, one thing is for sure: this thread has certainly affirmed that size does matter.

As with most things in life, however, what size is a just matter of individual preference and ideal.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 4:44:57 PM   
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I like cervix play. Dose that answer the question?

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 5:06:20 PM   
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I'd rather not go to a well-woman check up and have my doctor talk to me about cervical bruising.

I have a feeling that'd be awkward.

Edited to add a necessary "not".

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/12/2008 8:54:26 PM   
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Those figures sound a little more reasonable.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/13/2008 11:42:45 AM   
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I'd rather not go to a well-woman check up and have my doctor talk to me about cervical bruising.

I have a feeling that'd be awkward.

Edited to add a necessary "not".


Been there ... after the initial embarrassment (of my GYN) she understood other "oddities" on my body.   

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/14/2008 1:45:10 PM   
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IMO.. they all have their merits.. when i was in my teens single i refused to fuck somebody on the grounds that it was too big (also he was far too over confident & clueless).. and also that it was too small (and not confident at all).. (Not the same person)
The best i have found have been just nicely inbetween.. But only when they know what to do with it.. Unfortunately it seems very few of them do.. If a man who was at either extreme knew how to make the most of their size or lack of it, then the size itself wouldn't matter.. All that really sucks is that most men seem to be ignorant.


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RE: Size Matters? - 9/15/2008 5:28:25 PM   
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Size is relevant to the hole you stick it in.  Nasal sex can be brutal even with the lowliest of the endowed.

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/17/2008 5:57:11 AM   
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My ex had a big one but he was the most boring lover. I never actually came when he was inside me either... must of just numbed everything!

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/17/2008 12:06:04 PM   
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as a submissive.....should i divulge to a potential Mistress that i have a very small member...or should i wait for Her to ask?

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RE: Size Matters? - 9/17/2008 11:07:42 PM   
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My boyfriend is a little over 6" and quite thick, which for me is rather perfect.  He certainly fills me up, and can do the cervix-pounding that I sometimes crave, but his tongue and finger skills are phenomenal!
I've been with men who were very well endowed...and, honestly, it wasn't pleasant.  It felt far more like being stuffed full and wiggled against, than a proper, feel-every-inch fucking.
However, penis size is hardly the most important thing for me.  I'd much rather have a partner with a small penis (or no penis!  Woohoo girls!) with a great imagination and a desire to bring me pleasure than a large penis and no mind.


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