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Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 1:41:29 AM

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Does it? Or is it like fishing? Does 4 offer same wonders as say, 8? Have you ever lowered your mouth for the first time and thought, "well, I'll be damned...what am I supposed to do with this little / big thing?"

Have you ever laughed out loud when someone said "get on it that big thing baby....did I hurt you?" and you're still humming the star spangled banner in your head wondering about George Costanza's shrinkage theory?

I most enjoy a nice healthy medium.

RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 1:56:09 AM

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when i was single i thought guys were measuring in centimeters. so many lied about their size. a lot by at least 3 inches more than they had. i guess they dont realize that when you expect an 8 and you unwrap 5, the 5 looks even smaller.
girl who also likes a happy medium too.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 2:06:50 AM

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Size matters to me. I like them small. I cant stand a guy who has an 7 inch cock and feels the need to thrust it in so hard it pushes your cervix back and slams your overies to the back of your pelvic wall. Come on guys, if you got the size, so be it, but do you have to prove how manly man you are by ripping a woman apart? I am tight. I want a man who fits me right. Not to big, not too small. Wait I take that back..Not too big. I can handle small :)

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 2:13:46 AM

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I like them big, I prefer over 8" and thick, anything under 7" and I need to do stuff like this to keep entertained....

http://www.grownmencry.com/hhh/spt2.html#peniscocktail

....and I happen to LOVE the sensation of the head slamming against my cervix.

This comes from 20+ yrs of having one 5" or under. Never again I say, never again!

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 2:18:38 AM

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6-8 inches is perfect for me. Ideal one would be 7, right in the middle.

I do try not to laugh or totally shun a small penis but I haven't had very good experiences with little weenies. They fall out or just don't know how to work it right. Only one guy I've been with knew how to work his, it was probably 6", nothing huge but the dude had skill.

But I don't pick a guy by his penis so it's really sucky when you find a great guy but not much in the pants. lol Only ended up laughing once with my first bf. He was going to town and I was just like "Are you done yet?"

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 2:31:18 AM

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Only one guy I've been with knew how to work his, it was probably 6", nothing huge but the dude had skill.

I have found that to be the case too. The bigger it is the less skill they need (for me anyways), it just naturally hits all the spots I want it to and if he is a sloppy fuck then I can hop on top and get the job done nicely for us both. For a small guy it takes a lot more skill on both our parts, pillow under the bum, or certain positions, to make sure it feels like more than just a finger jiggling around in there.

Although it probably relates to a woman's physical stature... how big a cock feels has very little to do with your sexual experience. All my children were c-sections and for 20yrs nothing much bigger than a twinkie crossed my path during which time I considered celibacy because I was always so unsatisfied. The first big one I experienced was absolutely heavenly.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 2:53:36 AM

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7 1/2 to 9 makes it just about perfect. 6 will work but i like the ouch the those provide. bigger just, oh boy, those take some really awkward positions and doing things to my body that arent quite natural, and smaller is just work..hehe

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 6:20:56 AM

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It's not the length, it's the girth!

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 6:41:29 AM

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It's both, but size DOES matter. Like someone said, if it's too small, then all sorts of efforts have to be made by both. I don't mind making some effort...in fact, I rather like making some effort, but I like to know he's in there at least

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:11:09 AM

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in strapon play size does matter

love the bigger ones ..8 in is nice 10 in feels great

for a woman i would think that would be true too ..funny my mistress started me out with a 6 in strapon ..she used it on me the other day ...next to the 10 in one i asked her hunny is it in yet --lol ..i knew it was but now that she has trained me to accept bigger ones ..14 in being the biggest ..plus with her fisting me

...6 in feels like nothing much at all

i have a 6 in cock for her which she says thats fine but i do wish it was bigger for her and sometimes that does bother me but theres nothing we can do about it now so we have fun with what i was given ..oh well ..to me yes size does matter love the longer and thicker ones too

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:17:52 AM

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i think size does matter - i agree with the others that the smaller it is, the more effort it takes to get there... i prefer 7-9" with some decent girth... and i like the feeling of it slamming home... making things sore the next day. That being said, i've had some pretty awesome sex with guys that were smaller but put the effort forth to get there...

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:53:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TwilightShadows

Does it? Or is it like fishing? Does 4 offer same wonders as say, 8? Have you ever lowered your mouth for the first time and thought, "well, I'll be damned...what am I supposed to do with this little / big thing?"

Have you ever laughed out loud when someone said "get on it that big thing baby....did I hurt you?" and you're still humming the star spangled banner in your head wondering about George Costanza's shrinkage theory?

I most enjoy a nice healthy medium.

I just like an average sized penis, although I prefer something with some girth to it. What I've always wondered is why the size conversations are never accompanied by a "What level of tightness and sensitivity do you like in pussy?" because really they do go hand in hand (not a popular idea, I know).

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 7:59:20 AM

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I've had two children and they did rip me a tad (scream!), so if there is not thickness, i'm going to wonder if they have started yet! I could care less about lenght, but i sure do need the width. Just call me loose as a goose.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 8:01:54 AM

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For me, sorry to say, size does matter when it comes to small. I was with a guy that was, over 6 ft had big hands and big feet, only about 4 - 4 1/2 inches hard ( so not all myths fit lol ie... big hands big cock ) I couldn't feel it in me. But didn't want to hurt his feelings by saying "is it in?" And didn't feel him cum either. Now I have never been with anyone over 7 inches so I can't say on that end though I think anything over 8 1/2 might really scare me, though lmao.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 8:05:57 AM

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I personally don't think size matters....it's like that old saying "It's not the size of the wand, but the magic in it!"
Big or small....If a man isn't concerned with both reaching satisfaction...no matter how you get there or what you're doing, then i wouldn't think he was a good lover. For me, there's so much more involved than having a cock slammed into my mouth, cunt or ass....

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 8:14:12 AM

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Yep, size matters.
Guys above average size [more than 6 1/2 inches erect] are worse in bed.
Average and smaller-than-average guys try harder [ha!] and are less selfish.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 8:51:52 AM

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nope....vibrators are always a good size...and always hard...

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 9:09:01 AM

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I have found, guys in the 4 range, have the most skilled tongues and fingers, and I am perfectly happy being fucked "tongue and fingers style."
I can have a great orgasm with a woman and she has no penis! So I don't think a penis is at all necessary.
However, the ones that are too long go up the bum, as my cervix is not an entrance, no matter how hard you poke it.
And I have definitely had too wide, even after kids (ladies, you can do keagle exercises in line at the grocery store, or while you sit and type, so looseness isn't really a guy's fault. Or try Ben Wah balls, they work!)
Too wide however is not going near my ass, and will have to be content with only pussy fucking. I have definitely seen very short, very wide and wasn't a fan, but any efforts with other toys would easily make up for it, so penis size is never a deal breaker for me (though it was in my misguided youth.) Now I prefer the man over the penis.

So, my bottom line is, I like average. It fits nice, I can rub it on my gspot (which is only 2" deep) and my clit can rub on his pelvis at the same time (can't do that with a 10 inch!) and doesn't make me feel like I gave birth the next morning. Kinda makes sense since we evolved together...

Let's just encourage ALL men to improve tongue and finger skills, just to be on the safe side.

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 9:33:26 AM

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(shrug) Funny how all this "size" crap fades into insignificance, once you get into vaginal fisting. If you want/need the feeling of being "filled to the brim" then there are options. I'm a medium to small male when it comes to penis size (5 1/2, approx) so I took the time to find other skills to bring to the table... mouth/hand work, breathing hot and cold, g-spot stimulation, cervical rubs, clit massage, etc., etc..

But, this thread has been educational. It seems women don't mind lying about how much the physical means to them, just to save a few egos. (That says something nice about their nature.) Compare that response to guys talking about breast size, or overall body type... and people wonder why I prefer the company of women?

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RE: Size Matters? - 8/31/2008 9:37:34 AM

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   yep, the bigger the imagination the better

there probably is too small and/or too big   but >
as long as HE can find it and knows what to do with it.........and as long as it doesn't drag on the floor or need a side car when he rides his harley

........a cock is a cock is a cock... what about the lips...hands...imagination...etc.?? how boring ( and unappealing imo ) to be with a guy who's fixated on how good or not soo good he is because of the size of his.    So I am not fixated on that either.

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