Pyrrsefanie
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Joined: 9/18/2007 From: NEW HAMPSHAAAAAAH! Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha Do you ever make your submissives get their hair cut a certain way, styled a certain way? Add or remove facial hair? Wear certain clothing? Do you feel that if they are your property, you should have the option of changing things like hairstyle or facial hair? When it comes to clothing or anything else, my boy only recognizes the eight basic colors that come in the Crayola box. Anything else is described as varying degrees of "-ish" and then a color it's a similar to, i.e. pink to my boy is "light-ish red." He does not understand complimentary colors. He does not know that you can't mix horizontal and vertical stripes in clothing. For this reason his wardrobe consists of two pairs of jeans and a drawer full of ratty T-shirts, most of which are leftover from his time at the USMA. Now I understand that men's fashion really doesn't offer as many choices as women's fashion does, so I can't fault him terribly (and to his credit at least one of the two pairs of jeans make his ass look AMAZING), but if I were not around to push him back into the bedroom and say "Hell no, you are NOT wearing that in public" I shudder to think of the consequences. To him, any shirt with fewer than three holes is wearable. He tucks his T-shirts into athletic shorts. And I did make him shave off his facial hair, but mostly because his goatee/mustache were really bristly and kept poking me in horribly painful non-sexy ways whenever he went down on me. Then again, it's a two-way street for me. I rely on him to be my sensor for if something I'm wearing is just too outrageous for him to be comfortable with (although he's extremely biased due to his hatred of skulls and the simple fact that 75% of my wardrobe contains skulls and/or bats), or if I look completely flabby in it, since I'm my own worst critic and will undoubtedly start bawling in front of the mirror regardless of what I'm wearing or how much I weigh because to myself I look obese. I also go to him for advice on how I should do my hair, or ask him how my makeup looks, et cetera, et cetera. But I'd do these things even in a vanilla relationship -- it's not based specifically on the fact that at the end of the day, I get to smack him around. Now I can't help but wonder if I'm really as neurotic as I sound in my posts, yeesh.
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