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Wheldrake -> RE: Prisoner Slave submissives (9/1/2008 12:15:59 PM)
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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile2
If for no other reason other to understand their mindset, to get a glimpse of understanding. What amazed me, was in both cases they literally wanted to serve a sort of Jail or prison sentence. The motivations behind these prison sentences being somewhat different. Still this was their primary motivation.
Now, I hate to cast stereotype generalizations here. But their motivations were not to Serve a Dom, even the buring desire of being owned was not the primary motivation. In many ways, their motivations were a little off the beaten path compared to what I would say is that of the more typical Submissive or slave. Again, I hate to cast generalization. I'm just making a statement based upon my own common observations with my own personal interation other s-types and even from postings on the message board.
With all this said, how many people find this to be the case more times then not. That an S-type with a desire to become a captive prisoner has a deep desire to literally live out life in a manner that is a form of real punishment for them? Also, what are some of the other common motivations behind somebody wishing or wanting to become another persons literal prisoner?
I'm a male s-type with a particular fondness for incarceration fantasies, so I'll take a stab at explaining why I find this type of thing appealing - with the caveat, of course, that others may have very different motivations. As a masochist, I find helplessness, fear and pain to be inherently exciting. As well as serving my Mistress, and pleasing her, I appreciate the suffering she sometimes chooses to put me through. It's thrilling to be handcuffed and blindfolded, squirming under her paddle or her flogger and knowing that, at that moment, I can't protect myself from her attentions.
I think of a prison sentence as a way to experience more absolute helplessness, and longer-term suffering. The helplessness would come from the locked cell door, and the guards outside. The element of suffering would come from all the little discomforts and deprivations of prison life, coupled with lack of privacy - and ideally, of course, it would be a rather extreme sort of prison where uncomfortable restraint and corporal punishment were routine and the guards were cheerfully sadistic. Instead of having to deal with one delightfully cruel Mistress, I would be up against a whole delightfully cruel system, and neither escape nor effective resistance would be even remotely possible.
Of course, this is a rather impractical fantasy. Even if a prison like that existed somewhere, I wouldn't want them to lock me up and throw away the key - I have too many things to do out here in the real world. Perhaps just a couple of weeks of incarceration, now and then, would be about right. Given that there is no such place, however, I suppose I'll just have to hope that my Mistress someday decides to invest in a good solid cage or a cell in the basement or something. It certainly wouldn't be a 24/7 arrangement, but 24/1 or 24/2 every once in a while might work for both of us. I would get to experience that sense of absolute long-term helplessness, and she would get a corresponding sense of physical control, of literally having me under lock and key. I think we'd both find that more powerful, more genuine, than our usual arrangement whereby she has control simply because I choose to do what she tells me.
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