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RE: What do you do when your dom/me lies? - 9/3/2008 2:40:24 PM

PrincessJ77

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ORIGINAL: Kalista07

i'm not trying to come off as arrogant here or anything. But, Your OP asks "what would you do when your dom/me lies to you?" And i'm just REALLY REALLY REALLY grateful that i've never found myself in that position.

Although, the truth is i still maintain He wasn't being very honest with me when He told me that this chicken concoctun i cooked one day tasted good.

Kali

You owe me a keyboard...this has 7up on it now....

That's not a lie, it's a feelings bandage, same as "No babe, that dress isn't too tight. Your ass looks perfect as it is."

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RE: What do you do when your dom/me lies? - 9/7/2008 1:40:28 PM

mostlydivine

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I would leave immediately. The small lies will snowball into big lies. Lies are never good in sub/Dom relationships because these type of relationships especially need trust to make them work.

My last serious Dom lied all the time but I believed him because, well for lots of reasons, and ultimately he left me very emotionally and physically scarred. It took every bit of strength I had to leave but did. I've met the Dom whom I think is perfect for me but now I'm a complete mess from my last one. I hope I haven't ruined my future with him due to my past naivety.

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RE: What do you do when your dom/me lies? - 9/7/2008 1:46:07 PM

candystripper

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ORIGINAL: youngsubgeoff

Im not talking some harmless white lie, Im talking a real, earth shattering, nuclear fucking bomb. What do you do? (edit: this is not a reflection of anything in my life)

Trust me; it always goes this way.

Small lie..big lie..'bullshit-and-drama train pulling into the station'!

A lie is a lie.

Kick 'em to the curb.

candystripper

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RE: What do you do when your dom/me lies? - 9/8/2008 2:13:56 PM

gypsygrl

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I have no tolerance for lying anymore, not from someone I'm close to. There's lies and there's damn lies, and then there's all the cover up lies, rationalizations and justifications. To say nothing of the people around them that enable the lying. Its no way to live and its no way to love.

Besides, it all makes life way too complicated for me. I need things simple. So, if I start thinking about epistemology, perspectivalism, multiple realities, and the meaning of truth I know it's time to think about ending the relationship.

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