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ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch

I do know that at least three of my thirty-something friends who are kinky (two of them dominant males) who moved to Florida said that it was nearly impossible for them to find work that paid enough for a working-class man to afford an apartment and eat regularly. So that issue may be affecting things for some of the doms down there.

Most of the other dominants I know where I live are in at least one relationship already. And while love is infinite, time isn't. (sigh)

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ORIGINAL: NormalOutside

33 now, been on the site since 30, so I fit the bill.  But yes, I do notice that I'm in the minority as far as age goes around here.  Lots of 18 to 25, lots of 45 and up, not as many in between.  It's certainly not making me a hot commodity or anything.  I don't think many girls are looking for a guy my age, so it's probably not a big problem that there aren't many of us around. :)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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ORIGINAL: KneelforAnne

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ORIGINAL: Blaakmaan

Where are all the 30-year-olds?

That's so funny!

I was thinking of posting "Where are all the 40-year-olds?"!

But I'm talking about submissives, and you're talking about Dominants.

Maybe the Dominants tend to be somewhat older and the submissives tend to be somewhat younger.  But it seems to me that  I don't see all that many 40-year-olds (or older) on the submissive side of the fence.

Blaakmaan,

I'm not sure what this phenomenon is called, but it is extremely annoying!

*laughs*

Thank You for Your insight and good luck with Your search!

~anne

Thats funny. Most of the submissives here on the forums are in their 40's.