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Partner intro to D/s - 9/8/2008 9:43:55 AM

zakkan

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Something I happened to see: http://elisesutton.homestead.com/introwife.html

Has anyone tried something like that, introducing your vanilla partners to D/s?

If you have, did it work?

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RE: Introduction to D/s - 9/8/2008 9:50:17 AM

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quote:

Has anyone tried something like that, introducing your vanilla partners to D/s?

Nope, since finding D/s / M/s i have not dated out of my 'species'.

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RE: Partner intro to D/s - 9/8/2008 12:26:16 PM

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I introduced Hubby to the lifestyle and it has worked well. He was always dominant in our marraige outside the bedroom and has now taken it to the bedroom as well. It has really spiced up our relationship.

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RE: Partner intro to D/s - 9/8/2008 12:41:12 PM

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I introduced my late wife to D/s. She described getting her ears pierced every weekend as an adolescent, and playing the "punching game" with her "best friend", until they both felt like they were floating. We discussed masochism and sadism, and did some experimentation. She researched submission, and spent a lot of time as she was a rabid angry feminist...(her description of herself) thinking if she could submit. She decided that she could. We had been together in a vanilla relationship for 3 years at this point. She approached me with a submission contract, it was beautiful. I have it in my safe, one of my most prized memories. She passed away two and a half years ago, writing this reminded me I have that contract still. I was fortunate to have had a wonderful experience introducing my vanilla wife to bdsm. She was my sub until the day she passed away.
When I approached her about this I told her I would love her regardless of what she chose. I let her know we would always remain married and that I needed her to live, and would live without bdsm if need be. Without the experience I had with her I would not be the Dom I am today.

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RE: Partner intro to D/s - 9/8/2008 7:00:59 PM

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Sure. While making out with women, I swatted their bottoms. One took to it and enjoyed it (I was keeping it light at that point), and one thought I was an insane brutal sadist and ran for the hills.

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RE: Partner intro to D/s - 9/8/2008 7:14:23 PM

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not a partner, but a date, yes.

he likes rope now *smiles*

Edit: And the ex gf. Well, she wants the introduction, so I'm only being nice... plus I'm far too protective to let her do these things with *other* people, I mean, what if they don't know what they're doing/are dangerous!?!?!

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