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shivermetimbers -> To be continued... (9/16/2008 3:30:13 PM)
It all started with some casual flirting late night on the boards. Then some emails. Then phone calls. Then IM's and cam chat. Then making time for each other every day, even if just to say hello, how are you doing. Talking about our pasts, our present, our dreams, goals. Revealing to each other everything we could, the good, the bad, the ugly. Slowly, we started working in our BDSM interests, adding that to the mix. And we were falling in love with each other, yet we dare not say it. Not at least, till we had met in person. No idle words were going to be thrown around, falling prey to that infatuation bug. We built trust, communication, we worked on building a relationship. And after two months, we finally met in person. I can't begin to describe the love I have for her. We spent 8 wonderful days together. We toured. We played. We cuddled. We talked. We made meals for each other. I took her to work, met her for lunch, picked her up when her day was through. We had the most wonderful time. Alas, time came when I had to board that plane. We now know we ARE right for each other. We fit each other so well, in so many ways. We are a wonderful compliment to each other. The love is not that starry eyed, just met a couple weeks ago, but one that is deep and solid. We are already planning to meet again, and again, as many times as necessary till the time comes when we know it is right for one of us to relocate. But we won't rush that, anymore than we did for the first meeting. It's beautiful, taking the time, as painful as it is, because you want to just say to hell with it, and just do it. But we've both done that before, and know that doesn't work. We have taken all our past experiences, and put the knowledge we have gained to work. We are determined to make this work. I love her. Her name is Deanna, her nick is Cravesdom, and I am hers forever.

CalifChick -> RE: To be continued... (9/16/2008 4:41:26 PM)
That is a wonderful story! How marvelous! Do you mind if I ask a question, not to be snarky, but because I'm seriously interested and curious. She is looking for a dom, as are you. How does that work for both of you? Having been married to someone who I think was a closet submissive, I know now what it takes for me to be happy (and being with another sub isn't it). How do each of you feel about the fact that both of you are submissive... do you have a concrete plan on how you can make that work? Cali

lusciouslips19 -> RE: To be continued... (9/16/2008 5:23:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick That is a wonderful story! How marvelous! Do you mind if I ask a question, not to be snarky, but because I'm seriously interested and curious. She is looking for a dom, as are you. How does that work for both of you? Having been married to someone who I think was a closet submissive, I know now what it takes for me to be happy (and being with another sub isn't it). How do each of you feel about the fact that both of you are submissive... do you have a concrete plan on how you can make that work? Cali I swear Cali. Its like we were married to the same closet submissive. I agree. That wouldnt work for me either. I would be ultimately frustrated all over again.

shivermetimbers -> RE: To be continued... (9/16/2008 5:35:24 PM)
That's a wonderful question, yes we explored that issue early on. What it comes down to is for me, my submission had nothing to do with the bedroom, it had everything to do with pleasing the other in all ways. For each of us, the areas where we are both most accomplished fill in the areas where the other isn't. It just worked out beautifully. As far as play, we both have a healthy dose of switch in us. We also have agreed that what we can't accomplish for each other from a BDSM standpoint, we will search out for others who can. From our visit, right now that isn't a concern, we both have the marks to show it, lol. It can happen, two subs together, and still being fulfilled, depending on what is the driving force in the submission. If it had entirely been wrapped into the play aspect, desiring to only be a bottom, then it wouldn't have. It's a wonderful work in progress, and I'd encourage anyone who thinks that someone of the same persuasion couldn't be their match, to not rule it out entirely.

CalifChick -> RE: To be continued... (9/16/2008 7:29:39 PM)
That sounds great! I hope it works for you, it sounds like a great match! Cali

GreedyTop -> RE: To be continued... (9/16/2008 7:32:59 PM)
best wishes to you both!!

completenz -> RE: To be continued... (9/16/2008 9:01:41 PM)
congrats from us both, may you always feel this happy C & c

Shadow-tiger -> RE: To be continued... (9/17/2008 4:01:39 AM)
Ya know I'd been talking to Deanna on and off about random stuff friends talk about. And I'd tease her all about her boy, because it was really cute how she'd go on. Seriously, it's a subject she'd natter on about like a school girl! [;)] So I tell her that she's just doomed to success. It's great to see that the two of you hit it off so well! Best wishes for many more happy days to come.

wandersalone -> RE: To be continued... (9/17/2008 4:26:37 AM)
Congrats to the two of you....I bet you are counting down the days till you see each other again [:)]

scifi1133 -> RE: To be continued... (9/17/2008 4:30:10 AM)
Congrats to the both of you. Sounds great.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: To be continued... (9/17/2008 4:51:24 AM)
How exciting for you! [:D][:)][8D][;)][sm=applause.gif] (note the five)

shivermetimbers -> RE: To be continued... (9/17/2008 9:33:33 AM)
Thank you one and all! And Shadow, she's still in one piece! Thank you for being her friend and looking out for her too. Wandersalone, we are making plans already! Around Veteran's Day, to be exact. This time, she'll be leaving that dreary warm, sunny, dry Texas climate to come to cheerful cold, rainy, drab Pennsylvania November weather!

cravesdom -> RE: To be continued... (9/17/2008 11:33:31 AM)
I have been trying to decide what I was going to say here because like Shadow says, when I talk about my Bob I do tend to ramble on and on. But I wanted to let everyone know how much I appreciate their good wishes. I have met so many wonderful people here on CM, mostly on the message boards. And to be honest when I first met Bob I thought he was cute and funny and then I had a look at his profile and saw he was a sub. Oh well, no future there right? Then we got to flirting even more a while later and as I tend to be a pretty big flirt anyway, I thought that was all it was. When it started turning into a relationship I was as surprised as I could possibly be, but decided there was such a connection that I couldn't just discount him because he was as subly as I was. Thank goodness, because he is truly one of the most amazing men I have ever met. I think part of the reason it has worked so well is because we each try to put the other one first. At first I didn't know how it was going to work. Or even if it would work. I have to say though that I was very pleasantly surprised to find out just how sadistic and evil he could be. Not sure if he will see that as a compliment, but it definitely is one. And yes, wanders. We are very much both looking forward to the next visit. He didn't tell me it was going to be cold though! [;)] I am very much in love with him. I love that he is mine and that I am his. I wish everyone who doesn't already have it the happiness I am feeling right now. Thank you all again for your wonderful wishes and thoughts. It means so very much to us both.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: To be continued... (9/17/2008 3:36:17 PM)
Awesome! Another happy and in love couple!![sm=hearts.gif][sm=hearts.gif]

Deliena -> RE: To be continued... (9/18/2008 11:30:04 AM)
Lovely to hear how happy you both are and fascinating to see how a couple that on the surface seems unusal clearly is such a good fit. All the best for your future happiness :)

rookey -> RE: To be continued... (9/18/2008 12:01:32 PM)
Is it just me or is everyone a sucker for postings of dreams come true? Congratulations!! [sm=applause.gif]

greeneyedreamer -> RE: To be continued... (9/19/2008 8:10:45 PM)
Oh God I love dreams come true... Congratulations!!! and best wishes for the rest of your life... Dreamer

Icarys -> RE: To be continued... (9/19/2008 8:19:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shivermetimbers It all started with some casual flirting late night on the boards. Then some emails. Then phone calls. Then IM's and cam chat. Then making time for each other every day, even if just to say hello, how are you doing. Talking about our pasts, our present, our dreams, goals. Revealing to each other everything we could, the good, the bad, the ugly. Slowly, we started working in our BDSM interests, adding that to the mix. And we were falling in love with each other, yet we dare not say it. Not at least, till we had met in person. No idle words were going to be thrown around, falling prey to that infatuation bug. We built trust, communication, we worked on building a relationship. And after two months, we finally met in person. I can't begin to describe the love I have for her. We spent 8 wonderful days together. We toured. We played. We cuddled. We talked. We made meals for each other. I took her to work, met her for lunch, picked her up when her day was through. We had the most wonderful time. Alas, time came when I had to board that plane. We now know we ARE right for each other. We fit each other so well, in so many ways. We are a wonderful compliment to each other. The love is not that starry eyed, just met a couple weeks ago, but one that is deep and solid. We are already planning to meet again, and again, as many times as necessary till the time comes when we know it is right for one of us to relocate. But we won't rush that, anymore than we did for the first meeting. It's beautiful, taking the time, as painful as it is, because you want to just say to hell with it, and just do it. But we've both done that before, and know that doesn't work. We have taken all our past experiences, and put the knowledge we have gained to work. We are determined to make this work. I love her. Her name is Deanna, her nick is Cravesdom, and I am hers forever. It's great to hear when things work out. I wish you both happy futures together. Congratulations

impishlilhellcat -> RE: To be continued... (9/19/2008 8:36:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rookey Is it just me or is everyone a sucker for postings of dreams come true? Congratulations!! [sm=applause.gif] I'm a sucker for dreams come true, but maybe it's because I'm so jaded.

WyldHrt -> RE: To be continued... (9/20/2008 2:15:44 AM)
You guys are so awesome together (and I have the cmails from both of you to prove it, lol)!!! Congrats! Stories like yours keep the rest of us looking for the One. Smooches to you both, and here's to your next meet sends bandages and ice packs [;)]

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