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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/21/2008 11:31:32 AM

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I am sure it is different for all subs... everyone has something that makes them tick.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/21/2008 3:09:22 PM

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His hand around my throat. Every. Damn. Time. I melt. Even when it's something completely outside our relationship, if I'm frustrated or anxious or upset for whatever reason and he puts his hand around my throat I am instantly calmer. I feel loved and cared for, but above all else when he does that it makes me feel -safe-

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/21/2008 8:56:45 PM

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being man-handled and having my wrists held tight makes me melt. i'm putty. but if i'm not following orders, this makes me submit real quick! :

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/21/2008 8:58:35 PM

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His hand around my throat. Every. Damn. Time. I melt. Even when it's something completely outside our relationship, if I'm frustrated or anxious or upset for whatever reason and he puts his hand around my throat I am instantly calmer. I feel loved and cared for, but above all else when he does that it makes me feel -safe-

that's a surefire way to calm my pet down instantly. he has a lot of stress in his life but if i put my hand around his throat it's exactly what he needs.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/21/2008 9:14:07 PM

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he has some "way" about him, i dunno =p
something that i feel when he touches me
and if he says "take it" whatever "it" is -- criiiiipes =p i turn into noodles

speaking of that, anything anal generally puts me in a really particular frame of mind.
i don't mind saying it on a forum because i'm pretty sure it's with him ONLY
and babbling about it encourages me to think about it, and it's always good to have the reasons cemented in your brain =p

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/25/2008 10:32:42 AM

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What is the one thing that makes you submit no matter what?

(you know what I mean. It's the thing that gets you everytime and once it's involved you can't back out even if you tried. your jelly in the knees and blind to all else. Fighting against it is hopeless and you know it.)

What makes me "submit completely" in this connotation would be when my Mistress holds my face in Her hands and She looks into my eyes in acceptance of my submission, but even more in assurance of Her dominion over me. Being lovingly held to the chest and having my face pet would be another wave of the "white flag" for me (also any other type of being held towards Her body would bring this out of me). i also echo the response of the quite command of my Mistress' order to kneel.

Submission is being though and not doing… but in the context of this question, these examples would make my knees quiver and steadfastly hold to my commitment of submission to my Mistress and also serve as affirmation to the powerful choice of submission overall to the one I serve.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/25/2008 10:48:45 AM

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A stern look, just being dominant. But if one thing that does bring it out in me the most thigh-high boots.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/25/2008 1:36:33 PM

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One thing I've discovered that brings me right down is when she grabs a tight fistful of hair and tilts my head back. Add direct eye contact for bonus points. Instant calmness, focus and heart pounding. Of course "she" must be someone I feel submissive towards in the first place.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/26/2008 8:12:09 AM

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I would submit with a word. A simple sound. Even in brat form. Even in giddy girl form. Just a footstep. The look in the eyes. Would send every fiber in my being into submission.

That part I miss. I don't miss the rest.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/26/2008 8:20:09 AM

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one thing i like is that, since he's so much bigger than me, i pretty much HAVE to look up at him
which...
i dunno, it just "does something"

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/26/2008 10:21:45 PM

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For me it is really all about the person, for me to submit "completely" is not something i do lightly. I have to have a connection, chemistry, trust all that good stuff. Unfortunately all this is hard to find but when i do i'm completely hers.

Like aravain some things that work for me in a "scene" setting is hair pulling, telling me not to speak, "DOWN" just yummy. I respond mostly to someone that will just take control, not ask, just take it!

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/27/2008 1:17:04 AM

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Big Breasts i am down on my knees in a heartbeat

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 10/27/2008 5:07:41 AM

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I never once thought id ever find a man id ever completely submit too until i found Him. Within the first 8 months i was ready to submit to Him completely and have reminded Him of that since i did tell Him that one day that I was completely His to do whatever He wished for as long as He liked. i knew that there was something about Him that wanted me to better myself, to keep striving for better, stronger girl. He is my muse in life. Just the way He looks at me when wither it's in a Dominate way or just as my boyfriend it makes me melt into goo and want to stare at those dark eyes forever :3

its been 1 year and 4 months now (10 months online and 6 in the real world)

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 11/8/2008 9:58:35 PM

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an intelligent woman who i respect who gets me aroused and controls my orgasm. I am hers and she can get anything she wants from me.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 11/8/2008 9:59:31 PM

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What is the one thing that makes you submit no matter what?

(you know what I mean. It's the thing that gets you everytime and once it's involved you can't back out even if you tried. your jelly in the knees and blind to all else. Fighting against it is hopeless and you know it.)

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 11/9/2008 6:10:47 AM

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when i am laid down on the bed and my hands are taken by his enormous hand over my head and held lightly, I grab on to them like i was falling off of a building. he whispers in my ear what he is going to do to me and as he does it, i simply melt into the bed.

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 11/9/2008 9:55:46 AM

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Well, a disappointed look accompagnied by 'Lydia...?' makes my knees bend. Maybe it has something to do with the gorgeous glare and the... Ok, I'll stop.
Actually a raised hand or any other threat of punishment never worked for me. I -like- punishment, so why would I submit if it takes away a possible fun punishment?
Oh, well, there's the part where I'll submit because I am a His sub, but that's not the question, is it?

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RE: What makes you submit completely? - 11/9/2008 1:59:58 PM

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For me it's not a what, it's a who. Makes all of the difference in the world.

I agree completely. That and looming over me with that "look".

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