dsamethyst
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Joined: 9/20/2004 Status: offline
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I realize that I my not have a politically correct dictionary made for this lifestyle, but well...As far as prostitution issues go,I feel the only way I can be sure to avoid being accused of Prostitution when working as a pro Domme....and yes i have done a few "pay per play" sessions...I had a few rules... 1. I would not permit any of my clientele to touch me in any area above my knees, for those that had made an appointment for foot worship...I catered to those that enjoy the cute feet and legs of a true lady. 2. I do not touch "goodies" with anything! not a foot not a toy not even with a hand! I do not do anything that is remotely sexual. 3. Orgasm, not an option. 4. NO strap on play....Strap on play in my opinion is prostitution....if you are having intimate sexual contact in any way... and being paid for it...In my humble opinion it is prostitution. an artificial penis is hanving sex in my opinion as is performing a hand job, a foot job, need i express the context of oral sex...(or in some peoples circles...body worshipping is comes a bit close for my comfort! If a mouth is coming with in kissing distance of a nibble on a part of the body that cannot be exposed in public....It is intimate contact ie sexual in nature!) 5. I play only out in a public venue....basically i feel that things are less likely to veer off into a forbidden land if things are out in the open! 6. I have never had a set rate...I actually accepted a true tribute...meaning i accepted what ever the person that made the appointment with me felt that my time and energy was worth... and well i cannot say that was ever given a gift of anything less than what most of the advertised mistresses..."charged" I was able to earn enough for my breast reconstruction within a 3 month period and i didn't do all that many sessions, and all were done on friday or saturday evenings. I do not know if it was because I didn't demand a set price, or because the gentlemen that i dealt with felt that i deserved the increase fee. It may very well be that they gentlemen that i dealt with were new comers and well how do i put this....well they were looking more for the fantasy then they were the actual experience. I do know when i did my interviews prior to arranging my meetings...i asked and answered many questions and anyone that i felt was out of my experience level..I would send them elsewhere..i have sent men to other Dommes that i knew to be capable of the severe humiliation and sadistic play that they were seeking. .. I just know within 3 months i had the finances necessary and well it was about 10 weeks worth of energy expended. I no longer do Pro work due to physical limitations and the fact that there is no longer a public venue in my immediate area. I continue to recieve word of mouth referrals which is the only way I had previously taken new clients. well that is my view on this topic..
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