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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 9/30/2008 2:40:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: JumpingJax
Being that I am new to these forums there is no way I'm going to be able to understand what the heck you are talking about. To me a profile = a person. If multiple people share a profile well, I'll just respond and you guys can sort it out.

Our profile is pretty clear. Two names. Two faces on the photographs. Two different writing styles and signatures. I get you are new to the forums, and I welcome you on a personal level, I also get that some profiles are not as obvious as ours, but it's not a valid excuse.
So, this is where part of your problem lies. If you lack tolerance(which you have exuded), that is because you are either too lazy, or too fixed of your mind and ideas to stimulate personal growth. You come onto a message board that contains kink. Within kink there are varying degrees of people - singles, couples and poly families. You are second guessing consistantly throughout your posts so far. It will be cool to see if you evolve should you think the forums rock for you and you decide to stay.

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But if I did read this profile right your telling me you really didn't believe what was being posted, but just trying to push another users buttons?

No - you are incorrect. I noted an inconsistancy and questioned as to why they would speak down to a person who has a concern like that. No one had to respond - it is a blessing to me, if someone does. I learn more. I enjoy learning. But if you are learning from someone, you have to have a teacher who is consistant, otherwise you begin questioning whether what you have been taught by them is of any substance.
Trying to push buttons and wind people up? No. Provoking a discussion to learn? Absolutely. But then people usually see only what they would do personally.

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Either way I am now officially too confused to continue this :)

Then that is your choice, but for me, that is giving up very easily and leaves you know where better than where you started from. If you expect other people to 'sort it out' for you, then you have an awful shock coming - not just on the boards, but in life.

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 9/30/2008 11:50:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark
Our profile is pretty clear. Two names. Two faces on the photographs. Two different writing styles and signatures. I get you are new to the forums, and I welcome you on a personal level, I also get that some profiles are not as obvious as ours, but it's not a valid excuse.

Ok I get that there really are two people. But after reading your actual profile - I'm still a little confused. I'll try to pay more attention to the signatures and I'm sure I'll have it in no time.

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So, this is where part of your problem lies. If you lack tolerance(which you have exuded), that is because you are either too lazy, or too fixed of your mind and ideas to stimulate personal growth. You come onto a message board that contains kink. Within kink there are varying degrees of people - singles, couples and poly families. You are second guessing consistantly throughout your posts so far. It will be cool to see if you evolve should you think the forums rock for you and you decide to stay.

It is actually possible that I am BOTH lazy and too fixed in my mind. But I'm hoping that isn't the case.

I'm interested in what you mean by I am "second guessing". Do you mean I am second guessing others? Judging them maybe? Or are you suggesting that I'm second guessing myself? That is how I read that comment the first time, but I don't think I have done that. Right or Wrong - I thought I was fairly consistent in what I stated I believe. If that isn't the case I need to do more self evaluation so that I can be true to myself and others.

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Trying to push buttons and wind people up? No. Provoking a discussion to learn? Absolutely. But then people usually see only what they would do personally.

It is still the same action, regardless of the intent. I do tend to push buttons - but it is to provoke discussions. I find the opportunity to express different views, like you, educational.
Sometimes I will argue a point that I'm not totally sold on just because I feel it would be nice to further discuss a subject and no body learns anything when everyone is saying the same thing.

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 9/30/2008 11:53:10 AM

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BTW - just noticed that my posts are coming out as some large black bold text. There is no thought put in to my font. I am not trying to stand out, yell, be stern or put any other emotion in through the use of fonts.

I didn't alter the font, the font altered me :)

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 9/30/2008 4:44:01 PM

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Actually my arthritis is relatively unmedicated. I have special pain pills to take when it's unbearable, but they knock me out to the point that I'm gone for, like, two days... so I don't take them. I don't even know where/what they are. If it gets really bad I'll take some acetaminophen or similar, but otherwise I don't do the medications. I figure that they won't make it go away, so I might as well just live with it rather than adding extra things to my body.

Well the swelling of the foot "could possibly" be related to the arthritis ...there are different forms of arthritis and possible you have developed a secondary form that possibly may even be causing inflammation of the veins which could also explain the swelling .... if so it will be important to get the testing done as soon as possible because the inflammatory type of arthritis is autoimmune related and responds best when aggressive treatment is started early to get it into remission otherwise can cause rapid deterioration of joints and normally involves other joints as well ..worse it can cause inflammation of organs such and heart and lungs which could lead to death ..one of the indicators that it may inflammatory arthritis or rheumatoid arthritis is if the arthritis is affecting multiple joints eg both knees, both ankles, both wrists,knuckles of both hands both elbows possibly hips , shoulders and neck ..if 5 or more joints are affected with some being on both sides of the body then a good possibility you have, other symptoms could be you may feel sort of like you have the flu, there will be morning stiffness in the joints that will ease off after maybe half an hour or more. This is a serious form of arthritis and not one to be neglected or treated lightly. Early treatment by a rheumatologist is important

Also talk to your doctor about your medication and the problems you having with it knocking you out for a couple days ..there are many types that can be used to treat arthritis as well comes in different dosages .. so your doctor may be able to prescribe one that has less of a kick to it. Diabetes is also common in those with arthritis and one of the symptoms can be swelling of the feet or ankles

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 10/1/2008 12:54:13 AM

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I'm am happy to write you on the other side if you like, because we have already hijacked the thread and I don't desire to do so further. So you might decide to mail us when you get online if you want to continue this, but to do so on this thread would not be fair to the OP.

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 10/1/2008 3:33:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

The original post was made by me(not a christian), not Darcy(also not a christian) - to another person who is an evangelical - based on christian doctrine.

the.dark.

I believe that you cannot read or that you do not comprehend my written words..both publically and in private.
My BACKGROUND is evangelical. I have never said I am a PRACTICING evangelical.

If this does NOT set the record straight, you are continuing to make this an issue and its yours, not ours.

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 10/1/2008 3:42:13 AM

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Actually my arthritis is relatively unmedicated. I have special pain pills to take when it's unbearable, but they knock me out to the point that I'm gone for, like, two days... so I don't take them. I don't even know where/what they are. If it gets really bad I'll take some acetaminophen or similar, but otherwise I don't do the medications. I figure that they (Meds) won't make it (arthritis) go away, so I might as well just live with it rather than adding extra things to my body.

Speaking of meds and arthritis; you are correct, they dont make it go away. Aravain, might I suggest you do some reading on arthritis and what happens to the joint? Glucosamine, Chondrotin and MSN do wonders to lubricate and build up the joint so that eventually bone does not grind on bone, which leads to severer pain, immobility and a potential joint replacement. My mom has more bionic joints than real ones from arthritis.
Just a suggestion.

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 10/1/2008 3:52:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

The original post was made by me(not a christian), not Darcy(also not a christian) - to another person who is an evangelical - based on christian doctrine.

the.dark.

I believe that you cannot read or that you do not comprehend my written words..both publically and in private.
My BACKGROUND is evangelical. I have never said I am a PRACTICING evangelical.

If this does NOT set the record straight, you are continuing to make this an issue and its yours, not ours.

I am comfortable admitting that what I wrote isn't clear. I should have written evangelical background and I apologise. However, the premise is the same(gods decision etc). There is no issues other than the one you keep repeating and I am not discussing this and usurping the OPs post anymore than you and I already have, whether you wish to or not. That is what constructing another thread is for, or remaining in private emails. Your choice.

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 10/1/2008 11:46:56 AM

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Hmmm I'll do that at my next appointment :(

Maybe that stuff happening to my dad IS related.

Re: Rheumatoid Arthritis

Last time I had it seriously checked into there was no evidence of it being this type... It is just in my knees, and my doctor used some sort of term that I don't remember to describe it.

Guess I have some reading to do.

Re: Dark

Don't feel bad :) If I was annoyed by thread-jacking I'd say so... it's not like you're completely covering up any useful information.

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RE: Completely Random but :( and possibly serious? - 10/1/2008 11:10:53 PM

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A dragon bite on the foot...reminds me of a bumper sticker a friend had, who was in the whole online role-playing game thing that I just can't grasp..."Don't meddle in the affairs of dragons, for thou art crunchy and go well with ketchup". To which daddy promptly replied "ugh, I HATE ketchup, made it tobasco sauce".

But I digress...from personal experience, if a flea or mosquito bit me on the foot, I would probably exhibit the same symptoms. I'm sensitive like that.

Or a broken bone, or any number of things. The RICE therapy is helpful, a visit to the doc can be as well. I hope your foot feels better.

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