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JumpingJax -> WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 11:39:15 AM)
Ok so maybe I'm too new to this stuff. Maybe I'm just not the sadist type. Up until recently I didn't spent a lot of times in forums and really hadn't put much thought in to really expanding and learning. This is in fact my first post in CM's forums, but I have been lurking around D/s for almost a decade now and for whatever reason this profile just hit me. Maybe it's the fact that the picture is of a young and pretty girl. Maybe it's the fact that it's only 12 noon for me and sexual play really isn't "on my mind" right now. But for the life of me I can't see how or why anyone would subject themselves to this. I originally posted this including a link to a profile below. It was kicked back by the moderators for specifically talking about anothers profile and including a link to said profile. I understand and can respect that. So instead of posting a profile name, or link to a specific profile let me just say that this specific profile which I found a 21 year old girl mentioned a desire to have her teeth knocked out so that she might better serve. It might be better now that I am not linking to a profile as I can make this post about more than just one single act which I don't like. It's about a bigger and alarming picture to me. People who really don't seem to care what happens to them. Acts that when preformed leave someone forever changed in a physical and unhealthy way. Why would anyone be willing to do this? People at 21 you know next to nothing about who you are and where you will be. It's ok. I'm not saying you're stupid... I'm simply saying that as you progress through your life your views will change and you will start to see the world differently. My views at 20 lacked a certain prospective on life which I now hold. Who knows maybe I'm kidding myself at believing that I've finally reached the pivotal point of that experience that defines me. I'm still young and I'm sure I have a lot more to learn. It is possible that in 20 more years of life, I'll see things totally differently. The other thing is where the heck do you draw the line between a Dom and a psychopath. Just because someone ask for something or because you have a relationship with the label of D/s doesn't mean that activities can't still be abuse. It's obvious to me that there are many sadist out that just don't care about people. If you are the type of person who doesn't care about people, then you in my opinion have no business being around them. You damm sure shouldn't be leading them. As to this 21 year old or anyone having similar thoughts. If you truly think your life is worthless and that you should be honored to allow someone to mutilate your body for their own gross kicks, then you need help not abuse. I'm not saying you may not benefit from a D/s relationship but try to care a little bit about what happens to yourself. There are some decisions that you just can't take back you should really think twice before doing anything which can leave permanent scars for life.

ThundersCry -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 12:19:57 PM)
If this stuff* is not for you <unhealthy> then...delete your profile and move on...* I do try my best to tell people who are new that come to me to make sure they understand what they are getting into... There comes a point, at least it did for me there is no turning back...it changed my whole...life. For the better I might....add. Good luck as I will agree with one thing you mentioned....what you want and think you may need will change 10 yrs down the road... Good luck...<grins> watch out for the psychos!

CalifChick -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 12:28:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JumpingJax ... a 21 year old girl mentioned a desire to have her teeth knocked out so that she might better serve... Why would anyone be willing to do this? Ahhh, young grasshopper. You seem to be suffering under the delusion that everything you read in a profile, nay, on the internet, is the truth. Cali

JumpingJax -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 12:52:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Ahhh, young grasshopper. You seem to be suffering under the delusion that everything you read in a profile, nay, on the internet, is the truth. lol. Actually that was something I was wondering about... How far do people really go? Can this really be real? I did actually consider the fact that it could be fake. Joel

Musicmystery -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 12:58:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: JumpingJax ... a 21 year old girl mentioned a desire to have her teeth knocked out so that she might better serve... Why would anyone be willing to do this? Ahhh, young grasshopper. You seem to be suffering under the delusion that everything you read in a profile, nay, on the internet, is the truth. Cali Agreed. Sometimes---very rarely, oh I'm sure--women looking to part men from their money post come-ons on sites much like this one (or so I've heard....), even going to the amazing extreme of presenting a profile and a photo that is not actually that girl! I know, I know. I was shocked too. Seriously, I've seen dozens of simply ridiculous profiles. Report them if applicable and move on.

RCdc -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 12:58:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JumpingJax quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Ahhh, young grasshopper. You seem to be suffering under the delusion that everything you read in a profile, nay, on the internet, is the truth. lol. Actually that was something I was wondering about... How far do people really go? Can this really be real? I did actually consider the fact that it could be fake. Joel Some are reality. Most are as Cali suggests. Thing is, it doesn;t matter unless it involves you. Sure anyone has curiosity, but at the end of the day, it's not your concern. Concentrate on yourself and he people you are compatable with. the.dark.

Icarys -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 1:02:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JumpingJax quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Ahhh, young grasshopper. You seem to be suffering under the delusion that everything you read in a profile, nay, on the internet, is the truth. lol. Actually that was something I was wondering about... How far do people really go? Can this really be real? I did actually consider the fact that it could be fake. Joel They go far beyond what you might think and not as near as they say at times. It could be a lie or a "twisted" fantasy or it might be the truth. Never know. Is it to far to think that a female would be whipped till they bleed? Yet they are and like it. Psycho waves Wouldn't want to seem unfriendly[:D]

JohnWarren -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 1:04:54 PM)
First, other's kinks don't effect you in the slightest. Unless you are the one playing with a person, you don't have any say in what they do or what they want. "Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is ok" is a pretty good mantra until something better comes along. Second, you're assuming she would do this if she got a chance; you're assuming she really wants to do this; you're assuming she's a she; you're assuming she's 21. This is the cyber world. If you're going to accept everything you see here, you'll end up thinking that doms have 12 inch dicks, have been trained in a secret European SM family and don't really live in their mom's basement. [laugh]

XaviersXian -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 1:58:41 PM)
greetings to all, Sounds like one of these "I will do x to prove my slaveness" things again. In my experience, people like this are either inexperienced, or full of it. My guess is that if a Master actually suggested socking her in the mouth for the purpose of "better service" she'd either cry foul and back right out, or agree to it, only to run to the police afterwards. People like this give people like me (slaves who live it, not just claim it) a bad name. They help to fuel the misconception that we've got porridge for brains. well wishes,

Icarys -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 2:04:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: XaviersXian greetings to all, Sounds like one of these "I will do x to prove my slaveness" things again. In my experience, people like this are either inexperienced, or full of it. My guess is that if a Master actually suggested socking her in the mouth for the purpose of "better service" she'd either cry foul and back right out, or agree to it, only to run to the police afterwards. People like this give people like me (slaves who live it, not just claim it) a bad name. They help to fuel the misconception that we've got porridge for brains. well wishes, Sounds a lot like your post, just not as graphic.

sunshinemiss -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 2:15:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren If you're going to accept everything you see here, you'll end up thinking that doms have 12 inch dicks, have been trained in a secret European SM family and don't really live in their mom's basement. [laugh] You say that like it isn't true... [;)]

subtlebutterfly -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 2:18:01 PM)
yup I've met a person on here into amputation (the action) so everything goes I suppose, from the "hi spank me" to the "hi cut my hand off but remember to put it back on before it's too late".[8\|]

windchymes -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 3:11:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren Second, you're assuming she would do this if she got a chance; you're assuming she really wants to do this; you're assuming she's a she; you're assuming she's 21. This is the cyber world. If you're going to accept everything you see here, you'll end up thinking that doms have 12 inch dicks, have been trained in a secret European SM family and don't really live in their mom's basement. [laugh] Now that's just silly. I'm sure some of them don't really live in their grandma's basement. [8\|]

NumberSix -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 3:32:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren If you're going to accept everything you see here, you'll end up thinking that doms have 12 inch dicks......... [laugh] W-w-wait up. Hold on.....Uhhh, let me think for a second. Are you saying I DON'T have a twelve inch dick? GAWD dammit!!!!!! I have been scammed by Nigerians, AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!! Ron

LadyLupineNYC -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 3:42:21 PM)
Odd, I posted to this when it was 1st up and it seemed that it got dropped (yes, I saw the original post and thus the original profile)...but basically I said: come on: wank material! there is so reason for someone with a profile of about 8 days to bother to put up a photo (assuming this is 'for realz!')...

CallaFirestormBW -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 3:58:42 PM)
~fast reply~ I have an acquaintance who is not into BDSM, but he is involved in the vampire community. He had his teeth intentionally removed and replaced with pointed implants, top and bottom. Personally, I hate dentists and can't imagine voluntarily getting teeth pulled, steel pins put in my jawbone, and implants installed... but hey, he thinks it provides a greater connection to his preferred way of life. shrugs People are complex. I play blood sport. I do cutting, piercing and branding. It is possible that these can all be done in ways that permanently change the body. Not everyone is going to want to play on my playground, and that's a good thing. I also wouldn't play with someone who didn't want to participate in what I do. That is also a good thing. Abide by your own ethical landmarks, only agree to what you are really willing to be a part of, and don't take anything at face value that you haven't witnessed yourself. Calla Firestorm

Ebonybbw -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 4:10:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JumpingJax But for the life of me I can't see how or why anyone would subject themselves to this. It's called fantasy and the internet. People say and write anything they like for whatever arousal it may bring.

XaviersXian -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 4:13:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Icarys quote: ORIGINAL: XaviersXian greetings to all, Sounds like one of these "I will do x to prove my slaveness" things again. In my experience, people like this are either inexperienced, or full of it. My guess is that if a Master actually suggested socking her in the mouth for the purpose of "better service" she'd either cry foul and back right out, or agree to it, only to run to the police afterwards. People like this give people like me (slaves who live it, not just claim it) a bad name. They help to fuel the misconception that we've got porridge for brains. well wishes, Sounds a lot like your post, just not as graphic. greetings to all, Icarys, I've sent you cmail and taken this issue off-board. well wishes,

LookieNoNookie -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 4:29:56 PM)
WTF is WRONG with these people ?????!!!!!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: WTF is wrong with these people? (9/28/2008 4:31:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NumberSix quote: ORIGINAL: JohnWarren If you're going to accept everything you see here, you'll end up thinking that doms have 12 inch dicks......... [laugh] W-w-wait up. Hold on.....Uhhh, let me think for a second. Are you saying I DON'T have a twelve inch dick? GAWD dammit!!!!!! I have been scammed by Nigerians, AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!! Ron (Bastages)

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