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A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 7:56:45 AM

OttersSwim

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Mistresses,

My Lady has requested that I post here on the forum and get ideas and opinions on various types of anal play that other Mistresses enjoy. She enjoys anal and wants me to compile for her a list of ideas of things we might do that go beyond the butt plug and vibrator. She knows what she wants and likes, but I am new to anal play, very shy about it, and she wants me to start thinking about the various ways that we might interact in this way. Discussion, then action as it were...

This is a hard post for me. I am hoping to avoid a "how to please" thread which I know people generally hate, and I don't want this to turn into a wank fest. I am combining this request with a search of the forums to read what others have posted in the past, and very much welcome any of your ideas here.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 8:18:01 AM

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Join Dianes yahoo group and ask your questions.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 8:49:32 AM

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Thank you, I will.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 9:05:23 AM

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I truly believe nothing is as dynamic as your hand (s). You can go anywhere from sensual massage, to amazing stretches, working eventually up to punch fucking. My partner has completely sworn off most toys and dildos, except where they can be used with the hands at the same time. Patience and time are all it takes. And lots and lots of really good lube. We've experimented with several mixtures to find what works best for us.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 9:07:44 AM

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Might I suggest www.figging.com? If you're unfamiliar with this, you are in for an entire new world...<eg>

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 10:22:01 AM

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AHH! Punchfucking?

*scared*

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 11:13:30 AM

OttersSwim

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Thanks for the additional resources...and yea...punchfucking sounds...well, painful!

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 11:26:39 AM

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quote:

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AHH! Punchfucking?

*scared*

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 12:59:47 PM

malloves69

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love strapon play

being fucked in the ass by a woman wearing a big strapon feels wonderfull indeed

size does matter and yes i love 8in or more

what even better then strapon play is being fisted by her ..once she slides in my ass i truly love that feeling

she loves milking my prostate when she is fisting me because she loves seeing the cum drip out of my cock by what her fingers are doing to my prostate

no matter what i do theres nothing i can do once shes milking my prostate until she gerts all the cum out that i have in me

she has trained me well and my ass and prostate are hers anytime she wants to take me

totally different feeling having your prostate milked then from vanilla sex ..the lady is truly amazing

have fun mal

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 1:22:00 PM

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Otter,
Perhaps if you provided a list of ideas you already have or have gleaned from your search of the forums, you might receive more helpful responses that don't duplicate anything you've already found. At the same time, you'd be making yourself of service by compiling a reference list for use by others; possibly leading to further discussion of the subject.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 4:22:32 PM

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Just a small point but remember that the anus is not built for wrong way traffic.
No matter how much lube you use, no matter how careful you go, your anal ring will stretch and you will be far more vulnerable to infections.
Have anal sex any way you like, whatever works for you, but a slack anus is not a thing of beauty.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/4/2008 7:13:12 PM

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I was reading a thread on another site about a slaves (purposely) destroyed arsehole, I've no idea if it was real or made up but.(it was written by the slave).. the description made me nauseous, and generally nothing is disgusting enough makes me nauseous*. though the whole psycopath aspect to it would have contributed to that i suppose

*i think the last time, was seeing a kidney stone the size of a golf ball and mishearing its origin, it was from a male though so getting a mental image of it passing through a penis.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/5/2008 8:08:52 AM

OttersSwim

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You know Pixel, that is not a bad idea.

I will see what I can come up with and post it here!

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/5/2008 8:10:22 AM

OttersSwim

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Thank you Tweed, yes, that has also been a concern of mine. I need to do some research on what the realities of that are.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/6/2008 9:55:02 PM

pixelslave

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

No matter how much lube you use, no matter how careful you go, your anal ring will stretch and you will be far more vulnerable to infections.

Would you be kind enough to cite a reference for this please?

To my knowledge a healthy sphincter is quite elastic and should rebound to it's normal condition. A healthy digestive system naturally contains numerous kinds of bacteria and other organisms as well. That's simply part of it's nature in performing it's function.

That said, I've never heard of anyone receiving an infection to their body from anal play aside from well known diseases, most of which are considered STD's, usually transmitted through entry into the bloodstream through tears in the anal/rectal tissue.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/6/2008 10:00:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

Just a small point but remember that the anus is not built for wrong way traffic.
No matter how much lube you use, no matter how careful you go, your anal ring will stretch and you will be far more vulnerable to infections.
Have anal sex any way you like, whatever works for you, but a slack anus is not a thing of beauty.

Ummm... i've never in my life heard of this. i guess if you were into fisting on a daily basis it might become a problem eventually but the anus is a muscle - it can and will return to it's normal size. Are you claiming this for males and females or is it just a male phobia?

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/7/2008 7:27:58 PM

RichieB

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

Just a small point but remember that the anus is not built for wrong way traffic.
No matter how much lube you use, no matter how careful you go, your anal ring will stretch and you will be far more vulnerable to infections.
Have anal sex any way you like, whatever works for you, but a slack anus is not a thing of beauty.

Diane has been using strapons on me for over 12 years now and I've never had any of these problems.

Rich

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/8/2008 2:36:01 AM

s3xadd1ct

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tweedydaddy

Just a small point but remember that the anus is not built for wrong way traffic.
No matter how much lube you use, no matter how careful you go, your anal ring will stretch and you will be far more vulnerable to infections.
Have anal sex any way you like, whatever works for you, but a slack anus is not a thing of beauty.

Please keep propaganda out of threads unless it's relevant to the Original Post. The OP has obviously already decided on anal play. They are looking for ideas. I have been having anal sex for almost 20 years now and I know several gay men that have been having sex much longer than me, none of us have problems that you are warning about.

Otterswim:
As for ideas, they range from the generic to extremes, if you are new to anal play take it slowly relaxation and lube is pretty much all it takes. Doing a google search will quench your aspirations of trying something new. From that point it's just a matter of discovering/exploring your limits.

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/8/2008 11:27:20 AM

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nope... do a little searching around the internet and get educated on anal sex and anal play...

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RE: A Request for Ideas for Anal Play... - 10/8/2008 4:02:43 PM

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Um, I didn't see any specification on who would be receiving the anal play and who would be giving. I have actually had a vanilla girl straddle me and do a cowgirl kind of position while I was up her bumhole. I really dislike the stigma of the ass being a submissive orifice, I think a dominant woman can be anally penetrated and still be dominant. Anywho, back to the skank I was with at the time, she wasn't even usually into girl on top but she seemed to really enjoy this, I think if it's not out of the question for her you should talk about this, it would go great with some bondage and sensory deprovation.

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