quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Hi, silkenfire----
Not sure what the person's own personal sexual take on the activity related to themselves was as that wasn't the context of the conversation (It was a wholly platonic conversation; not 'looking', very clear on that in my profile).  He seemed adamant about the idea of Alpha-ness related to Doms (Which I still honestly don't 'get' though I have the image of someone strutting around like a rooster in my head) and the whole blow-job from a male as more acceptable than being f*cked by a woman.  Perhaps were it more an assertion of actions among equals I would understand it better in my own personal context (Ie: were he saying that because the blow-er was male, that is what made it different) but the focus was the action. 
Lol, your previous "dominant" sounds a lot like a rather submissive boy I man-handled, much to his and my pleasure.  That's nothing like f*cking a Dominant. 
Totally different than someone who is Dominant.  Totally!  :> 
Was your displeasure caused by the person's misidentification or another aspect?
Davan

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch


it might make your submission to Him even deeper.. Solidify your relationship and your dynamic even further...and make you feel even more grateful that you chose the right man to submit to because He not only understands but embraces all your deep, dark, disgustingly sick and perverted fantasies and wants to see you experience it all and help you grow as a person and understand yourself and your motivations as much as you can..

quote:

ORIGINAL: silkenfire

quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Hi, silkenfire----
Not sure what the person's own personal sexual take on the activity related to themselves was as that wasn't the context of the conversation (It was a wholly platonic conversation; not 'looking', very clear on that in my profile).  He seemed adamant about the idea of Alpha-ness related to Doms (Which I still honestly don't 'get' though I have the image of someone strutting around like a rooster in my head) and the whole blow-job from a male as more acceptable than being f*cked by a woman.  Perhaps were it more an assertion of actions among equals I would understand it better in my own personal context (Ie: were he saying that because the blow-er was male, that is what made it different) but the focus was the action. 
Lol, your previous "dominant" sounds a lot like a rather submissive boy I man-handled, much to his and my pleasure.  That's nothing like f*cking a Dominant. 
Totally different than someone who is Dominant.  Totally!  :> 
Was your displeasure caused by the person's misidentification or another aspect?
Davan

Sorry, Davan, I really had to get to sleep at the time that I wrote that so it wasn't too clear...

My displeasure was not with the situation. I believe that when commanded/directed by the dominant male that there is nothing wrong with the act itself.

My displeasure myself was that it was precisely like manipulating a subbie boy. I have no respect for male subs and look at them as quite pathetic, if I've topped them... imagine then taking that viewpoint and applying it to someone supposed to be my "Dominant"?? It did not go over so well.

Of course, he was also not too dominant in many other ways as well, such as being too scared to ask me for oral (or even bring up the topic!) I got to thinking that he didn't like many of my "skills" but it turned out he was just scared to talk/ask me about anything... so dominant

I don't think the act is a problem at all, it's the tone taken, etc. and the way it is managed, that is important.

quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero
Master: "Slave, I'm in the mood to have you penetrate me with a strap on."

Slave: "I'm sorry, Sir, but I cannot allow you to compromise your dominance by finding such a thing pleasurable...let alone demanding such a thing from me."

quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero
Master: "Slave, I'm in the mood to have you penetrate me with a strap on."

Slave: "I'm sorry, Sir, but I cannot allow you to compromise your dominance by finding such a thing pleasurable...let alone demanding such a thing from me."

*splutters coffee*

priceless

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The only reason I haven't done prostate massage is the only thing I enjoy up my ass is someone's greedy tongue.  However, IF that changed and I decided I wanted to be fucked in the ass for MY pleasure it just might go something like this...

Sitting on the edge of the bed watching her crawling across the room with her strap on shoved so far down her throat that she is gagging and drooling on it.  Then kneeling beside me and licking up the lube from the bowl she uses her tongue to fill my ass with slippery lube and when I command her she stands and puts on her strap on.  She fucks me EXACTLY how I desire, whether than is me moving myself at whatever pace pleases me or my laying there so I don't have to work while she sweats away fucking me for my pleasure.  AFTER I cum she greedily cleans that dildo with her mouth for my viewing pleasure, showing me how badly she wants to taste my ass.

Yeah, it might just go something like that and anyone who can see my submission in there just ought to start saving some money so they can go and buy a frigging clue.  Being dominant is about doing what other people think you should do, it is about doing EXACTLY whatever the fuck it is YOU want to do, and finding someone who either longs to do the very same thing or whom you inspire to do it anyway.

quote:

ORIGINAL: silkenfire

I have no respect for male subs and look at them as quite pathetic, if I've topped them...