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WhiplashSmile2 -> Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 1:52:42 PM)
I just watched a couple of spanking video clips and well, I'm not buying into how painful they were attempting to make it appear. Perhaps it's just me, but I took harder ass spanking as a kid compared to some of these girls in these video's and I'm not buying into their so called appearence of it being painful. In fact, I could sit here and wack myself equally hard and well.. not even flinch at it one damn bit. OK, so I have a maso streak, perhaps I really do have a high pain tolerence. But this stuff I see is like a walk around in the park. I really have yet to see somebody's ass end getting wacked up really good yet in a video clip, then again, I have not watched too many ass spanking videos, because most of them are so lame and tame. Perhaps, I'm a bit hardcore in terms of my own MasoSado sides, but come on.. yawn... I'm really not buying into the fantasy pain factor I'm seeing. Perhaps I'm missing something here, I have to ask myself though, am I really a hardcore devil ass beater. I don't sit and watch other people spanking other people generally. In all honestly, I've seen one girl get her ass wacked really hard by a guy locally here, that it left black and blue marks on her ass for two weeks. Now that's what I call a fucking spanking. Anyways, I'm just not buying into these clips as being great let alone believable...

OttersSwim -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 2:02:47 PM)
My experience has been that the pain sensation of a spanking builds with each strike. By the end, just running your hand over the area will bring more than enough pain sensation for me. The last spanking that brought me to tears, left black and blue and red marks for several days...but the marking was actually not as bad as previous times which pain-wise I did not feel were as intense. Not sure what you were watching, but based on my experience, I would not be as skeptical watching the same I think.

IvyMorgan -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 2:29:26 PM)
Well, aside from the last toy in the film I made, the reactions are all genuine. But, the top I filmed with did explain that most of the models she works with aren't actual masochists. A lot of CP models on film are just that, models. Porn looks for someone who looks the part first, and then the reality of the spanking/what have you, it adjusted to compensate.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 2:29:35 PM)
You have to understand that what you're watching is most likely porn. So, you're picking up on the 'staged'-ness of it. Done in the right way, spanking can be very painful. I've left handprint bruises. Master Fire

ExKat -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 2:33:18 PM)
I'm not buying the female orgasms and pleasure I see in so-called "mutual sexual pleasure" porn. I've had better sex than that and have never even flinched! Oh wait. Porn isn't real! How silly of me to have forgotten. Just like girls don't usually come from ridiculous porn-like sex, so too do masochists not moan and drip with pleasure from ridiculous porn-like spankings. Damned film industry giving men and doms unrealistic expectations.

tweedydaddy -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 3:13:04 PM)
Movies are not real life. Johnny Depp makes a good Jack Sparrow but he can't really sail a ship. ET can't fly either.

DarkSteven -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 3:31:08 PM)
And life really isn't that good for pizza delivery boys either.

Lockit -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 3:52:48 PM)
ROFL

marieToo -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 3:59:33 PM)
Maybe those porn stars are faking it. I can assure you it hurts like a motherfucker when it's real. I've had bruises, marks, welts and abrasions that lasted for quite some time. Hurts to sit for a few days, and sometimes it even hurts to walk.

subbisherri -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 7:51:23 PM)
Oh gee, a porn flick that isn't the real world? Maybe you should emulate what you saw on the video and let us know.

WhiplashSmile2 -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 8:11:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subbisherri Oh gee, a porn flick that isn't the real world? Maybe you should emulate what you saw on the video and let us know. LOL... hell no way... it's too lame to even think about emulating. My beef was about the porn, crappy unrealistic unbelievable porn. Real life vs. Fantasy crap... my OP was just a silly rant about it. Oh yes, wack wack... lightly tap me and make me scream like you are wacking my ass to hell and back again. Ass cheeks no where even pink let alone red... lol....

MAMandSlave -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 8:31:07 PM)
My girl does bdsm porn for Twisted Factory, I can vouch, based on the marks she has returned with, that the pain in the shoots there is not real. She has returned with many 68 in one instance, canemarks on her, pretty deep red welts.. I am sure that there are lots of porn actressess who "do" bdsm, but the lifestyle girls are the most fun to watch.

SNoB -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 8:35:23 PM)
Tired of fake fetish films? paintoy.com Lifestyle tops that beat the living S*** out of the girls. quote: ORIGINAL: ExKat Just like girls don't usually come from ridiculous porn-like sex, so too do masochists not moan and drip with pleasure from ridiculous porn-like spankings. Damned film industry giving men and doms unrealistic expectations. I know a few people that watching them play would make you change your stance. A very good friend of mine needs a towel while getting spanked or caned.

Lynnxz -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 8:41:29 PM)
It depends on which company is making it. :-/ I worked with Insex a bit ago... they called me a 'crazy masochist' for taking a caning from something that looked like a long straw, and left no marks. O.o I was a little confused... But apparently, welts can lead to the govt being nosy, and trying to shut the site down. Lame, but true, apparently there are some good english caning sites out there if you are interested.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 8:41:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MAMandSlave My girl does bdsm porn for Twisted Factory, I can vouch, based on the marks she has returned with, that the pain in the shoots there is not real. She has returned with many 68 in one instance, canemarks on her, pretty deep red welts.. I am sure that there are lots of porn actressess who "do" bdsm, but the lifestyle girls are the most fun to watch. Huh? Are you saying the pain is real or NOT real? And has anyone seen any movies from RuinousLove? Holy fucking hell!!

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 8:48:42 PM)
To the OP...may I point out the obvious, that everyone has varying pain thresholds..I ,for example, am a wimp of the first order..but occasionally, my wimp can be stifled a wee bit....:0)..Tempting

suhlut -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 9:01:39 PM)
i've been spanked by a Dom only once in my life, and it never hurt. Started while i was still fully dressed and OTK.. and then continued after He removed my outer clothing but still in lingerie.. still OTK.. and then finally nude..and still OTK. He moved on from spanking... to a flogger.. and that never hurt either. And from the flogger to a leather strap... and even THAT never hurt. i cant explain why none of it ever hurt.. weather it was simply because of the gradual buildup.. or simply because i found being spanked very erotic... i just know.. i loved loved loved it.. and believe me.. He didn't take it easy on me.. i think instead He played me like an instrument.. and boy do i miss that.

SNoB -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 9:45:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: suhlut i've been spanked by a Dom only once in my life, and it never hurt. Started while i was still fully dressed and OTK.. and then continued after He removed my outer clothing but still in lingerie.. still OTK.. and then finally nude..and still OTK. He moved on from spanking... to a flogger.. and that never hurt either. And from the flogger to a leather strap... and even THAT never hurt. i cant explain why none of it ever hurt.. weather it was simply because of the gradual buildup.. or simply because i found being spanked very erotic... i just know.. i loved loved loved it.. and believe me.. He didn't take it easy on me.. i think instead He played me like an instrument.. and boy do i miss that. Floggers arent really that painful IMO unless it is a very stingy flogger, or the person that is using it dosent know what they are doing. As for the OTK spanking, some people it just doesnt hurt too much at all, you need some cruel mother fucker with hands the size of dinner plates like me to make it hurt, thats just what I like to do.

yourdarkdesire -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 9:46:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: suhlut i've been spanked by a Dom only once in my life, and it never hurt. Started while i was still fully dressed and OTK.. quote: you got spanked in a drugstore???? kool

MAMandSlave -> RE: Spanking Pain, reality vs. fantasy porno... (10/7/2008 9:55:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lynnxz It depends on which company is making it. :-/ I worked with Insex a bit ago... they called me a 'crazy masochist' for taking a caning from something that looked like a long straw, and left no marks. O.o I was a little confused... But apparently, welts can lead to the govt being nosy, and trying to shut the site down. Lame, but true, apparently there are some good english caning sites out there if you are interested. I think the industry has become a bit more hardcore since Insex, Kristine had welts on her that came close to blooding. My understanding is it is not a problem with the goverment but with the credit card processors, they stop fun things like labia being sewn up on film...

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