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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/10/2008 7:50:27 AM   
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as superfical a topic as this may seem, i find it an extremely important issue, because - i use this site to vet potential play partners.  therefore, i require a general - non-face/non-identifying pic for both sexes, but for different reasons.  as a bi-sexual woman, i am not as concerned with a man's looks as i am a woman's.  my attraction to women is very physical, the hair, the skin, the belly button.  she could be as dumb as door knob, but if she has soft hair, nice skin and flat stomach, i may want to touch her . . . .  for men, it is not that way for me.  no matter how good looking a guy is, i would never have the urge to reach out and touch him.  it is more of a mental connection, and a desire to please.  so i am more concerned about him being attracted to me, than me to him.  which is why i offer my pic (albeit no face).  why would i want to dialogue with a man, hoping to find someone i could please, only to find out later i am not his physical type?  however, a general body pic of a man is important for me because i am looking for a man who is 'in control.'  that means, to me, partly, in control of himself.  overweight, out of shape men do not give me that vibe.  so, for that reason, i require a pic for men as well.  go ahead, shoot me. . . .

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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/10/2008 8:49:14 AM   
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Ohh yeah. Sexy bellybuttons are so damn hot!


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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/10/2008 2:15:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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If your emails are often predominantly about how good you look, filter them out, you've identified the shallow ones first. lucky you.


Oh I know! especially the ones that immediately ask for a mug shot.



To the OP you have a shot of just your tits and your complaing about the quality of mail???  What the fuck over!!!  You must be a natural blonde duh.  me think you protest to much.  Hands you a couple clues.

BadOne


And you have a picture with rather huge shades covering the most important thing I would want to see, 'the eyes'.

actually not a shot of just my tits because if you look a little closer its actually a cleavage and my tits are covered. Im showing more a belly and Im showing bondage.

I happen to have a job and a family and Im not blatantly going to put a mug shot up but Im happy to send one to someone I get talking to.


Why is it that some people are just plain nasty? Have a word with your self man!!!

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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/10/2008 2:23:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: goodgirlslave

as superfical a topic as this may seem, i find it an extremely important issue, because - i use this site to vet potential play partners.  therefore, i require a general - non-face/non-identifying pic for both sexes, but for different reasons.  as a bi-sexual woman, i am not as concerned with a man's looks as i am a woman's.  my attraction to women is very physical, the hair, the skin, the belly button.  she could be as dumb as door knob, but if she has soft hair, nice skin and flat stomach, i may want to touch her . . . .  for men, it is not that way for me.  no matter how good looking a guy is, i would never have the urge to reach out and touch him.  it is more of a mental connection, and a desire to please.  so i am more concerned about him being attracted to me, than me to him.  which is why i offer my pic (albeit no face).  why would i want to dialogue with a man, hoping to find someone i could please, only to find out later i am not his physical type?  however, a general body pic of a man is important for me because i am looking for a man who is 'in control.'  that means, to me, partly, in control of himself.  overweight, out of shape men do not give me that vibe.  so, for that reason, i require a pic for men as well.  go ahead, shoot me. . . .


Ditto to that, though its probably a whole new topic.

Im bi too but far more fussy about my women than I am about my men.

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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/10/2008 2:55:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz


And you have a picture with rather huge shades covering the most important thing I would want to see, 'the eyes'.

actually not a shot of just my tits because if you look a little closer its actually a cleavage and my tits are covered. Im showing more a belly and Im showing bondage.

I happen to have a job and a family and Im not blatantly going to put a mug shot up but Im happy to send one to someone I get talking to.


Why is it that some people are just plain nasty? Have a word with your self man!!!



LOL  you missed my point completly.  your whinning about your pict so you take it down and then put up a pict of yer tits.  WTF???  If looks dont matter to you, take you pict off and leave it off.   SHEESH!  OBvioulsy your far to vain to leave you pict off cuz then poor you wont get any mail so you put a pict of yer tits up and whine some more.  Go fucking figure.

BadOne

< Message edited by SailingBum -- 10/10/2008 3:05:03 PM >


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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/11/2008 12:50:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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And you have a picture with rather huge shades covering the most important thing I would want to see, 'the eyes'.

actually not a shot of just my tits because if you look a little closer its actually a cleavage and my tits are covered. Im showing more a belly and Im showing bondage.

I happen to have a job and a family and Im not blatantly going to put a mug shot up but Im happy to send one to someone I get talking to.


Why is it that some people are just plain nasty? Have a word with your self man!!!



LOL  you missed my point completly.  your whinning about your pict so you take it down and then put up a pict of yer tits.  WTF???  If looks dont matter to you, take you pict off and leave it off.   SHEESH!  OBvioulsy your far to vain to leave you pict off cuz then poor you wont get any mail so you put a pict of yer tits up and whine some more.  Go fucking figure.

BadOne


The other picture of me showed more. This one shows far less. I wasn't actually moaning.... I was laughing about it.

How can it be vanity if I am not showing my face?

The truth behind this picture is that it was just one of many in a performance done in a London club and it was not the one that was intended for my main picture. I sent 6 pics of the performance with a totally different one for my main picture but CM obviously saw it as too extreme for this site, along with the 5 others that followed the performance.

The pictures depicted very much what I like to do. They showed that I am an exhibitionist and I hold no shame in that  and they were pictures that some people on here would of recognised from on the night which I thought was a bit of fun nothing more!

< Message edited by allthatjaz -- 10/11/2008 12:51:11 AM >

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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/11/2008 1:02:18 AM   
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I think its great to come on the forums, have a giggle, a bit of fun, a light or sometimes heavy debate and even an educated discussion. I don't just use this site, in fact this is the only international site I use and I very seldom come on the boards anymore because I don't really care for personal attack, especially when they know so little about me.

I was brought up not to be outwardly rude and insulting to anyone unless they have truly insulted me. Even then I keep my calm but that's control, don't you think?

I would love to come back to these boards and enjoy them but once again I have just been reminded of why I don't.

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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/11/2008 6:32:16 AM   
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If you feel that way, why let one sour apple spoil the barrel? Use this forum as a resource for knowledge and amusement and education and ignore the ones who you feel do not add to your experiance.

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RE: Removing a profile picture - 10/11/2008 6:33:09 AM   
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Besides, your current photo added pleasantly to my experience!

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