thetammyjo
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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Rate it however you want, and then TALK to the person and explain exactly what you meant. Those checklists are really only useful if you sit down with the other person and go through them together. It can really be a great 2nd or 3rd date event. Agree with the rate it however you want but I'd actually say talk to the person(s) with said questionaires first and see what they mean by it. I personally only have questionaires once we've moved beyond the initial talking, the first lunch/dinner, and are in beginning formal negotiations. Then we fill it out together so we can talk and understand each other. Otherwise its just a series of words on a screen or a piece of paper and everything will be interpreted through the individual's lens.
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