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RE: Hair - 12/16/2005 3:57:28 PM

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You mean hair has a purpose other then pulling and playing with it? *grins*

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 12:18:31 AM

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I have just one thought to add onto the ones already posted... yes it is extremely pleasurable when the hair gets tugged or pulled while in a sensual kiss or that need for ones mouth wrapped around a raging hard on... but...

It's also quite incredible... when Master... quite out of the blue... wrapd his large hand through my hair and pulls back... elongating my throat... making it so I am unable to move at all and in fact making it so my breath is rasping and light... that sense of feeling his complete control and power is.......liberating...

Thank you kindly for letting me ramble...

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 4:00:32 AM

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I gave up my hair (except for 1/8") when I took my vows as Abbess. I gave up my hair as a reminder that all that is physical is transient, and I am not my body. My hair, up until then, had always been one of my greatest toys. I hadn't worn it truly long in years, but loved "decorating" myself with intense, vibrant, unusual haircolors and interesting cuts.

The only time I didn't really mess much with my hair was when I was a servant in the Household. My hair wasn't mine then... hmmmm... much the same way that it isn't really mine now, eh?

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 8:35:54 AM

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My hair is short and just basically refuses to grow. In general I do wish it was longer, but I wouldn't want really long hair (I know people who have it down to their ass and that to me just looks kind of limp and boring.. not much variety that can happen with it).

The big thing I like with my hair is color. Since my hair is naturally black I do like having color and highlights in it and I think in the future I may go back to braids. But other than that I don't have any particular fetish for my hair.

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 9:48:00 AM

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My parting note: Men, please don't do anything to Your Man Fur...lmao.

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Nothing like snuggling my face into his hairy chest. <grin> Ditto Candystripper

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 12:42:43 PM

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i've kept my hair long for over a decade now -- in part because it was cheaper, i could get it off my neck when i had a hot flash..lol.. and i've loved having it tugged and pulled and the feel of a man's strong hands directing me by my hair. Now, for a number of reasons i'm seriously considering cutting if off. Right now it's just below my shoulders, and i enjoy being able to do different things with me. The only thing that has kept it "long" until now is that i've kept hoping that if i ever had a partner he might prefer it long. It's become increasing difficult to care for, due to some medical problems i have that aren't gonna go away... something tells me, however, i'll be like nakedonmychain and cry everytime i look at it. i keep hearing my mother's voice telling me that old ladies shouldn't have long hair. Who knows, maybe she was right.

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 1:57:59 PM

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Dear Krikket. for some reason woman like to dictate how other woman look.Women should ask this,( Do man find that woman attractive?) before taking they'er advice. Most men i know agree with me that women look better with look hair. Hair isn't everything but,... it sure helps get our atention. Sorry to hear of heath isues. Some times you just got to do what you got to do. One great thing about hair., If you cut it, it grows back. Good luck none the less.

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 2:34:22 PM

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P S Woman of any age look good with long hair, even shiver or white.

That's one of my goals. I have always thought that women with long, long silver or white hair were utterly beautiful. There is something so graceful and goddess-like about a mature woman with flowing pale tresses. As soon a my grey hits, I'm going to throw a party.

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 3:33:54 PM

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mmmmmmmmmm i definitely love having my hair pulled, my hair is about bra strap length, and i just melt when Master makes a fist in it, total submissive response. The other thing is when He pets it, for instance when i'm sitting at His feet, He'll frequently rub and stroke it always, even if He's doing something else he'll rub it kind of absently like you'd do to a cat... it just makes me purrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 10:19:04 PM

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Dear NakedOnMyChain. Until your hair does turn gray,... injoy it's curent natural beutyful color. You do have beautyfull hair.

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P S Woman of any age look good with long hair, even shiver or white.

That's one of my goals. I have always thought that women with long, long silver or white hair were utterly beautiful. There is something so graceful and goddess-like about a mature woman with flowing pale tresses. As soon a my grey hits, I'm going to throw a party.

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RE: Hair - 12/17/2005 11:26:35 PM

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I am at the stage where my hair needs a cut becuase its getting alittle straggly - temtped to get it cut short but I do like having it held or pulled or brushed. But then have seen some pics of awesome short hair bleached or coloured and Im not a skinny wee thing so maybe..........I have to decide if that will suit me or not. Have heard the old story that women over 40 shouldnt have long hair - heres hoping its a true old wives tale!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 9:29:45 AM

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btw candystripper...what is "man fur?" Not the stuff that gets caught in my nose when I rest my face on a man's hairy chest or the stuff that grows way too long when the man demands the woman be shaven and sticks in my teeth for hours??

shygirldesires

Yup, yup...Man Fur is hair anywhere except on His head; maybe not ears and nose, but you get the idea; and i just love playing with it; and it enhances His smell which also drives me wild; i love, love, love Man Fur.

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 9:32:50 AM

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VWEG @ candystripper...... I'm in agreement with Padriag here I have a preference for long hair and smooth shaven pussies (I just hate shaving my teeth after). Still ultimately if what ever hair style suits a trik I'm usually happy with that too. Neets has hair with a redish touch in it down to her waste and mine reaches to about 4" from my waste when wet (it has a curl to it when dry and has a redish tinge mixed with the grey and blond ~ Scots/Viking ancestory there). Friends tell me that when not in a good mood and my hair not tied back and wet (like first thing in the morning) I'd pass for the Undertaker if I had more tatts (Ahhhh well may be in the next couple of years I can afford to get the tatts I've designed done)....... Neets and I have been married for four and a half years and the last time my hair was cut was two weeks before we got married. I just have the ends tidied when needs be.

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OOOOOOOO, long hair on a Man....Yummmmmmmmm.

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 9:37:06 AM

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i keep hearing my mother's voice telling me that old ladies shouldn't have long hair. Who knows, maybe she was right.

krikket

sweetie, i am sorry you're ill; but the old rule about having short hair only after a certain age is not applicable anymore. Do what you feel will make you feel better. As for me, i had to fiddle much more when my hair was short than i do now. It all depends on the texture, etc., of your hair.

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 9:44:30 AM

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Ok, I admit, mine is long. But it's also very annoying lol. I have naturally curly hair...has a complete mind of its own :( And the longer it gets, the curlier it gets...don't figure. I have had it chopped off on occassion, usually when I get frustrated with it...and then the inevitable happens...I cry. So now, its been probably 4 years since I had it cut, with the exception of the once in awhile trims...and it's just as unruly as ever.

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 11:17:43 AM

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Ok, I admit, mine is long. But it's also very annoying lol. I have naturally curly hair...has a complete mind of its own :( And the longer it gets, the curlier it gets...don't figure. I have had it chopped off on occassion, usually when I get frustrated with it...and then the inevitable happens...I cry. So now, its been probably 4 years since I had it cut, with the exception of the once in awhile trims...and it's just as unruly as ever.

Yeah....I have that wild, crazy, curly, frizzy stuff too. There are lots of hair products that help to tame it. But in my many years of trying to work with my mane, I've found that a light touch of coconut oil or a good quality skin lotion rubbed into my hair after shampooing and when it is dry, starting at the ends, has done wonders. Keeps it much softer and easier to work with. For work, I usually braid it and wind it into a spiral on the back of my head. Beats the days when it was short and still all over the place. When I'm with Him, I leave it wildly flowing down my back. It suits my personality just perfectly!

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 11:20:25 AM

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Cocunut oil? or Skin lotion? Really? I have gone through every conditioner, and every available product on the market for hair like this and nothing works lol. I will have to try that. Thanks Sunshine :)

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 3:00:51 PM

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ladies....visit the local Sally's or whatever stylist supply store you have, and ask for products designed for Black women...i have a huge jar of shampoo & conditioner & it makes a great difference...though i still need to control frizzes. But i'm telling ya, this stuff is great.

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 3:04:12 PM

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LOL Candy.....YOu have beautiful hair...

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RE: Hair - 12/18/2005 7:17:16 PM

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Yeah....I have that wild, crazy, curly, frizzy stuff too. There are lots of hair products that help to tame it. But in my many years of trying to work with my mane, I've found that a light touch of coconut oil or a good quality skin lotion rubbed into my hair after shampooing and when it is dry, starting at the ends, has done wonders. Keeps it much softer and easier to work with. For work, I usually braid it and wind it into a spiral on the back of my head. Beats the days when it was short and still all over the place. When I'm with Him, I leave it wildly flowing down my back. It suits my personality just perfectly!

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Cocunut oil? or Skin lotion? Really? I have gone through every conditioner, and every available product on the market for hair like this and nothing works lol. I will have to try that. Thanks Sunshine :)

Try BIOSILK and NOT the fake Sally's shit (been there done that ~ waste of money)...made by Farouk Systems...WELL worth the money..about $38. for 11.6 fl oz
Can even be used for shaving that man fur in the sensitive area so no hairball remedy is needed or keeping one's our kitty snatch soft and smooth.

i had badly damaged hair from swimming in chlorinated pools and my hair has made almost a 100% turn about in 3 months. Fantastic stuff.... but if you like the cheaper stuff, you'll never know the power, control of the real genuine not wannabe thing!!