Hair (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion



Message

candystripper -> Hair (12/14/2005 9:31:16 AM)

Here's a post on the joys of hair. TY to KatyLied and JohnWarren for the idea for this Op.

My hair is very thick and falls to a bit past shoulder length. i am growing it out. i melt into a puddle when:

~someone else brushes my hair

~someone else washes my hair

~A Man pulls my hair to kiss me, or to show me what He wants in a bj

~A Man runs His fingers through my hair.

~someone compliments me on my hair.

i think it's fair to say i have a hair fetish; and BTW; i love doing all these things to a Man. And in addition to His scalp, i love Man Fur (the more the better) and playing with it. i could play with His Man Fur for hours, very contentedly.

So, do You have feelings about hair, and if so, what are they?

candystripper



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 9:49:35 AM)

I tried to screen for topics that are related more to the feelings associated with hair and not the numerous topics of hair removal/maintenence:

Hair/shaving

A hairy issue...

Long Hair



KatyLied -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 10:04:31 AM)

Yum, good discussion, huh?

I'm growing my hair out. I don't know how long I will last before I get a few inches chopped off, but I'm trying.

I love, love, love having my hair tugged on grasped, grabbed, pulled, I don't care, can't go wrong, as I've said before, with any of that stuff. It's the dom caveman thing, I guess.



NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 10:10:42 AM)

I love it! I agree with you totally. I cut my hair off very short almost five years ago, and I cried so hard after it was done. My hair hangs down to the small of my back now (it took that long to grow it all back) and I couldn't be happier! I turn into a drooling gelatinous mass when someone plays with it.

Another hair fetish I have is chest hair. I can't stand bare chests on men, and overly hairy chests aren't attractive to me either. I love perfect male chest hair, though. A thick, but not too thick sprinkling of hair down the middle of the chest and across the pecs is perfect. I got lucky and master has it. I'll lay on his chest and play with his chest hair for long periods of time and be utterly happy.


Edited to add: My hair length is a quasi-religious thing to me as well. It's too long to really get into here, but let's suffice it to say that doing ritual with short hair just doesn't feel right to me. There's something profoundly spiritual about dancing naked with my hair flowing everywhere.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 10:13:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied
It's the dom caveman thing, I guess.

It's also pleasure sensors and happy brain chemical reactions. Almost everyone loves having their hair pulled sensuously and their scalp light scratched. It's a standard move I include when I give someone a massage.

I have no real emotional attachment to my hair. I enjoy it, I enjoy that I can make it pretty and enjoy using it as an accessory to my body. I'm lucky to have great hair that looks good in just about any length and a variety of styles. But I don't cry if it gets cut.

Every 5 years or so I completely cut it back or change it. As we grow and mature, I think we need to let our clothes and hair reflect that. Nothing worse than someone who has a haircut that's totally wrong for their personality/age/style.

I also don't like it when women grow their hair long long looong and don't take care of the ends. It ends up looking stringly, scraggly and just pointless.

I'd still like to get my hair in braids, put some hot pink or neon green chunks in, or completely shave myself bald. But who knows when that will happen.




truesub4u -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 10:51:03 AM)

[:o] I miss my hair now Candy.. thanks... LOL

I had my hair behind my knees back in the early 90's. I lost in a fire having a curtain rod ablazed fall on my back while sleeping on a couch at a friends. (nothing worse than that) But that was enough.

I had managed to get it to grow back to just about my ass when I cut it because some meds I was taking was making it fall out in big hand fulls. (Off those meds now thank God!)

So it's finally growing again. Just getting past the shoulders again. Wish the back grew as fast as my bangs!.. LOL

But when it comes to making me puddy.... mess with the hair.

Brushing my hair......... total forplay to me...lol...

Pull the hair, tugging, gripping tightly..... I no longer have control.

I think my hair, is my viagra so to speak.... LOL

Great topic Candy.. can't wait to see others responses to this.

As far as mens hair... I love a man who has hair on chest... and more so that line that travels downward. The then line that travel down to a more.... introduction... of pleasant things... [:D] Not that big of fan of hair on the back, but love a good teddy bear to snuggle up with too. I think that part would depend on gentleman at hand. If other things about him attracted me. That wouldn't be a problem.



MHOO314 -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 11:03:11 AM)

I say, if hair wasn't made to be colored, it wouldn't be so much fun doing it----smiles



sub4hire -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 11:13:38 AM)

quote:

So, do You have feelings about hair, and if so, what are they?


It cover's my head and keeps it warm when it is cold outside.



truesub4u -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 11:23:20 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire


It cover's my head and keeps it warm when it is cold outside.




[:D] Come on........ you gotta love this comment!

Thanks sub4hire, I needed the laugh this afternoon.



Rassitter -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 12:20:13 PM)

Well, from my perspective, I love long hair on a woman. I love pulling hair. I love when I am taking a woman from behind and can pull it back like reins on a horse, I love stroking it while receiving head, I love when they put a pony tail in and I use it like a joystick controling her. Something very impowering in wrapping your hand into another persons hair and using it to control their motions.



iamMasters -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 12:23:41 PM)

I love it when he wipes his cock in my hair, don't know why but it really does something for me



MsIncognito -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 12:30:40 PM)

Man fur *shudder*

No thanks.

I like hair on people's heads. It's fun to play with, can smell great and be a wonderful sensory toy. I prefer people who are less hairy from the neck down because I love skin - touching, licking, stroking, kissing and all that good stuff. Can't do any of that if it's covered in man fur *shudder*



plantlady64 -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 12:34:27 PM)

Hello All,
I love hairy men & having my hair played with or pulled. I also prefer to have a shortly shaved snatch to the bald one I maintain for my Master.
I think it looks very strange to me to see a man with a shaved crotch. It's not half as sexy as man hair there for me.
I thnk if we were supposed to be bald crotched we would be that way naturally.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne



KatyLied -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 12:53:13 PM)

sub4hire:
quote:

It cover's my head and keeps it warm when it is cold outside.


She needs her hair pulled!



Aileen68 -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 1:11:55 PM)

Ahhh hair. I love my hair. I've had it super super short and super super long. I'm in a long phase now and really liking it. I always wanted a green mohawk when I was in high school, but I valued the roof over my head. It was made very clear by my father that if I ever came home with one, then I'd better have another place to sleep. Oh well...maybe some day. Anyway. I absolutely love to have my hair pulled and to be lead around by a big hand all twisted and twirled up in my tresses. An extreme weak point for me. Makes my knees shakey. There's nothing better than looking at yourself in the mirror after a good romp and your hair is all tousled and has that "I've just been fucked really hard" look.



Sensualips -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 1:36:47 PM)

I echo all the sentiments on enjoying having hair pulled, tugged, etc.

I chopped all my hair off at 14 and have had it short ever since, from super short to just short short. Different styles but very short. I have a Dom play partner / friend and when we started he made two requests of me. 1) That when we were around his submissive and public munches/play parties that I referred to him as Sir and basically used "public manners." 2) That I not cut my hair until he offered permission to do so.

Now I LIKE my hair short. And I used to get it trimmed once a month. After three and a half months it is at this incredibly awkward stage where I can't do anything with it and it hangs in my eyes. It is very irritating and initially I was annoyed over it multiple times a day. It is hard to manage, I can't style it the way I used to, and I am not sure what type of length or cut I am growing it into. I mean, what is the goal here?

Now I have decided it sort of fits my life. I am growing out my life.



thetammyjo -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 1:37:45 PM)

I myself look stupid if my hair is short -- its is to the bottom of my shoulder blade, auburn and very curly. Both husband and slave love playing with with the spirals.

Love having my hair brushed or washed. Anyone gripping or grabbing my hair though gets an immediate smack upside the head or in the groin -- gee, guess which orientation I am, huh?

On my partners though, male or female, I prefer hair that is long enough to wrap in my fist but no longer. I find it gets in my way when I want to do something. I can still grab short hair, in fact its more painful when its short so that's one of my sadistic streaks.

I also find stroking someone else's hair to be very relaxing for me.



SelkiePet1 -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 2:29:20 PM)

well, for 20+ years I had long, long hair - to mid-thigh - long, wavy and very thick. Then 1 year ago I cut it off to just below my shoulders - and voila - all of a sudden curls - I forgot they were there!

I think the important thing about hair is to wear it the way it suits the person - you want to be known for who you are, NOT the girl with the long hair - I have no regrets.




nephandi -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 2:59:10 PM)

i love head hair, mine is short but in the prosess of getting long again. Both me and my Master prefer it long, so mutch more can be done whit it, and i have nice thoick hair to be proud of, and Master feel that my value would increase whit long hair, and i want to increase in my valuse to him.



sweetpettjenny -> RE: Hair (12/14/2005 4:28:50 PM)

I have verryyyy short hair now and I love it short. Although i do love hair play and pulling , i love the fact that i look good with my hair at the length its at.



Page: [1] 2 3 4   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125