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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/29/2008 4:27:20 PM

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I reckon you have probably just torn yourself. Believe it or not this can cause spotting for several days after, as being in the place it is when you walk it moves, and also peeing on it.
Genital tearing's and such usually heal quite quickly. To make the peeing side abit more bearable try pouring water in the area at the same time. Also a good idea if you think you have a UTI as could pass bacteria onto the cut.
Try wearing loose slacks and cottons pants for a while to.

Also advisable to say away from sex and anything else going to close to the area for a good week or so.

(student nurse in training..hehe)

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/29/2008 4:45:59 PM

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I reckon you have probably just torn yourself. Believe it or not this can cause spotting for several days after, as being in the place it is when you walk it moves, and also peeing on it.
Genital tearing's and such usually heal quite quickly. To make the peeing side abit more bearable try pouring water in the area at the same time. Also a good idea if you think you have a UTI as could pass bacteria onto the cut.
Try wearing loose slacks and cottons pants for a while to.

Also advisable to say away from sex and anything else going to close to the area for a good week or so.

(student nurse in training..hehe)

thanks for this, as well as the others who offered their advice here, thank you all!.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/29/2008 5:05:51 PM

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No offense to the student-nurse-in-training, but with a visible tear plus pain on urination, you really should see a medical professional.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/29/2008 5:30:50 PM

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I didnt say she shouldnt Calif, i was advising her on what to do until she see's her doctor. As she has already mentioned, she will go when she can.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/29/2008 6:43:07 PM

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I'm not as familiar with vagina fisting. I know with anal there is no such thing as too much lube, and we have played with many different mixtures until we found one that was manageable and sufficiently slippery enough to make us both happy. Would vagina fisting also require the extensive lubrication???

I would imagine it depends on how much natural lubrication you produce. I am exceptionally naturally lubricated even when I'm not excited, and have never needed lube for fisting.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/29/2008 11:31:45 PM

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When i was fisted i tore in the area between the vagina and anus, same area they often cut for child birth. It bled a little for a few days but healed qucikly.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/30/2008 2:18:03 PM

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Checkin' in on/with the OP. Did you get to the doctor yet?
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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/30/2008 8:49:05 PM

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well, im not a nurse in training, i am a nurse, OP. my strongest suggestion is not to wait, but to go to the Dr as soon as you can. yes, these things can heal on their own.. eventually. they can also scar and get infected. and, as you describe, you dont know how far the tear went. it could even have damaged your cervix. why girls play aroound when they are injured, i have no clue.

please, update us on your condition.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/30/2008 9:21:12 PM

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Are we sure it was the labia and not just the perenium? Just a thought, when I have torn in the past it was always back, not forward and it heals with time and patience.

As to fisting stretching you out; nope, not a problem here. It isn't something that we do often, I am often sore after, but I absolutely love the feeling of Daddy's hand inside me. I have given birth and I liken the feeling of him finally getting past his knuckles as similar to the feeling of the baby crowning. It is a powerful experience and one that I recommend, when done with care.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/31/2008 12:26:31 AM

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your have tear something inportant . i know you want this to happen but it is not always meant to be. if your still bleeding you need to have ahpla pay for a very real visit to a real doctor who has a specail interest in anal injuries . please do this it is danger to still be bleeding do not waitt to long /

good luck and take care

mons ( when i first had anal sex i bleed and it went away please go as soon as possible and you may want to try something else

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/31/2008 6:26:14 AM

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^^It was vaginal fisting, fyi.

Just stopping by to say that I have an appointment with the student health center next Tuesday. I know I'm making them work on election day, but they've been out sick for two weeks now, I think they can dedicate a few minutes to the students whose insurance depends on them. It's been enough of a wait. I guess what goes down there will decide what happens next. As for the state of things down there- no more soreness, no more stinging when I pee, a little bruising. Still haven't tried inserting anything but I won't until I talk to a professional. Again, thanks to everyone who posted their thoughts for me.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/31/2008 6:45:50 AM

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Good to hear that you are on the mend. I was frightened at the thought of "something giving way".

What a terrible irony, the Student Health Center closed for over 2 weeks due to illness.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 10/31/2008 3:03:10 PM

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Glad to hear they won't have to amputate.

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RE: Bleeding after my first fisting, thoughts? - 11/3/2008 7:27:50 AM

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quote:

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I'm not as familiar with vagina fisting. I know with anal there is no such thing as too much lube, and we have played with many different mixtures until we found one that was manageable and sufficiently slippery enough to make us both happy. Would vagina fisting also require the extensive lubrication???

greetings Hereyesruponyou

my first fisting experience was in a public dungeon, and the Dominant doing the fisting is extremely well known in our area and has the reputation of being a Great fister. He told me that the secret to a good fisting is using 4 times more lube than You think You need

well wishes,
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